So have you ever liked a girl who already has a boyfriend?

So would you guys recommend me keep flirting with her/being a close friend in case she DOES break up with that guy?

butteman12

It seriously stings whenever you see them together. Just makes you want to kick his ass. So what say you, OT? Have you ever liked a girl who already has a boyfriend or likes someone else?

butteman12

Yes. And he was my best friend. I hurt so damned bad....

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It seriously stings whenever you see them together. Just makes you want to kick his ass. So what say you, OT? Have you ever liked a girl who already has a boyfriend or likes someone else?

Johnny_Rock

Yes. And he was my best friend. I hurt so damned bad....

Hahn Super Dry says it best

yup. ended up getting the girl later down the road.

then we broke up :P

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It seriously stings whenever you see them together. Just makes you want to kick his ass. So what say you, OT? Have you ever liked a girl who already has a boyfriend or likes someone else?

chaoscougar1

Yes. And he was my best friend. I hurt so damned bad....

Hahn Super Dry says it best

I wish I could resist those urges. I eventually admitted that crush to him and promised that I would never act on it. He was really understanding and we kept our friendship.

Too bad.

If homegirl has a bf, leave her alone.

Would you want some dude messing with your gf?

Too bad.

If homegirl has a bf, leave her alone.

Would you want some dude messing with your gf?

DaJuicyMan

ahh yes. it was with my best friend in high school. he was going out with this girl i had been friends with since high school. i had a class with her and i swear she always acted like she wanted me but i was not going to make a move on my friend's girl. i'm not like that. i wasn't sad about the situation or anything, but he cheated on her several times and she knew about at least 1 of them. i know i would have treated her better but what can ya do, eh?

So would you guys recommend me keep flirting with her/being a close friend in case she DOES break up with that guy?

butteman12

It's more likely that you'll just get jealous of her stories about him and seeing them together.

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So would you guys recommend me keep flirting with her/being a close friend in case she DOES break up with that guy?

Ronstera

If you feel you could get over having her as a girlfriend, and that you could eventually just become great friends, then I would say stick with it; either way, though, you're going to have to go through a period of enduring their affections for each other in your presence, and it will not be a good time for you.

Just as an afterthought, it's also really not a good practice to attempt to woo a girl that's already taken anyway. Just see what happens, and try to get over it because otherwise it's torture.

Well OT, you guys have persuaded me to stop going after her. Maybe when they break up I'll make a move. But for now, it looks like I'll have to stick to being single (not like I'm not used to that already...). And they say OT can't give you good girl advice :). Thank guys!

Come on, everybody has.

*long sigh* Yes. I have. Talked to her after her and her boyfriend broke up and they ended up getting back together a few weeks later. After a few months of just staying really good friends with her she eventually broke up with her boyfriend for me. We was together for a month or so before me and her broke up because she wasn't over her ex-boyfriend. She tried to get back with him but that didn't happen so me and her started talking again. As soon as I thought we was going to possibly give it another shot she stabbed me in the back and got with another guy. Me and her are still talking now a few months later...

For dear god if you like a girl that has a boyfriend DO NOT. I repeat. DO NOT get her or talk her into leaving her boyfriend for you...it will backfire.

i started liking the girl that im with now while she was still with a guy. he cheated on her, they broke up, i was there for her, we are now a couple.