So... I added this girl on Facebook yesterday...

And she hasn't accecpted me yet... Here's the story behind it...

This happened a couple of months ago. During school time I usually visit her convienience store where she works, and everytime we greet she looks at me and smile as if she's interested, though I am a fool so I have zero clue what she really desires.

However, we get a bonus deal for every 5 coffe bought, by that we get a stamp applied to a card, but it was the other way around. She wrote her name on it instead. I was still struggling to think if she tried to give me a hint, or she's just doing her job.

Well, as for today I haven't seen her at the store for a while, and I believe she has quitted her job. Yet I still have her name on the card.

Keep in mind this happened 3-5 months ago.

Now the real thing is, I've added her, but do you think I should write her a message and tell her who I am and such?

(I am really noob at this, never had a girl in my life, and sorry for my english. I am Asia-Norwegian)

Thanks & Peace

Keep in mind this happened 3-5 months ago.Welis

[QUOTE="Welis"]Keep in mind this happened 3-5 months ago.cd_rom

[QUOTE="Welis"]Keep in mind this happened 3-5 months ago.cd_rom

No, nine months is the proper length of time. You have allow your chances to gestate, just like a baby in the womb!

[QUOTE="cd_rom"][QUOTE="Welis"]Keep in mind this happened 3-5 months ago.Bloodaxe726

No, nine months is the proper length of time. You have allow your chances to gestate, just like a baby in the womb!

personally i dont add girl on facebook if i havent talked to her in real life

but in your situation you should have pm'd her first before adding her on facebook

ohh well i hope she still accepts your request cuz she seemed to be intrested in you cuz she would just give her name away

Maybe she's waiting 3-5 months like you did.

Payback.

Did you accidentally lose control of your mouse and 'like' a load of pictures with her in? Because that can come across creepy.Overlord93

Did you accidentally lose control of your mouse and 'like' a load of pictures with her in? Because that can come across creepy.Overlord93

:lol: I remember that thread, that guy was an ass!:lol: Anyway TC, I would send her a message with it I guess. If she remembers you then your in the clear, and if she doesn't you can't really look any more creepy then you do now.

[QUOTE="Overlord93"]Did you accidentally lose control of your mouse and 'like' a load of pictures with her in? Because that can come across creepy.BATTOSAI76

:lol: I remember that thread, that guy was an ass!:lol: Anyway TC, I would send her a message with it I guess. If she remembers you then your in the clear, and if she doesn't you can't really look any more creepy then you do now.

She is in customer service...... She is supposed to smile at customers and just because a girl is nice to you does not mean she "likes" you.Mafiree

[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]Well, did you tell her your name? Some girls aren't just going to add any guy that sends them a friend request. You should have told her who you were. She didn't have to give you her name if she didn't want to know you a bit more. Or she could have been doing her job.Welis

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="MistressMinako"]Well, did you tell her your name? Some girls aren't just going to add any guy that sends them a friend request. You should have told her who you were. She didn't have to give you her name if she didn't want to know you a bit more. Or she could have been doing her job.DarkFadi

You blew your chance most likely by not asking her out on a date. You can give Facebook a shot, by live and learn. Do not hesitate as ano is better then not knowing.

roulettethedog

[QUOTE="DarkFadi"][QUOTE="Welis"] no but she knows i study at a university next to her store.. i flash my business card wherever i go. But i think i'll pm herWelis

You blew your chance most likely by not asking her out on a date. You can give Facebook a shot, by live and learn. Do not hesitate as ano is better then not knowing.

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="roulettethedog"]

You blew your chance most likely by not asking her out on a date. You can give Facebook a shot, by live and learn. Do not hesitate as ano is better then not knowing.

roulettethedog

I'd say look elsewhere and if you hear from her,just tell the truth. Good Luck

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="roulettethedog"]

You blew your chance most likely by not asking her out on a date. You can give Facebook a shot, by live and learn. Do not hesitate as ano is better then not knowing.

DarkFadi

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="MistressMinako"]Well, did you tell her your name? Some girls aren't just going to add any guy that sends them a friend request. You should have told her who you were. She didn't have to give you her name if she didn't want to know you a bit more. Or she could have been doing her job.DarkFadi

[QUOTE="BATTOSAI76"]

[QUOTE="Overlord93"]Did you accidentally lose control of your mouse and 'like' a load of pictures with her in? Because that can come across creepy.Welis

:lol: I remember that thread, that guy was an ass!:lol: Anyway TC, I would send her a message with it I guess. If she remembers you then your in the clear, and if she doesn't you can't really look any more creepy then you do now.

Either way, you should go out and try to attract another girl. Seriously, you shouldn't wait on a maybe, possibly that you haven't seen in 3 to 5 months. That's too long. I understand you like her but there really are a million girls out there and thousands that are hot. Just go find yourself another one that you don't have to stalk. lol. Don't ever chase after a woman. Most of them would rather chase a guy and not have a guy chase them. This doesn't mean not to talk to them, just don't look desperate and this is one of those times. Move forward bro.

This has to be the saddest post I've ever seen. And this is Gamespot, so there are some pretty bad ones out there.

I'm a bit confused, you say she hasn't responded to your friend add on Facebook? why not just go try and make plans in person?

I'm a bit confused, you say she hasn't responded to your friend add on Facebook? why not just go try and make plans in person?

TheNewEraIcon

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="BATTOSAI76"]

:lol: I remember that thread, that guy was an ass!:lol: Anyway TC, I would send her a message with it I guess. If she remembers you then your in the clear, and if she doesn't you can't really look any more creepy then you do now.

Sunfyre7896

Either way, you should go out and try to attract another girl. Seriously, you shouldn't wait on a maybe, possibly that you haven't seen in 3 to 5 months. That's too long. I understand you like her but there really are a million girls out there and thousands that are hot. Just go find yourself another one that you don't have to stalk. lol. Don't ever chase after a woman. Most of them would rather chase a guy and not have a guy chase them. This doesn't mean not to talk to them, just don't look desperate and this is one of those times. Move forward bro.

I'm a bit confused, you say she hasn't responded to your friend add on Facebook? why not just go try and make plans in person?

dude, you're creepy..why would you search for her name on facebook?narutosup

Send her a message. I did something similar and the girl hadn't recognised me from the photo... and I'd never told her my name. >.>SolidSnake35

dude, you're creepy..why would you search for her name on facebook?narutosup

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]Send her a message. I did something similar and the girl hadn't recognised me from the photo... and I'd never told her my name. >.>Welis

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]Send her a message. I did something similar and the girl hadn't recognised me from the photo... and I'd never told her my name. >.>Welis

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]Send her a message. I did something similar and the girl hadn't recognised me from the photo... and I'd never told her my name. >.>narutosup

[QUOTE="Welis"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]Send her a message. I did something similar and the girl hadn't recognised me from the photo... and I'd never told her my name. >.>narutosup