I don't understand women......

Seriously.

I don't even know if women today actually want to be with nice guys. All the relationships I see anymore are of women with jerks. I've dated a number of times but how it ends never makes sense to me. My previous relationship ended in a way that didn't even make sense to me. She and her friends had stated numerous times that they were glad she ended up with a "nice guy" for once that would treat her right (which I did). But she didn't want to go to college as a virgin and broke up with me because I wouldn't "put out", so she went and slept with one of her ex's. Now I've been labelled as a jerk by her and her friends.

I seriously don't understand women. Many say they want a nice guy to treat them with respect, but is this all a lie? I know plenty of great guys, but they never get dates because of that very reason. So what's going on here girls? Do women want guys who will respect them even more, or has society changed somuch that we are a turn off?

Sparticus247

Men may never truly understand women, but one thing I am sure of is that all women want at least two of these things: a good-looking bastard with money.

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[QUOTE="Pearl_of_Egypt"]you know, I was always that girl who would go for the so called "nice guys". I'd never be attracted to jerks, and I went for the nice guys who weren't as attractive but who supposedly treated women right, and I can tell you from experience that every single one ended up being the biggest jerk, worse than the other so called "jerks" women go for. so maybe, nice guys don't get girls because they aren't as nice as they think. Pearl_of_Egypt

I am sorry but I think you got tricked many a time.

There are actual nice guys like myself and then there are the guys who ACT nice to try and get in your pants.

Believe me, I have a friend who has had her heart broken many times because she thought a guy was nice and then he eventually showed his true face at some point...

Thats one more thing I hate about being a nice guy. I am always afraid that I will be mistaken as a faker....

no these weren't the kind of guys pretending to be nice to get in my pants. they were the kind of nice, shy guys that women tend to ignore. I always liked them for their personality, but then I would always find out along the way what kind of people they really were. and in some cases, they were the nice, fun guys that supposedly respected women, and they still ended up being jerks. the nice guys are only nice when they have no or little experience with women, and once they get over that, that's when their true face comes out. not saying all nice guys, you may be a real nice one, but in my experience it was pretty much all of them.

They weren't nice then just lacking confidence and their timidness made them seem like they were nice.

They only showed respect because they didn't think they were good enough, not because they truly appreciated you.

I know I am a nice guy because I have confidence just it gets knocked down by my anxiety problem. The girl I like just wowed me because of how great of a person she is. I might make a move if I got to talk to her more often and actually got to see her. I haven't seen her in years and now I kinda feel like I screwed up and missed my shot.