Is it right or wrong to have feelings for some one else's girlfreind ?

Ummm ... if you fall in love with a woman , later you find out shes got a boyfreind . What should you do ? Forget her completely ? Try to court her and make her your g.f .

OT ?

Whats right and whats wrong in such a situation ? :)

I don't think you could fall in love with her without knowing she has a boyfriend.

Edit: But whatever, I'll answer properly. You can't help who you develop feelings for, but finding out she has a boyfriend is a big sign that you should pursue other avenues.

Nothing wrong with it. It's just how you handle the situation. If you try to pursue her when she is taken that's bad but if you wait until she is single then it's good

ahh i was kind of in this situation.

this girl i had known since 6th grade, always had thought she was attractive and we were always friends but i didn't have any feelings for her besides physical attraction. well this kid i met in high school that became my best friend during high school, they started dating, and it was cool because i was friends with both of them and it was fun hanging out and stuff, but i somehow had developed feelings for her i think. not enough to ever think about trying to "steal" her from him but if i remember correctly she would get close to me sometimes, like in my personal space, which i didn't mind, and was always really friendly to me. kind of made me wonder if i could get anywhere with her, but it's not like i was going to try to make any moves on her. i'm a much better friend than that.

Isnt unrequited love the subject of every song ever?

story of my life.

I hate all you lovey dovey boys like you who fall in love all the time. Puhleassee you think a boyfriend matters? If she's into you it won't matter if she has 3 boyfriendsbluetadomonk

Reminds me of a robot chicken skit. The words "Oh you smell like other men though.. but i dont caaaaaaaare!"

Its not a bad thing. i mean, how is it bad or your fault when they are jsut feelings? as long as you dont act on them (like attempt to seduce the girl or anything) then you are fine. just try and "get over her" as they say

It is neither right nor wrong, it just is.

"If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with..."

It is neither right nor wrong, it just is.LORD_BLACKGULT

Ummm ... if you fall in love with a woman , later you find out shes got a boyfreind . What should you do ? Forget her completely ? Try to court her and make her your g.f .

OT ?

Whats right and whats wrong in such a situation ? :)

indzman

once you truely fell in love with someone,it would be hard to just stay away from her and watch her live her life.as someone mentioned above,it's neither right nor wrong.

Ummm ... if you fall in love with a woman , later you find out shes got a boyfreind . What should you do ? Forget her completely ? Try to court her and make her your g.f .

OT ?

Whats right and whats wrong in such a situation ? :)

indzman

I don't think having feelings for them is wrong at all. I think if you interfere in their relationship for your own sake, I think that's wrong lol

You're better off coming to terms with them being taken though. It wont do you any good to dwell of something you are likely to not have :P

I don't see any big problem with taking a shot at it except for the fact that if she would cheat/leave her current boyfriend for you then she may do the same to you with a different guy later on...just food for thought

If she leaves him for you what's going to stop her from leaving you for the next guy? Relationships are harder to maintain then they are to get into and will always have arguments and disagreements and hell who hasn't grown up and not witnessed their parents at least argue? I know I'd be pretty pissed if another guy tried to get with my girlfriend but I have trust in her enough to turn him down.

Of course you could always take the jealous boyfriend route and beat the #($(# out of the guy but it doesn't exactly set the best image on yourself. Every relationship has it's problems, some worse than others but if a girl is going to leave a guy for you because of those problems then when you are with her long enough and you guys start to run into problems what's going to stop her from latching onto the next guy?

I know I wouldn't have respect for my girlfriend if she dumped a guy and the next day started going out with me. You can explain your feelings to her but don't expect the best reaction.

thats what kinda happeneing to me now,

My mates girlfriend who i used to go out with is like still all sweet and stuff to me and i might be developing feelings again,

But prob not its prob just the urge to bang,

probably...

thats what kinda happeneing to me now,

My mates girlfriend who i used to go out with is like still all sweet and stuff to me and i might be developing feelings again,

But prob not its prob just the urge to bang,

probably...

sonofsmeagle

Ummm ... if you fall in love with a woman , later you find out shes got a boyfreind . What should you do ? Forget her completely ? Try to court her and make her your g.f .

OT ?

Whats right and whats wrong in such a situation ? :)

indzman

It's only wrong when you try to take action and swoop her away from her boyfriend. I would just forget it or wait til the relationship is over.MistressMinako

[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]It's only wrong when you try to take action and swoop her away from her boyfriend. I would just forget it or wait til the relationship is over.toast_burner

All is fair in love and war.

[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]It's only wrong when you try to take action and swoop her away from her boyfriend. I would just forget it or wait til the relationship is over.toast_burner

If this girl is 'ok with' starting a relationship with some dude while she's still in a relationship...... be careful because the next boyfriend she burns just might be you.

Forget her! Unless she is obviously not happy in the relationship you should not interfere unless you want her boyfriend after you.

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[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]It's only wrong when you try to take action and swoop her away from her boyfriend. I would just forget it or wait til the relationship is over.tenaka2

All is fair in love and war.

There's no right or wrong. There's oppertunity and your willingness to seize it.

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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]I don't see how that is wrong. If he is able to swoop her away from her boyfriend then obviously she likes him more. What's wrong with someone being with the person they love?

LJS9502_basic

All is fair in love and war.

It depends on both the situation and the people involved, I wouldn't generalise to much.