My 16 year old nephew abuses his mother, little brother, and little sister.

I say you should go for it man. Beat him up. Beat him to Asgard and back bro.

Plus it's good exercise!!

Try talking to him and mention he should be nicer to people

Does your nephew respect you? If he does then a firm word would probably sort him out. Considering he has no "father figure" in his life you should take it upon yourself to teach him to respect his family as it seems no one has. He seems to have become the man of the house and clearly needs taking down a peg or two. He's your nephew after all and you should come down hard on him.

If he's the "big man" type of kid then you should perhaps drop him off in the rough area in your city at night and let him find his own way home. ;)

what you gotta do is jump one of his friends, rough him up and leave him where this guy will find him. stick around, because when he sees you you must do this face (below). if he knows better, he will crap his pants and start making amends

or you know, call the police. if he winds up in juvie, do you really care? (sounds like he deserves it).

another idea, would be to go to the house with the old man, and give him a talking to (an actual talking, not a talk to the curb talking). sounds like he knows he'd be in deep **** with you two, and thus avoids you.

Dude let me kick the s*** out of him I love beating the heck out of little punks like that. I am sorry but people like that dont deserve things he has. Like a house family who does seem to care (I am talking about u and your brother) and he has a bed to sleep in. People who abuse other people deserve to be in the streets to see how hard life really is. I hate kids these days they need to get beat.

Uh, murder followed by a killing spree is probably not the best course of action...Artekus

Killing spree? nope, murder on the other hand... maybe

Pistol-whip the bastard.

The police. That kid should be locked up.

Hang around a little. And when he acts like he's going to try to shove you around, push back twice as hard.

Should teach him. If it doesn't, make it worse until he stops acting like a 4-year old.

Call the cops

Send the stupid little **** to boot camp. They'll break him. Problem solved.

Pathetic. Really, no offense but ur nephew is a little douchebag. Douchebags like ur nephew is the reason why humanity is taking a step backwards.People like him disgust me, trash. This is my opinion, everyone is entitled to his own opinion and this is mine.

What he needs is someone to kick his ass really hard, or maybe a millitary school. He is fully mature to understand all the crap he is causing, don't try and argue that he is still young and unaware of his acts. I doubt it.

There is nothing more pleasing than to see a bully crying.

[QUOTE="IceBlazerX"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] I do want to beat him up. But ever since I knew that the abuse was going on I haven't seen him. And my Mom doesn't want to go over there. My Dad is a long distance truck driver, and hasn't been home yet since we found out.-Big_Red-

lol, killing him is probably not in your best interest John. They dont let you use GS in prison

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"] maybe you could frame the kid and send him to jail for sometime? or considering his age,to a rehab camp?that could give him a lesson. VaguelyTagged

If you see him hurt anyone, then definitely belt him up good. Maybe knock out some teeth or break something. But if you just show up and fight him it'll only make him worse. Consult the rest of your family, especially his Mum on getting him help. Help could either be a guidance counseller, parole officer or an intervention. Just get him off the streets.

pengo93

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]If I do kill him, It may trigger myself to go on a killing spree.

What the f*** do I do OT?T_P_O

Institutionalise yourself.

Knock him out and tape him up and keep him in a dark place.

Pffrbt

Violence is the answer in this case. I remember when i met a kid like that, he used to talk back to his mom (nowhere near as bad as op's story). I took him outside....boy, he came back in like he had been struck by lightning.

osiris667

Ask Mr. GeezerX360PS3AMD05

My nephew ... [his] mother ... has been abused by past boyfriends like my older brother. Wait, hold on, your brother dated his aunt? OR did you mean "my brother has also been abused.."?Mr_Alexander

[QUOTE="Mr_Alexander"]My nephew ... his mother ... has been abused by past boyfriends like my older brother. Wait, hold on, your brother dated his aunt? OR did you mean "my brother has also been abused.."?rikkustrife

or something like that

well the fact that you thought of killing him, or that that would you to go on a killing spree makes me think you both need help

if your brother works with troubled teens, wouldn't he have ideas as to what to do^

Blog about it.Deihjan

[QUOTE="Deihjan"]Blog about it.Uncle_Uzi

This is my first comment in this thread.

If you don't want to read about something, DON'T CLICK ON THE THREAD.

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But on topic: Yeah, the unversal concencus seems to be that he needs some manhandling to put things in perspective. You gotta approach the beatdown in a Caesar Milan kinda way though, you need to dominate him. You need to display dominant behavior. The key will be to immobilize him first. Then, if you have him pinned to the wall or ground, you need to deliver a series of harsh smacks, with a move-style monologue for added weight. Like this:

YOU *smack* DON'T *smack* EVER *smack* ANTAGONIZE *smack* YOUR *smack* MOTHER *smack* OR *smack* I'LL *smack* COME OVER *smack* AND DO THIS *smack* AGAIN! *extra hard smack*

[QUOTE="ColonelWilks"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]for reasons that I do not want to discuss in this topic. If I do kill him, It may trigger myself to go on a killing spree.GreySeal9

Justin Beiber is not a rapper. He's a metal artist.

It's called Beibercore. Look it up.

at first I was getting your story...but then

If I do kill him, It may trigger myself to go on a killing spree.-Big_Red-

wait, what?

Try talking to him and mention he should be nicer to people

Scr00I

Does your nephew respect you? If he does then a firm word would probably sort him out. Considering he has no "father figure" in his life you should take it upon yourself to teach him to respect his family as it seems no one has. He seems to have become the man of the house and clearly needs taking down a peg or two. He's your nephew after all and you should come down hard on him.

If he's the "big man" type of kid then you should perhaps drop him off in the rough area in your city at night and let him find his own way home. ;)

I'd call the cops and tell them you want a psych evaluation for him. The kid sounds like he has a lot of anger issues and needs help working through them. He gets out of jail and does it again, call the cops again. Every time they take him away, his stint in jail will be longer. Jail is not fun, sometimes a few weeks in there is all it takes. Allicrombie

The first part about whether you feel it's right to hit a woman or not seems irrelevant? Either call the cops or beat him so bad he won't be able to do it againStrider_91

Pistol-whip the bastard.

entropyecho

Tell him politely to never abuse his mother again... with your fists.

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="IceBlazerX"] I know abuse usually escelates, right? I just gotta see him.edgewalker16

lol, killing him is probably not in your best interest John. They dont let you use GS in prison

Colin1192

Talk to the mother and convince her to call the authorities. If she refuses, call them yourself.

Sagem28

Beat the s*** out of him, that ought to teach him a lesson.

If he calls the cops and plays a saint, make sure to tell his family not to confirm it.

Or just call the cops.

My sister is abusive like that. I have scars all over my arms from her tearing chunks of my flesh out, and now she's moved onto threatening me and my mom with knives, throwing objects, kicking people in the stomach, punching and ripping out hair. Plus she's verbally abusive, she calls me every name under the sun and will scream at everyone for hours over something as simple as moving her toothbrush. I really and truly know what you're talking about. You should not beat him up, that solves nothing. Call the police. Spending a night in jail might shake him up a bit. If not, the police should be able to find a facility for him until he can grasp the fact that life doesn't revolve around him and he is NOT allowed to hurt others. I know quite a few teenage boys with this thug mentality that drives them to thinking they're above others, but still cower and hide because they know they aren't truly tough by any means. If he's angry because he has daddy issues or whatever, that's fine, but still not an excuse to hurt innocent people. He needs to be put somewhere that he can't hurt others and that he is forced to fix himself before he ends up really seriously damaging somebody.XilePrincess

Why do you guys take that. You outnumber her. And I assume that you two are just as physically strong as her.

Atleast in my nephew's case he is physically overpowering them. I don't know what I'm going to do. If I do beat him up, and he doesn't call the cops then he'll probably stop, and everything will be well and good. But he can, and he isn't worth my freedom. But my brother told me not to call the authorities. I'm probably going to consult a nearby police officer tonight.

Don't get directly involved in the situation would be my advice. There are huge organisations for this type of abuse and/or person and they'll know how to resolve the issue. Giving him a punch in the face may work briefly or not at all—either way it wouldn't end the problem. If he starts abusing relatives again call the police. Whatever you do, starting a fight is not the best of options.

It's honestly pretty hard to say as I've never been in a scenario like this but I think your best option is to get professionals to sort him out. Be it law enforcement in retaliation to his reckless behaviour or some form of psychiatric help or further aid in the classroom (because even if he is damaging to the family, he does not deserve to be stuck in Grade 9 for the rest of his life). Telling someone about the issue shouldn't upset anyone in the family either, it's disappointing to have a close relation taken away, but they'll probably understand it was for the better.

letsw be honest. what can you do in this situation? he is by law a minor. so you can't beat the hell out of him (even tho i'm sure you would like too)

either call the cops, or send his ass to boot camp

Are you sure you are 19 because this comment suggests otherwise "I could easily kill him if I we're to fight ihm..(I'm 19 BTW). And for reasons that I do not want to discuss in this topic. If I do kill him, It may trigger myself to go on a killing spree". EmpCom

if the mom doesnt want to call the cops, then you do it, or call social services, take that kid away...or at least beat him up, dont kill him obviously just beat him up and tell him "that is what they feel when you do it"

btw i'll be the one who kills you if this end up with the fresh prince song

[QUOTE="EmpCom"]Are you sure you are 19 because this comment suggests otherwise "I could easily kill him if I we're to fight ihm..(I'm 19 BTW). And for reasons that I do not want to discuss in this topic. If I do kill him, It may trigger myself to go on a killing spree". -Big_Red-

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="EmpCom"]Are you sure you are 19 because this comment suggests otherwise "I could easily kill him if I we're to fight ihm..(I'm 19 BTW). And for reasons that I do not want to discuss in this topic. If I do kill him, It may trigger myself to go on a killing spree". EmpCom

if the mom doesnt want to call the cops, then you do it, or call social services, take that kid away...or at least beat him up, dont kill him obviously just beat him up and tell him "that is what they feel when you do it"

btw i'll be the one who kills you if this end up with the fresh prince song

[QUOTE="Allicrombie"]I'd call the cops and tell them you want a psych evaluation for him. The kid sounds like he has a lot of anger issues and needs help working through them. He gets out of jail and does it again, call the cops again. Every time they take him away, his stint in jail will be longer. Jail is not fun, sometimes a few weeks in there is all it takes. -Big_Red-

Florida huh?

Just kidding, of course. But yeah, contact the police although I don't know enough to make a good choice. Good luck.

At 16 years old, I am sorry to say your nephew is going to have to learn the hard way, i.e. something horrible will have to happen first.

DO NOT abuse him at all; this will only give him the justification to continue this behavior.

Where is your brother/his father? He needs to hear from his father that what he is doing is wrong. If he is not present/dead, he needs to be asked if his father would approve.

Other than that, dont do anything. Stay out of it.

Convince his mother to call the police. There is really nothing else you can do right now, unless you want to try threatening him.

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