Is it right or wrong to have feelings for some one else's girlfreind ?

Ummm ... if you fall in love with a woman , later you find out shes got a boyfreind . What should you do ? Forget her completely ? Try to court her and make her your g.f .

OT ?

Whats right and whats wrong in such a situation ? :)

indzman

Is it wrong to have those feelings? No.

Are you sure you are really in love? I was in a similar situation but I wasn't in love but, I was very attracted to her and she to me. We went no where because I knew she and her boyfriend had 3+ years already. He had a better job (going on to his career) possibly would've gave her a easier time in life. Hell, if its me and her then its back to square one only to hope to find out if we will work out. You can be friends and flirt but ultimately its up to her to break up with her BF. Later on she got married to him :lol:. End of story. No lie. Plenty-o-fish in the sea brother.

Are you acting in your feelings or do you just like her?

And seriously, how could you love someone and not know they have a boyfriend.

You'll have to kill him.

make sure it is not sexual love, that won't last. If you think you already fell in love with her without knowing that key point about her, then you are just attracted sexually so if you ever do get the oppurtunity to go out with her it might only last for a week because you don't really like her at all

It's ok to like her all you want, I just think you should mind your own business if they already had a bf. For me, that would just make me like them less...

[QUOTE="MissLibrarian"]Seriously why would anyone think 'Oh I'm the one she must SECRETLY want.'? No, you're not. She doesn't. She's with someone else.sandlot76

Its not your fault, but as long as you don't act on those feelings you aren't a terrible person.

I don't think it's wrong to have those feelings. You just can't help it, but I believe you shouldn't try to steal her away or anything of that sort.

The heart wants what it wants, you can't help what you feel.

That being said, its totally wrong to try and "steal" her. How would you feel if some dude tried to do that with your gf? All you can do is hope they break up (no sabatoge!) or move on. Personally I think moving on is smarter(easier said than done I know) because in the long run it'll hurt less.

Also think of it like this, if you do manage to "steal" her, what kind of girl is that? Unless she was in a really bad relationship, you don't want a girl who is so willing to haphazardly toss away a guy for another one.

It is a-ok to whack the pud thinking of her. It is BAD to try to snap her up from him.