NEED HELP! Girlfriend might be pregnant... need some insight

Before you read on, please understand that I will be both respectful, and will avoid being either rude or unecessarily descriptive, but it is not for those who are squeemish. Though it will not contain any unecessary or descriptive details of any kind, I put that there just to cover my bases. That being said, here is my situation:

My girlfriend and I engaged in the act 3 weeks ago from this saturday. We used a condom as a preventative measure, and as always, we were careful. However, today she told me that, a week or less before her monthly visitor arrives, she has found spotting (I will not describe spotting, simply because it is unnecessary and I don't want to get locked... if you can help me, you know what spotting is already), and, simply for the fact that I feel I need to include all details, the color was brown. The second I found this out, I went looking online to find out what it means, and, as always, I found something that greatly disturbed me (whenever I look something up online, I find something that scares the crap out of me). I found that brown spotting after the monthly issue is a sign of just bacteria cleansing, but just before, can be an indicator of pregnancy. Obviously, now I am worried. I'm 19, and she's 18... I'm in college, and she's about to graduate high school. I could use some peace of mind.

So, should I be worried? obviously no one knows for sure, and I plan to have her take a pregnancy test tomorrow when I go home to see her, but until then, I could use any information that might help me get a good night's sleep. So, do you think she's pregnant?

If you used a condom, the odds are little to none. Spotting is supposed to occur 6 to 12 days after conception, so three weeks doesn't sound right. Anything's possible, I suppose. If she's very tired at all, that's a sign as well. Everyone's different, so it's no need to get worried, and it's better for her not to worry, either, so as not to have stress delay her period any longer.dreDREb13

Are you sure it was you who got her pregnant?

I'm pretty sure that shes fine. Me and my gf have been together for almost a year. She's on the pill and i use protection. She started using a new brand called Yaz on month. almost everytime we would engage in sexual activities she would spot and bleed. At first i thought this was a sign of pergnancy n the planting of the egg n ya. But turns out she stopped spotting when she stoppped yaz and got a new brand. So if shes on BC it could be that. Plus is she was pregnant, she'd be having morning sickness most likely

I'm pretty sure that shes fine. Me and my gf have been together for almost a year. She's on the pill and i use protection. She started using a new brand called Yaz on month. almost everytime we would engage in sexual activities she would spot and bleed. At first i thought this was a sign of pergnancy n the planting of the egg n ya. But turns out she stopped spotting when she stoppped yaz and got a new brand. So if shes on BC it could be that. Plus is she was pregnant, she'd be having morning sickness most likely

Papadrach

Make sure you update us tomorrow regarding the pregnancy test. I wanna know what happenssexy_fool69

[QUOTE="wii60_3"]

Are you sure it was you who got her pregnant?

dreDREb13

Ouch.

Are you sure it was you who got her pregnant?

wii60_3

[QUOTE="wii60_3"]

Are you sure it was you who got her pregnant?

dreDREb13

If the condom broke, you would have realised...believe me.

She could always take a pregnancy test and you should stop looking up things on the net

[QUOTE="dreDREb13"][QUOTE="wii60_3"]

Are you sure it was you who got her pregnant?

Ouch.

"She says i am the one, but the kid's not my son"

MJ is your friend

To be honest broski at 3 weeks a simple $1 pregnancy test from the 99 cent store would be all you need to find out...

No Offense but you decided to take the risks when you did that.

No Offense but you decided to take the risks when you did that.

Snipes_2

I doubt she's pregnant.

Spotting is very common, and usually has nothing to do with pregnancy.

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

No Offense but you decided to take the risks when you did that.

Teenaged

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

No Offense but you decided to take the risks when you did that.

GazaAli

Envy me about what?

(I'll take a wild guess just in case) Because I am gay and I dont have the risk of impregnating someone?

[QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]No offense but you know he made the topic just to ask for info and not to complain about condoms and the risk of protected sex.

Teenaged

Envy me about what?

(I'll take a wild guess just in case) Because I am gay and I dont have the risk of impregnating someone?

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

No Offense but you decided to take the risks when you did that.

Teenaged

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="GazaAli"] please Teenaged dont get mad i count you as a friend but i cant hold it: I envy you :)GazaAli

Envy me about what?

(I'll take a wild guess just in case) Because I am gay and I dont have the risk of impregnating someone?

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="GazaAli"] please Teenaged dont get mad i count you as a friend but i cant hold it: I envy you :)GazaAli

Envy me about what?

(I'll take a wild guess just in case) Because I am gay and I dont have the risk of impregnating someone?

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

No Offense but you decided to take the risks when you did that.

Snipes_2

"Should I be worried?"

and

"Do you think she is really pregnant?"

Not your input on if what he did is right/wrong or if he should know better etc. At this point he doesnt need this and I am sure people are more aware of the risks of protected sex than you think; at least if you read the OP, the TC is aware of it. So you are pretty much stating something obvious. Why; aparently to pass some sort of judgement.

If you used a condom, the odds are little to none. Spotting is supposed to occur 6 to 12 days after conception, so three weeks doesn't sound right. Anything's possible, I suppose. If she's very tired at all, that's a sign as well. Everyone's different, so it's no need to get worried, and it's better for her not to worry, either, so as not to have stress delay her period any longer.dreDREb13

Well, actually, condoms are only what, 97% effective? So yes, the odds are with you, but I wouldn't call that slim to none. That's more like "unlikely". And that is only when the use of it goes well and there are no defects, breaks, etc.

So, the dice were rolled, and you have a good chance to not be a father. But keep in mind, every time you do sleep with her, pregnancy is something you risk. Just realize that. If you sleep with her 32 times,statistically you have let your boys slip through at least once.

i have a question,but i'm afraid it might be unnecessary to ask..

To be honest broski at 3 weeks a simple $1 pregnancy test from the 99 cent store would be all you need to find out...

bigblunt537

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]No offense but you know he made the topic just to ask for info and not to complain about condoms and the risk of protected sex.

Teenaged

"Should I be worried?"

and

"Do you think she is really pregnant?"

Not your input on if what he did is right/wrong or if he should know better etc. At this point he doesnt need this and I am sure people are more aware of the risks of protected sex than you think. So you are pretty much stating something obvious. Why; aparently to pass some sort of judgement.

Stop bullying people Teenaged...GazaAli

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"] He was asking for input, I gave mine. Snipes_2

"Should I be worried?"

and

"Do you think she is really pregnant?"

Not your input on if what he did is right/wrong or if he should know better etc. At this point he doesnt need this and I am sure people are more aware of the risks of protected sex than you think. So you are pretty much stating something obvious. Why; aparently to pass some sort of judgement.

No judgemental indication? Then what was the point of the post may I ask?

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"][QUOTE="Teenaged"]He asked two specific questions:

"Should I be worried?"

and

"Do you think she is really pregnant?"

Not your input on if what he did is right/wrong or if he should know better etc. At this point he doesnt need this and I am sure people are more aware of the risks of protected sex than you think. So you are pretty much stating something obvious. Why; aparently to pass some sort of judgement.

Teenaged

He asked two specific questions:

"Should I be worried?"

and

"Do you think she is really pregnant?"

Not your input on if what he did is right/wrong or if he should know better etc. At this point he doesnt need this and I am sure people are more aware of the risks of protected sex than you think. So you are pretty much stating something obvious. Why; aparently to pass some sort of judgement.

Those last few sentences.

Those last few sentences.

Snipes_2

I can say "x shouldnt be posted" but that doesnt equate to "I demand that you dont post it (again in the future)".

i have a question,but i'm afraid it might be unnecessary to ask..

VaguelyTagged

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Those last few sentences.

Teenaged

I can say "x shouldnt be posted" but that doesnt equate to "I demand that you dont post it (again in the future)".

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

To be honest broski at 3 weeks a simple $1 pregnancy test from the 99 cent store would be all you need to find out...

XilePrincess

Well after doing a bit of web surfing I found that most people said the dollar test were identical to the expensive test. I used to buy the good test for $10 at Riteaid and one day I saw the 99 cent one and they have both been good to me. They've always given me the result I've wanted... (-) lmao So I think someone is better off buying 2-3 dollar test than 1 $10 test.

That sucks if she is pregnant. My gf uses the pill, why doesn't she get it?

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

To be honest broski at 3 weeks a simple $1 pregnancy test from the 99 cent store would be all you need to find out...

bigblunt537

Well after doing a bit of web surfing I found that most people said the dollar test were identical to the expensive test. I used to buy the good test for $10 at Riteaid and one day I saw the 99 cent one and they have both been good to me. They've always given me the result I've wanted... (-) lmao So I think someone is better off buying 2-3 dollar test than 1 $10 test.