I kinda like this girl at my church. She's really cool and pretty.

She plays the keyboard in worship for the youth group and I recently started to play acoustic guitar. It's a small group. This girl is beautiful and talented. I'm really good friends with her dad, who sings and sometimes plays bass in the main Sunday worship. I don't know if it would work out or if she would want me to be more than a friend to her...just a thought.

So long as you can last a long time without sex, go for it.

You could try talking to her and tell her that you like her.

What are you asking? MrPraline

I'm asking if I should go for it.

BTW she's also the pastor's niece.

her name wouldn't happen to be Keri would it?

So long as you can last a long time without sex, go for it.

bangell99

What would Jesus do? :|

If you like the girl, then talk to her, simple as that.

I wouldn't rush it...see if she seems to like you.

[QUOTE="MrPraline"]What are you asking? DragonRebel0908

I'm asking if I should go for it.

BTW she's also the pastor's niece.

church girls are nothing but trouble.......and yes...speaking from experience...Omni-Slash

I'm not looking for sex, people. I'm looking for a nice girl to love.

Blasphemic feelings ftw

what have you not done? :lol:twilightpanda

I'm not looking for sex, people. I'm looking for a nice girl to love.

DragonRebel0908

I'm not looking for sex, people. I'm looking for a nice girl to love.

DragonRebel0908

[QUOTE="MrPraline"]Go for it and ask her, the only way you'll find out. DragonRebel0908

NOOOOOOO.

Then how do you expect her to know?

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

I'm not looking for sex, people. I'm looking for a nice girl to love.

Omni-Slash

I can't remain a lonely man. I need a special someone.

You don't have a chance. Give it up.

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"]what have you not done? :lol:Omni-Slash

She probably wouldn't want to date me.

I can't remain a lonely man. I need a special someone.

DragonRebel0908

just so long as she isn't spoiled and overly-zealous in her faith...

I got screwed over big time by a very churchey girl... most evil son of a beach I've ever met.

What would Jesus do? :|

pvtdonut54

Is she a nun?

lol you inspire me Mr.Omni :lol:twilightpanda

oh, and man up... "looking for a special someone to love"?? talk like that aint gonna get u ANYWHERE with women. shes gonna have u whipped in 2 days and want nothing more to do with you.

You don't have a chance. Give it up.

TecmoGirl

I don't understand whatyou mean by this.

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

I can't remain a lonely man. I need a special someone.

Omni-Slash

I guess because its bottled all up? ;)

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"] lol you inspire me Mr.Omni :lol:Omni-Slash

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

You don't have a chance. Give it up.

avatar_genius

I don't understand whatyou mean by this.

She probably wouldn't want to date me.

You're absolutely right. Knowing yourself is the first step to not wasting her time.

Kiss my butt, jerk.

[QUOTE="avatar_genius"]

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

You don't have a chance. Give it up.

TecmoGirl

I don't understand whatyou mean by this.

She probably wouldn't want to date me.

You're absolutely right. Knowing yourself is the first step to not wasting her time.

right on... if u have no confidence then ur already screwed- I would avoid talking to her until you've had time to gain confidence and man up... if ur in a place where u can't do that, then don't bother- u'll only get hurt.

She probably wouldn't want to date me.

DragonRebel0908

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

[QUOTE="MrPraline"]Go for it and ask her, the only way you'll find out. avatar_genius

NOOOOOOO.

Then how do you expect her to know?

So long as you can last a long time without sex, go for it.

bangell99

She probably wouldn't want to date me.

DragonRebel0908

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

She probably wouldn't want to date me.

lenson

unless ur like really overweight or something...

if shes smokin hot, and ur like 400lbs or whatnot then its not so much risk we're talking- its more like praying for a miracle...

but seriously man, if u want a chance with her u gotta flirt and attract her attention... try to hang out with her after church - get some mutual church friends and all yall go out to lunch- if she gives u the cold shoulder and doesn't look at you or respond to anything you say to her then shes probably not interested... but if she flirts back feelings may develop on her end- u don't have to be so random and just walk up to her and ask for a date.

1. Gain the Confidance to talk to her.

2. Talk to her (Ask her what she likes, etc).

There should be ATLEAST Two Possible outcomes:

a. She'll like you (Then take things VERY slow).

b. She WON'T like you (Then move on to another girl).

Hope that helps.

She might like you but is too afraid to tell you because of what you might think.

There's no magical formula to getting a girl's heart, it is either going to happen or it's not.

[QUOTE="bangell99"]

So long as you can last a long time without sex, go for it.

carrot-cake

What would Jesus do? :|

pvtdonut54

That made me laugh, why not just talk to her and tell her?

Just because she's a church girl doesn't mean she's not sex-crazed. ;)

[QUOTE="lenson"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

She probably wouldn't want to date me.

Scoob64

unless ur like really overweight or something...

if shes smokin hot, and ur like 400lbs or whatnot then its not so much risk we're talking- its more like praying for a miracle...

but seriously man, if u want a chance with her u gotta flirt and attract her attention... try to hang out with her after church - get some mutual church friends and all yall go out to lunch- if she gives u the cold shoulder and doesn't look at you or respond to anything you say to her then shes probably not interested... but if she flirts back feelings may develop on her end- u don't have to be so random and just walk up to her and ask for a date.

I'm just really nervous. I don't want to "fail" or whatever. She does seem to be pretty nice.