Feel you bud.
I let this girl know I like her, but I get nothing out of it. Not even a 'I don't know'. Just a vacant 'Oh, that's sweet.'
Yes, no? Dumb broad. >_>
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Feel you bud.
I let this girl know I like her, but I get nothing out of it. Not even a 'I don't know'. Just a vacant 'Oh, that's sweet.'
Yes, no? Dumb broad. >_>
just a side note....I know plenty of "nice guys" who are shallow pricks...... and it's rather strange to think you're attractive....usually the proof is in the pudding.....girls will date a "nice guy" as long as he's good looking and not completely socially inept.....Omni-SlashI don't think I'm attractive. I just know I'm not ugly. There's a difference lol. I think Orlando Bloom is good looking, I think Chace Crawford is good looking... When I said I'm not ugly, I mean like.. I don't look like a hobo without teeth, who hasn't bathed or something.
OMG Yes. That was the exact reaction when I first told her. "Aww thanks, that's sweet." WTF? [QUOTE="nocoolnamejim"]Being good in the romance department is a skill that takes practice and learning like any other skill. Emotional intelligence and intellectual intelligence are not the same thing. Give it time and have patience. While you're doing that, work on developing this sort of skill set. After a date, play back the things that happened during the date and the reactions/facial/body expressions of the woman you were out with. Often times you'll be able to figure out things that help you the next time around. It sounds cold, but you need to approach learning how to deal with women the same way you approach any other learning aspect. Given that you have a good chance of getting into Yale, you're probably not unequiped from a brains standpoint. You've probably learned the sort of best practices that teach you how to get proficient at any particular subject. Apply that to this area. Thanks.Feel you bud.
I let this girl know I like her, but I get nothing out of it. Not even a 'I don't know'. Just a vacant 'Oh, that's sweet.'
Yes, no? Dumb broad. >_>
supa_badman
[QUOTE="supa_badman"]OMG Yes. That was the exact reaction when I first told her. "Aww thanks, that's sweet." WTF? LOlOL, Fellas fellas, you ain't alone with this, I actually received that one from before.. I was a Freshmen, she was a Senior. Oh well >_>Feel you bud.
I let this girl know I like her, but I get nothing out of it. Not even a 'I don't know'. Just a vacant 'Oh, that's sweet.'
Yes, no? Dumb broad. >_>
th3warr1or
My final word: It's all about the panty-dropper lines. And to formulate those, you need good source material. I suggest watching chick flicks and other romantic forms of media and start busting out those lines.Sky-Any recommendations?
Women crave confidence. And a-holes tend to show lots of it, that's why it appears that girls prefer to hang out with them. If you haven't shown obvious signs of interest to a woman, then you should do it quite soon.one_plumPerfect anwser. /Thread. Treading between confident and arrogant is key though.
[QUOTE="Sky-"]My final word: It's all about the panty-dropper lines. And to formulate those, you need good source material. I suggest watching chick flicks and other romantic forms of media and start busting out those lines.th3warr1orAny recommendations? I'll give you one good line bro, it's my ultimate timate timate line. "Loving you is like breathing, how can I possibly stop."
[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="Sky-"]My final word: It's all about the panty-dropper lines. And to formulate those, you need good source material. I suggest watching chick flicks and other romantic forms of media and start busting out those lines.Bloodseeker23Any recommendations? I'll give you one good line bro, it's my ultimate timate timate line. "Loving you is like breathing, how can I possibly stop." Lol, badass. I think I'll tell her I love her tomorrow, and ask her if she feels the same way... Except, I've got to plan for disaster.. Do we stop becoming friends if it goes unfavorably? I need to do something fast to get out of the friendzone.
Aye, you don't know how many times I could tell a woman was interested in me but all I did was shy away. They all eventually stopped seeing me.[QUOTE="Pvt_r3d"][QUOTE="one_plum"]Women crave confidence. And a-holes tend to show lots of it, that's why it appears that girls prefer to hang out with them. If you haven't shown obvious signs of interest to a woman, then you should do it quite soon.one_plum
It seems like you have the "looks" department covered already.
More of the opposite. I make them laugh, and give them a good time but once they get a little too close to me for some reason I end up reverting back to my shy introverted self. It gets real awkward when me and a girl are alone together somewhere. Which happens too much in college.[QUOTE="enterawesome"]Not sound rude, but you do sound a bit... egotisitc the way you present the topic. "I'm rich, I am very attractive, I'm kind-hearted, and I'm very intelligent. Why do people not go out with me if I am so superior?1!!1" Don't have a big ego, don't just expect people to treat you extremely well because you have some nice traits, be confident, and you'll do fine.th3warr1orWhat's the difference in between confident and over-confident. I mean when you're over-confident but you actually have the things you're confident about, that just makes you egoistical, but then where do you draw the line at?
No. Confidence + Ignorance = Arrogance.
[QUOTE="Sky-"]My final word: It's all about the panty-dropper lines. And to formulate those, you need good source material. I suggest watching chick flicks and other romantic forms of media and start busting out those lines.th3warr1orAny recommendations?"You must be Windows 95, because you're making me very unstable!" "If I can run Crysis, I can run you all night, babe." "You've got me stuck on Caps Lock, if you know what I mean." "My hard drive is the biggest you've ever seen." Good luck! :)
To be honest I've not used any of those extremely mushy pickup lines in the past because I don't want to become some p***whipped guy that says "How high?" when the girl says "jump".
How does one avoid that? th3warr1or
So you want a girlfriend, but you don't want to do anything to please her?
Good luck cooking single dinners for the rest of your life.
try backhand slapping them if they try to talk to you. Using this technique will show that you are assertive, confident and intelligent. Most importantly, it will also show them that you are rich (since you'll have expensive rings on each of your fingers).McJuggaYes, because a smack from a hand with no rings will result in her not calling you tommorow.
Yes, because a smack from a hand with no rings will result in her not calling you tommorow. Exactly. She'll know you've got money when her cheek stings from the rings.[QUOTE="McJugga"]try backhand slapping them if they try to talk to you. Using this technique will show that you are assertive, confident and intelligent. Most importantly, it will also show them that you are rich (since you'll have expensive rings on each of your fingers).FFCYAN
[QUOTE="one_plum"][QUOTE="Pvt_r3d"] Aye, you don't know how many times I could tell a woman was interested in me but all I did was shy away. They all eventually stopped seeing me.Pvt_r3d
It seems like you have the "looks" department covered already.
More of the opposite. I make them laugh, and give them a good time but once they get a little too close to me for some reason I end up reverting back to my shy introverted self. It gets real awkward when me and a girl are alone together somewhere. Which happens too much in college.Hmm... if you are the shy type, I think you may have better luck with girls who are similarly introverted. I presume that you would be more comfortable with someone who is as reluctant as you to get close (but you'll have to make the move though). Besides, opposites don't attract, contrary to what TV and movies say.
[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]To be honest I've not used any of those extremely mushy pickup lines in the past because I don't want to become some p***whipped guy that says "How high?" when the girl says "jump".
How does one avoid that? akuma_od3
So you want a girlfriend, but you don't want to do anything to please her?
Good luck cooking single dinners for the rest of your life.
No, It's not that. I'll please her when she's my girlfriend. I'm not going to come over and beg her to be my girlfriend(note, I said beg, not ask) and tell her that I'm going to shine her shoes 3x a day, and I'll serve her as a willing slave for the rest of my life. Do you even know what *****whipped guys are like? I said I don't want to end up like that. Not that I don't want to end up as a romantic.do you like a lot of girl stuff? do you have guy friends? I'm asking this cause maybe they think your gay (not to be mean) I've thought guys were gay when they weren't before.
[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]Funny and interesting... Um, I've got no idea really.. Which I guess means no.Well you may not be poor, stupid, ugly or an ass, but are you funny and interesting?
th3warr1or
Well, there's your problem. Want a girl to like you? Be likeable. Duh! :P
If you had to edit your post to reduce the level of Narcissism, there's a good chance that you may be a Narcissist...67gt500I *am* a narcissist but when you see the kind of people that I have no choice but to meet with, you'll understand why. I'm a very different person when I'm with personal friends and family. I don't go round thinking i'm better than my friends. I accept that some people are dislike are better than I am. But what I don't get is how someone with basically less than I do, and behaves the exact same way can get the girl. It's quite a complicated thing.
[QUOTE="supa_badman"]OMG Yes. That was the exact reaction when I first told her. "Aww thanks, that's sweet." WTF? I don't even know what to do with this girl anymore, as Jim said, I've tried to analyze face expressions and actions, she made it look like she was thinking about it, but there's nothing. I'm done with her I guess. I'm just gonna give up on it.Feel you bud.
I let this girl know I like her, but I get nothing out of it. Not even a 'I don't know'. Just a vacant 'Oh, that's sweet.'
Yes, no? Dumb broad. >_>
th3warr1or
[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="supa_badman"]OMG Yes. That was the exact reaction when I first told her. "Aww thanks, that's sweet." WTF? I don't even know what to do with this girl anymore, as Jim said, I've tried to analyze face expressions and actions, she made it look like she was thinking about it, but there's nothing. I'm done with her I guess. I'm just gonna give up on it. Yeah, I mean if you don't like the fact that I like you, then just tell me that straight to my face... It's kinda annoying lol.Feel you bud.
I let this girl know I like her, but I get nothing out of it. Not even a 'I don't know'. Just a vacant 'Oh, that's sweet.'
Yes, no? Dumb broad. >_>
supa_badman
[QUOTE="67gt500"]If you had to edit your post to reduce the level of Narcissism, there's a good chance that you may be a Narcissist...th3warr1orI *am* a narcissist but when you see the kind of people that I have no choice but to meet with, you'll understand why. I'm a very different person when I'm with personal friends and family. I don't go round thinking i'm better than my friends. I accept that some people are dislike are better than I am. But what I don't get is how someone with basically less than I do, and behaves the exact same way can get the girl. It's quite a complicated thing. It is a mystery to me as well, but don't spend too much time dwelling on it... a great many things about life, in general, just don't make sense especially where matters of the heart are concerned... and don't worry about the 'other guy' and how he's doing it - chances are it's not what you think... be the best 'you' that you can be and if there's something there worth latching onto, believe me - in due time it'll happen for you... you sound like you have a lot going for you... focus on that...
[QUOTE="moz-182"]If you come across the same in person as you do on Gamespot, then I'm not surprised by this at all.th3warr1orMy internet personality =/= real life. There are somethings you just don't do in real life, or don't say on the internet because they can't be backed up. Well I don't know you so I don't know how true moz-182 quote is but usually online personalities= what a person's is really like. If you're racist on Yahoo articles every time there's a guy that's not you color or a bigot when another religion is brought up that's not yours, you really feel like that and thus are personal privet relationship will see those traits come out. Same goes for if you're immature or a pompous. Again, I'm not saying you are but I disagree with that comment.
Girls don't like soft people. Become a bad ass and you'll bea chick magnet to most of the girls.Doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a douchebag.
Learn to accept yourself and stay confident. Confidence is the #1 thing for a chick. Being arrogant is a total turn off.
[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="moz-182"]If you come across the same in person as you do on Gamespot, then I'm not surprised by this at all.Shattered007My internet personality =/= real life. There are somethings you just don't do in real life, or don't say on the internet because they can't be backed up. Well I don't know you so I don't know how true moz-182 quote is but usually online personalities= what a person's is really like. If you're racist on Yahoo articles every time there's a guy that's not you color or a bigot when another religion is brought up that's not yours, you really feel like that and thus are personal privet relationship will see those traits come out. Same goes for if you're immature or a pompous. Again, I'm not saying you are but I disagree with that comment. I agree about the racism part, and some things like opinions are the 'real you' when you're anonymous. But in certain cases, such as if you say "lol" or use emoticons in every sentence you write, it doesn't mean you're someone who doesn't take anything seriously. You get what I mean?
Other than the fact that one puts someone down, and the other doesn't, I really don't know the difference in being confident but not arrogant.. I'm confident of my abilities is what, but does that make me arrogant or what?Girls don't like soft people. Become a bad ass and you'll bea chick magnet to most of the girls.Doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a douchebag.
Learn to accept yourself and stay confident. Confidence is the #1 thing for a chick. Being arrogant is a total turn off.
Gaming-Planet
In my case, I just accept the fact that I'm going to die alone and a virgin but on the plus side, with all that time not spent interacting with people and forming any relationships, I got to spend all my free time playing video games, watching tv, and occasionally...porn;)
[QUOTE="Shattered007"][QUOTE="th3warr1or"] My internet personality =/= real life. There are somethings you just don't do in real life, or don't say on the internet because they can't be backed up. th3warr1orWell I don't know you so I don't know how true moz-182 quote is but usually online personalities= what a person's is really like. If you're racist on Yahoo articles every time there's a guy that's not you color or a bigot when another religion is brought up that's not yours, you really feel like that and thus are personal privet relationship will see those traits come out. Same goes for if you're immature or a pompous. Again, I'm not saying you are but I disagree with that comment. I agree about the racism part, and some things like opinions are the 'real you' when you're anonymous. But in certain cases, such as if you say "lol" or use emoticons in every sentence you write, it doesn't mean you're someone who doesn't take anything seriously. You get what I mean?
So bassically you like a girl that likes another guy for reasons you dont understand, solution is if your in the friend zone ask her what she enjoys in him and try to be more like him if that even possible, but the best possible advice is to be yourself and if that isnt working, well maybe you werent ment to be.
I will always remember you Diana, my love... ups that sliped out!
[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]hm. maybe you're too stupid to realize you're stupid, and too much of an ass to acknowledge you're ugly. ;o just throwin' it out thereth3warr1orPossibly, but I doubt it.
Well, i believe it is a commonly acknowledged wisdom that when it comes to the question of how we are perceived by others, one should direct inquiries to others perceiving you.
So, have you considered asking these particular female friends in question why they are not attracted to you romantically, despite you having all these traits stereotypically associated with a coveted bachelor?
I sincerely doubt the answer is found in a lack of doucheness on your part, or that any of these girls will say that you are simply not sufficiently unpleasant company for them to endure, in order for romantic attraction to grow.If you fear they will not give you a straight answer, i suggest you go take a good, long and hard look at yourself in the mirror, and try to view yourself as a stranger would.
What would you notice?
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