Before I tell you anything let me let you guys know something.
This is not a joke topic.
Do not come into this thread saying something sexist like: "Real men don't hit women." Because:
1. I do not believe that, you always have the right to defend yourself.
2. I do not want that to be what this topic is about.
3. My nephew isn't a man, he is a 16 year old boy.
I am not a chivalrous white knight, nor do I have a natural instict to protect women/children. But I will protect someone(man, women, or child)if I feel like I need to. I just hate bullies. Which is now what my nephew has become.
Let's begin.
My nephew, and his brother, and sister use to live with me, and my family(for a very long time). His African American family if you will. They're mixed. Half black/half white. It will become more clear as to why I told you this later.
He, and his siblings moved in with their mother(white family) a few months ago. And now he has gradually been abusing his family. Now before I tell you what goes on, let me give you an approximate idea of how old they are.
-The abuser/my nephew is 16, and still in 9th grade, if he doesn't get his act together he will be in 9th grade next year.
- His little sister is in 5th grade. I don't know exactly how old she is.
-His little brother is in 3rd. I also don't know how old he is.
-The mother is in her 30's, and she is also a giant pushover(which is why my nephew can get away with this crap.) She has been abused by past boyfriends like my older brother, and her current one. Now her own damned son.
Okay here's what he does/has done.(Besides doing drugs and alcohol/being promiscuous/getting crap grades/skipping school) All things that his mother doesn't agree with.
He regularly beats up his little brother. I'm not talking about Malcolm in The Middle, big brother little brother fighting. What he does to him is abuse. He cusses themout, and yells at all of them. He doesn't let any of them be in the living room too much(this is his "area" I guess). He slapped his little sister so hard, that he made her ear bleed, and he choked her. When his mother does try to get a belt, and give him some will deserved discipline he'll just overpower her. Push her off of him, tell her not to touch him. Tell her that she's fat, ugly, and a terrible mother. Demand that she buy him fast food whenever possible.
And to top it all off my nephew is now racist. He told them that he hates/is afraid of/ doesn't like black people.Which is half of what he is. He has no reason to be that way. We didn't mistreat him, or his sibling when they lived with us. I always knew that he didn't like to be around black people too much(except me) He told me this. And he doesn't have too many black friends. But I had no clue that he is racist.
This is what I can 100% confirm. Not because I've seen it. But because they came over a few days ago, and told our family this. Also whenever they come over, he'll just stay home. He knows what me(my dad, or my brothers) woulddo to him if I see his ass again. He's a coward. He'd only try that abuse crap on someone that he can overpower. Not someone that he can't beat, or that would provide him with a somewhat fair fight.
I don't see this ending anytime soon. The mother is a pushover. She's said time, and time again that she's going to do something about it. Like send him to a place for troubled teens, kick him out, ETC.....And the dad... Well... He doesn't live near them. And they're divorced. We don't exactly know where he is. The one time he was with them recently, to take them school shopping my nephew tried to fight him. My nephew lost. And now he knows not to try that abuse stuff on him.
I had talked to my friend about this. And he told me that I gotta beat him up. I could easily kill him if I we're to fight ihm..(I'm 19 BTW). And for reasons that I do not want to discuss in this topic. If I do kill him, It may trigger myself to go on a killing spree.
What the f*** do I do OT?
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