I kinda like this girl at my church. She's really cool and pretty.

I'm just really nervous. I don't want to "fail" or whatever. She does seem to be pretty nice.

DragonRebel0908

[QUOTE="Scoob64"]

[QUOTE="lenson"] Why would you say that? Are you two on speaking terms? Are you friends? If you are worried about jeopardizing the relationship you have with her now, by attempting to establish something more, my opinion is it is always better to act on your feelings rather than give up ahead of time and regret it later. Sure you are taking a risk, but its better to take a risk with the possibility of gaining something than to do nothing at all. You gain nothing from sitting still. DragonRebel0908

unless ur like really overweight or something...

if shes smokin hot, and ur like 400lbs or whatnot then its not so much risk we're talking- its more like praying for a miracle...

but seriously man, if u want a chance with her u gotta flirt and attract her attention... try to hang out with her after church - get some mutual church friends and all yall go out to lunch- if she gives u the cold shoulder and doesn't look at you or respond to anything you say to her then shes probably not interested... but if she flirts back feelings may develop on her end- u don't have to be so random and just walk up to her and ask for a date.

I'm just really nervous. I don't want to "fail" or whatever. She does seem to be pretty nice.

P.S. DON'T seem so desperate.

Try talking with her more and see if it OK with her dad if u can date her.

My God. Just talk to her. It's not that hard to figure out.

1. Go to Church
2. Talk to Girl
3. Pray
4. ?????
5. PROFIT!!!!

[QUOTE="Scoob64"]

[QUOTE="lenson"] Why would you say that? Are you two on speaking terms? Are you friends? If you are worried about jeopardizing the relationship you have with her now, by attempting to establish something more, my opinion is it is always better to act on your feelings rather than give up ahead of time and regret it later. Sure you are taking a risk, but its better to take a risk with the possibility of gaining something than to do nothing at all. You gain nothing from sitting still. DragonRebel0908

unless ur like really overweight or something...

if shes smokin hot, and ur like 400lbs or whatnot then its not so much risk we're talking- its more like praying for a miracle...

but seriously man, if u want a chance with her u gotta flirt and attract her attention... try to hang out with her after church - get some mutual church friends and all yall go out to lunch- if she gives u the cold shoulder and doesn't look at you or respond to anything you say to her then shes probably not interested... but if she flirts back feelings may develop on her end- u don't have to be so random and just walk up to her and ask for a date.

I'm just really nervous. I don't want to "fail" or whatever. She does seem to be pretty nice.

u can't be nervous man... u gotta relax...

girls like to feel appreciated, protected- they also like it if u are comfortable enough with yourself to have a sense of humor... if u are a nervous wreck she will be turned off by that...

oh, and girls like guys who are strong, and willing to fight for them- a badass so to speak... so u gotta put aside some of your more possible passive religious views and show her u have a bad boy side... works for me anyway :)

1. Go to Church
2. Talk to Girl
3. Pray
4. ?????
5. PROFIT!!!!

pvtdonut54

1. Go to Church
2. Talk to Girl
3. Pray
4. ?????
5. PROFIT!!!!

pvtdonut54

Go for it. I hear church girls are the most freakiest.MgamerBD

It's all that supressed lust energy.

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]Go for it. I hear church girls are the most freakiest.avatar_genius

It's all that supressed lust energy.

[QUOTE="pvtdonut54"]

1. Go to Church
2. Talk to Girl
3. Pray
4. ?????
5. PROFIT!!!!

-Chimera-

That's great. All the girls in my church that are near my age arn't cool :(

[QUOTE="-Chimera-"][QUOTE="pvtdonut54"]

1. Go to Church
2. Talk to Girl
3. Pray
4. ?????
5. PROFIT!!!!

pvtdonut54

What would Jesus do? :|

pvtdonut54

He would prob Tap that :P :twisted:

[QUOTE="pvtdonut54"]

1. Go to Church
2. Talk to Girl
3. Pray
4. ?????
5. PROFIT!!!!

-Chimera-

:lol: all of u people here on GS are funny !!!!!!

[QUOTE="pvtdonut54"]

[QUOTE="-Chimera-"] 6. Get rejected 7. Post about it on Gamespot-Chimera-

[QUOTE="avatar_genius"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]Go for it. I hear church girls are the most freakiest.MgamerBD

It's all that supressed lust energy.

[QUOTE="-Chimera-"][QUOTE="pvtdonut54"]

1. Go to Church
2. Talk to Girl
3. Pray
4. ?????
5. PROFIT!!!!

Norg

:lol: all of u people here on GS are funny !!!!!!

That's what she said.

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]Go for it. I hear church girls are the most freakiest.avatar_genius

It's all that supressed lust energy.

The biggest factor I see in this is your religious views. Are you both religious in a similar way? I assume you are, if you go to the same church, but you never know..Elemayo

[QUOTE="avatar_genius"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]Go for it. I hear church girls are the most freakiest.mindstorm

It's all that supressed lust energy.

At which point the volcano bursts.

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

I can't remain a lonely man. I need a special someone.

Omni-Slash

quoted for truth... There is something about church girls that make them sex crazed, and also obsessive. I'd watch out for her, there are other girls out there.

[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"]

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

I can't remain a lonely man. I need a special someone.

bigdrew172

quoted for truth... There is something about church girls that make them sex crazed, and also obsessive. I'd watch out for her, there are other girls out there.

Go for it, why wouldn't it work.. ?:)-katamarina-

Because she'll say "no" and it'll probably be awkard to talk to her anymore.

[QUOTE="MrPraline"]Go for it and ask her, the only way you'll find out. DragonRebel0908

NOOOOOOO.

pastors niece + you know her dad + you don't want her just for a quick one = avoid it.astiop

[QUOTE="astiop"]pastors niece + you know her dad + you don't want her just for a quick one = avoid it.mindstorm

[QUOTE="-katamarina-"]Go for it, why wouldn't it work.. ?:)DragonRebel0908

Because she'll say "no" and it'll probably be awkard to talk to her anymore.

I'm not looking for sex, people. I'm looking for a nice girl to love.

DragonRebel0908

[QUOTE="MrPraline"]Go for it and ask her, the only way you'll find out. DragonRebel0908

NOOOOOOO.

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

[QUOTE="MrPraline"]Go for it and ask her, the only way you'll find out. MrPraline

NOOOOOOO.

If she says no then we won't be able to be friends anymore.

Never ask a girl that, have her come to you, women will let you know if they want you, because they always show their emotions while men dont. also you should not have a woman take the leadership role of choosing. I am pretty sure this is the best advice, plus I think it makes a lot more sence then men taking the brunt all the time. Meh, I really do not get how people meet up and marry anyways, seems like a crule game. Just no.1 the girl should be the one asking, just read the bible in the ot, were that one women before the book of Samuel goes to the man and ask him to marry her. Obviously there is nothing wrong with women asking men out since they are more obvious when they want to go out. The real thing is first have a home before you do marry, I think its pointless to date if you do not have a home in my opinion.

There is a reason you feel uncomfortable, just forget about her, it would be easy to ask a woman if it felt obvious.

[QUOTE="MrPraline"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

NOOOOOOO.

DragonRebel0908

If she says no then we won't be able to be friends anymore.

If she's the kind of person with whom you could no longer be friends if she were to turn you down, then a relationship wouldn't work anyway. If you're already friends with her, you shouldn't make it a big deal; that's only making it worse for youself.

Also, if you're friends with other guys at the church, ask them about it. They'll know her and you better than anyone on Gamespot.

If she says no then we won't be able to be friends anymore.

DragonRebel0908

That's not true, whatsoever. I told this one girl how I felt about her, how I really liked her, but nothing ever panned out. Now, we're really close friends.

[QUOTE="MrPraline"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

NOOOOOOO.

DragonRebel0908

If she says no then we won't be able to be friends anymore.

[QUOTE="MrPraline"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

NOOOOOOO.

DragonRebel0908

If she says no then we won't be able to be friends anymore.

Also, how old are you and how old is she? You called her a girl and referred to yourself as a man. :?

Unless this is a Catholic school with nuns who'll beat you to a pulp for holding hands is where you're going, just talk to her like any other girl. It's the standard stuff. Get to know her, ask her out the works.

Also golden rule of asking any girl out: get to know them first. Could be pretty but they could be a total wretch personality-wise.

Also, how old are you and how old is she? You called her a girl and referred to yourself as a man. :?

fireball_016

21 and 17.

Is that okay?

Is that okay?

DragonRebel0908

[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

Is that okay?

Vaasman

I don't follow any stupid number rules. Love =/= math.

Is that okay?

DragonRebel0908