So, alone again :( (girl thread)

Well, there is this girl I like, I've known her for over 7 months now, we met in a camp and she gave me her number so we talked a lot and we became close very soon, we went out twice and we were really having a great time between the two of us.

well one day, she meets this guy on facebook...they begin talking and in less than one week, the guy was already closer to her than I was! being a guy, I obviously got mad about it, I obviously didnt said anything to her...as a matter of fact she thinks that I dont know about the guy's existance.

well time passed, she still talked to the guy, a lot, and I mean a lot, im talking about having 3 simultaneous conversations with the guy on msn, cellphone and facebook.

so the guy is in a band, I dont know the name and I think the band sucks, I bet that they are just a lot of kids jamming and yelling.

well the guy invited her to a talent show of his school cus his band was going to perform...bla bla bla

ok the guy met her friends there, and apparently, her friends "approved" the guy for her, and this a girl who really likes to have her friends' advice before making a decision.

so about 5 days ago, I enter facebook, and I see that the guy came over to her house...I dont know if she invited him or if he asked for an invitation...but still...if she invited him then it definitly means that she is into the guy, and if he asked for invitation then it means that he is into her...and this seems to be the kind of man that she likes so I dont think that she would reject him.

in the pictures, they look really happy with each other, I mean like they are very close (im talking about the guy's face is like 1 inch away from her and the girl seems to be happy about it and that kind of stuff) and in the comments the girl seems to give direct indirects to the guy...and the girl's friends too...not only in that conversation, but basically all, they were once having a conversation on facebook, and one of her friends said something like "we should all go out sometime" and the guy replied with "yeah you take your boyfriend too" and then the girl I like replied with "and what about me?? I want a couple too! :)" (practically saying "hey, if she takes her boyfriend, then I will go with you as your girlfriend")

and a lot of those direct indirects.

so its kind of obvious there is something going on here...which means that, once again, I am alone as far as having a girl goes...so I need a drink, but I dont actually like alcohol! therefore im "drawning my sorrows" here on gamespot...

lets have a toast people...damm, this sucks.

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

clyde46

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

Think, clear your mind, and sleep.

Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?LZ71

Seven months with no little to no results besides you lurking her Facebook profile? Yea, I don't think she's into you.Sky-

[QUOTE="LZ71"]Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?lightleggy

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

Desulated

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

[QUOTE="Desulated"]

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

lightleggy

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

Desulated

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?LZ71

I am sad and depressed too but for other reasons. I find that falling asleep takes away a lot of the sh*t you feel right before you sleep. When you wake up, it feels less painful. That's my way though. But like other posts said, plenty of fish in the sea. And you're not losing much here.. a girl that NEEDS her friends' opinions to make a decision especially about you, needs to stay out of your life. It will hurt you later on. You dont want someone like that.Elian2530

she is senior...she is the smartest girl on her class and probably on her generation on high school...as for me I just need 1 more year and I will be out of high school...I wouldnt call it a "high school relationship" besides we are both really mature in terms of relationship...lightleggy

You'd be surprised. I knew quite a few mature people at my old high school that had their relationships end up in shipwrecks.

[QUOTE="Desulated"]

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

Zcrimson07

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

[QUOTE="LZ71"]Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?clayron

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

she is senior...she is the smartest girl on her class and probably on her generation on high school...as for me I just need 1 more year and I will be out of high school...I wouldnt call it a "high school relationship" besides we are both really mature in terms of relationship...Desulated

You'd be surprised. I knew quite a few mature people at my old high school that had their relationships end up in shipwrecks.

a guy at work retired this week and is married to someone he started dating in high school so proved false. also im engaged to a girl from high school and im doubtful this could possibly failZcrimson07

That's rare. It's like finding a pebble on a sandy beach.

[QUOTE="clayron"][QUOTE="LZ71"]Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?lightleggy

Wow I dunno why but I loled. Either way man there are millions of others girls out there so don't sweat it.

You got to step up your game, Scott. Break out the "L" word.

It's not the end of the world, after all you may realize that the person that likes you has been right nextto you the whole time. Just keep searching!Hellfire-1

so the guy is in a band, I dont know the name and I think the band sucks, I bet that they are just a lot of kids jamming and yelling.

well the guy invited her to a talent show of his school cus his band was going to perform...

...why does this sound so familiar to me

[QUOTE="Hellfire-1"]It's not the end of the world, after all you may realize that the person that likes you has been right nextto you the whole time. Just keep searching!lightleggy

It really ain't the end of the world. I'm sure there's thousands of more girls willing to accept ya. 8)

so the guy is in a band, I dont know the name and I think the band sucks, I bet that they are just a lot of kids jamming and yelling.

well the guy invited her to a talent show of his school cus his band was going to perform...

...why does this sound so familiar to me

legend26

[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Hellfire-1"]It's not the end of the world, after all you may realize that the person that likes you has been right nextto you the whole time. Just keep searching!Desulated

It really ain't the end of the world. I'm sure there's thousands of more girls willing to accept ya. 8)

Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?LZ71

This. I might get modded for this but it sounds like hes a stalker

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

Desulated

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

Forget you ever knew her?..

you definatly sound like a creep. you went out with her twice. and the way you described it it didnt sound like a date or anything. just two people of opposite sex going out. and with the whole 7 month thing? there was never anything there. you were always alone. there are plenty of fish in the sea, but youre in the middle of a desert with a broken fishing rod.

Eh, I've been alone for 22 years. You'll get used to it soon.

She obviously is really into him. Only thing you can do is move on.

You're not "alone" if you're single, personally I don't really like that term. You still have you friends and family, and everything else going on in your life.

Someone else will come, trust me :P

Welcome back. I advise you go for a long walk on a nature trail, listen to some calming contemplative music while re-evaluating where your life goes from here, and then get smashed to high heaven.

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

clyde46

Don't worry about it too much. Everybody thinks they'll never find someone, and yet most people do. It just takes longer for some than others. If you're still in grade school, you definitely shouldn't be concerned about this. Most of those relationships don't amount to anything anyways, and all too often, they cause far more stress (and sometimes permanently alter the course of your life due to unplanned pregnancy) than they're worth.

Yeah, it's no fun when someone you're infatuated with doesn't share your feelings, but that's just part of life. It's only a problem if you wallow in misery over it. A little suggestion - I wouldn't go to her Facebook page if this makes you uncomfortable. It isn't going to make you feel better, and it isn't going to change anything.

Chin up, and from someone who has been on both sides of the coin, remember that being single is NOT a bad thing unless you let it be. Being in a relationship is nice, yes, but there are aspects of single life that you definitely start to miss when you're involved with someone - even someone you love a great deal.

Forget you ever knew her?..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

Eh, I've been alone for 22 years. You'll get used to it soon.

NightStalkerBX

Don't worry about it too much. Everybody thinks they'll never find someone, and yet most people do. It just takes longer for some than others. If you're still in grade school, you definitely shouldn't be concerned about this. Most of those relationships don't amount to anything anyways, and all too often, they cause far more stress (and sometimes permanently alter the course of your life due to unplanned pregnancy) than they're worth.

Yeah, it's no fun when someone you're infatuated with doesn't share your feelings, but that's just part of life. It's only a problem if you wallow in misery over it. A little suggestion - I wouldn't go to her Facebook page if this makes you uncomfortable. It isn't going to make you feel better, and it isn't going to change anything.

Chin up, and from someone who has been on both sides of the coin, remember that being single is NOT a bad thing unless you let it be. Being in a relationship is nice, yes, but there are aspects of single life that you definitely start to miss when you're involved with someone - even someone you love a great deal.

pianist

lets have a toast people...damm, this sucks.

lightleggy

Stuff happens, suck it up.

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Forget you ever knew her?..

lightleggy

Welcome back. I advise you go for a long walk on a nature trail, listen to some calming contemplative music while re-evaluating where your life goes from here, and then get smashed to high heaven.

Plzhelpmelearn

This, except I say just skip to that last part.:P

[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Desulated"]

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

clyde46

This. This. And more of this. Everything clyde46 said.