So I go in a fight at school today, I'm so confused. Please help.

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="seriousley"]

how about learning to control your temper?

for someone who lifts weights, you rack-a-disceprine

plus i officially hate you because you blamed your outburst on being bi polar...it doesnt excuse you for hitting him.

Kikouken

#1. I have a very long temper, it's just that I bottle things up inside. And eventually the bottle overflows.

#2. I didn't blame my outburst on being bipolar, he attacked me. Besides I calmed myself down.

#3. I am very disciplined, how many people have you met that run a mile during lunch with a weighted vest just to become stronger. Only one, and that's me.

I do that, but I actually run 1.5 miles.

And just move on and forget about it.

lol Owned.

Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

LJS9502_basic

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

Vilot_Hero

Violence only generates more violence. Showing a different attitude from what is expected to happen is in my opinion the best option. ~ de arimasu

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

cfamgcn

Violence only generates more violence. Showing a different attitude from what is expected to happen is in my opinion the best option. ~ de arimasu

Showing more violence can solve alot of problems. But LJ said "just move on". How can the TC walk away from this situation? He needs to retaliate.Vilot_Hero

Unless he wants to lose his friend and maybe get in more trouble, it is not the way to go. He doesn't need to retaliate (although I wouldn't be surprised if he did). I have gotten in some discussions with my friends, but we always get over it, and I don't regret anything now. ~ de arimasu

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]Showing more violence can solve alot of problems. But LJ said "just move on". How can the TC walk away from this situation? He needs to retaliate.cfamgcn

Unless he wants to lose his friend and maybe get in more trouble, it is not the way to go. He doesn't needto retaliate (although I wouldn't be surprised if he did). I have gotten in some discussions with my friends, but we always get over it, and I don't regret anything now. ~ de arimasu

His friend hit him over the head:| I don't think that's a friend, and not to mention he pushed him. You may be different, but not everyone is the same. He needs to fight this kid no matter the cost.Vilot_Hero

Again, he doesn't need to do it. It is worth the effort to try to preserve the friendship, trying to get over the situation. It may not seem like the best solution, but if they do get along again, it will be a proof of true friendship. What can he lose by trying at least? ~ de arimasuka

And just for the record, the TC said he pushed his friend first. ~ de arimasu

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]His friend hit him over the head:| I don't think that's a friend, and not to mention he pushed him. You may be different, but not everyone is the same. He needs to fight this kid no matter the cost.cfamgcn

Again, he doesn't needto do it. It is worth the effort to try to preserve the friendship, trying to get over the situation. It may not seem like the best solution, but if they do get along again, it will be a proof of true friendship. What can he lose by trying at least? ~ de arimasuka

And just for the record, the TC said he pushed his friend first. ~ de arimasu

The other guy will see weakness in him, and will continue to insult and degrade him. Why take the chance, when you can beat him down and ensure your safety?Vilot_Hero

True, that can happen. And they both can forget about it and be pretty good friends, too. Also, because the TC beats him down now, it doesn't ensure any safety, since the other guy can look around for "help" retaliating about the situation. ~ de arimasu

If the other guy insults or degrades the TC after he's tried to become friends again, I wouldn't object to what you suggest (although I don't really like the idea). But as I said, he doesn't lose anything by at least trying (he won't regret about it later, either). ~ de arimashou

Both parties are semi-guilty.

1. The friend should have not thrown the first punch, period. He is most guilty.

2. He is even more guilty for punching the TC knowing that the punch would set off his bipolar disorder, asuming he knew which is probable.

3. Fighting back...not really the best idea, but understandable. It would have been better to run off and then get him kicked out of school, but since he actually hit you, you really do have full right to return fire. Granted, running was still the "best" option, but I don't blame you for punching him, especially considering the disorder.

In short, The fault levels:

TC: 15%

Puncher: 85%

And there you go. Really, don't worry about it and move on.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

Vilot_Hero

You really like to follow LJ and contradict everything he says. I would walk away, even if It wasn't a friend. Fighting should only be used in defense, which proves that it solves nothing. It has no other purpose than countering itself.

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]The other guy will see weakness in him, and will continue to insult and degrade him. Why take the chance, when you can beat him down and ensure your safety?cfamgcn

True, that can happen. And they both can forget about it and be pretty good friends, too. Also, because the TC beats him down now, it doesn't ensure any safety, since the other guy can look around for "help" retaliating about the situation. ~ de arimasu

If the other guy insults or degrades the TC after he's tried to become friends again, I wouldn't object to what you suggest (although I don't really like the idea). But as I said, he doesn't lose anything by at least trying (he won't regret about it later, either). ~ de arimashou

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

bazookajoe19

You really like to follow LJ and contradict everythinghe says. I would walk away, even if It wasn't a friend. Fighting should only be used in defense, which proves that it solves nothing. It has no other purpose than countering itself.

[QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

Vilot_Hero

You really like to follow LJ and contradict everythinghe says. I would walk away, even if It wasn't a friend. Fighting should only be used in defense, which proves that it solves nothing. It has no other purpose than countering itself.

There was never a problem to begin with. Do you really think the situation warranted a fight? And I do have a problem with you trying to change his opinion. Everyone is entitled to thier own opinion, not yours. He is clearly annoyed by you and the kind thing to do would be to leave him alone.

If the other guy is as bad as the TC says he is, that that would mean he would have no help. But the TC sounds like him forgiving people is not an option.Vilot_Hero

In the end, it depends on the TC. I think there is still hope for their friendship, and I hope he doesn't do anything reckless. ~ de arimasu

[QUOTE="hockey73"]

[QUOTE="tman93"][QUOTE="gatorforlife07"]Why would you say how much you and your friend bench press I'm sure that nobody cares about that-Big_Red-

Yah I absolutely hate when people do that in their posts, it makes them look like a cocky jerk. Like honestly i don't care how much you bench press. Anyway, you both over-reacted like everyone else said, but I'm sorry to say, your friendship with him is probably over.

Once again, did you not read my answer to that question.

I didn't over react I was just trying to get to class.

I wouldn't worry too much about it, if your "friend" was this willing to openly attack you for no good reason, I wouldn't stick with him. If it bothers you that much after you've cooled down, then I would talk to him. I dont see much reason for you to apologize but still, talk to him. Ask him the reasons for his actions. Dont unexpectedly attack him physically the next time you see him. Thats assuming and we all know what happens when we assume.

Also, just a friendly piece of advice, don't bring issues like this to Gamespot forums because about 90% of the people on here are arrogant 12 year old single minded morons with no constructive attitudes. Let my bashing of the morons on this topic begin!

Also, I hope everything works out. You sound like a level guy who has his head on straight, don't let other people drag you down. This "friend" might not be worth it.

I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.bungie93

And yet you took the time to post such a useless comment. You sir, fail. You are for McCain AND have the name bungie? Could you be more useless?

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

bazookajoe19

You really like to follow LJ and contradict everythinghe says. I would walk away, even if It wasn't a friend. Fighting should only be used in defense, which proves that it solves nothing. It has no other purpose than countering itself.

There was never a problem to begin with. Do you really think the situation warranted a fight? And I do have a problem with you trying to change his opinion. Everyone is entitled to thier own opinion, not yours. He is clearly annoyed by you and the kind thing to do would be to leave him alone.

[QUOTE="Premier1101"]Be a real man **** him up the first time.sraczk

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]If the other guy is as bad as the TC says he is, that that would mean he would have no help. But the TC sounds like him forgiving people is not an option.cfamgcn

In the end, it depends on the TC. I think there is still hope for their friendship, and I hope he doesn't do anything reckless. ~ de arimasu

The guy harassed him dude:| Would you walk away from this "friend", if he harassed you in any sort of manner?Vilot_Hero

Yes, I would.

[QUOTE="bungie93"]I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.saintpatrice

And yet you took the time to post such a useless comment. You sir, fail. You are for McCain AND have the name bungie? Could you be more useless?

So, since I don't support a socialist, I'm useless? And if you are going to be a fanboy, go to system wars. I posted the comment because the TC is obviously lying. Very few high school kids can bench 300 and I highly doubt one of the few who can would be posting on gamespot.

Both parties are semi-guilty.

1. The friend should have not thrown the first punch, period. He is most guilty.

2. He is even more guilty for punching the TC knowing that the punch would set off his bipolar disorder, asuming he knew which is probable.

3. Fighting back...not really the best idea, but understandable. It would have been better to run off and then get him kicked out of school, but since he actually hit you, you really do have full right to return fire. Granted, running was still the "best" option, but I don't blame you for punching him, especially considering the disorder.

In short, The fault levels:

TC: 15%

Puncher: 85%

And there you go. Really, don't worry about it and move on.

DOS4dinner

You sir, are awesome =)

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]

The guy harassed him dude:| Would you walk away from this "friend", if he harassed you in any sort of manner?bazookajoe19

Yes, I would.

[QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]

The guy harassed him dude:| Would you walk away from this "friend", if he harassed you in any sort of manner?Vilot_Hero

Yes, I would.

Fight, fight, fight, fight.

man your are one b a m f, wow you can bench 300 pounds , and rip peoples shirts, by the way how much u bench and how you run with a weighted vest at lunch doesnt mean anything when it comes to fightingyou

but by golly with all that discipline you could be the next Roy Jones JR!

[QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]

The guy harassed him dude:| Would you walk away from this "friend", if he harassed you in any sort of manner?Vilot_Hero

Yes, I would.

In the specific situation that the TC described, I would just walk away. If it was more personal and the actions of the attacker actually offended me I would defend myself. There are certain people that I would fight but only because I have no respect for them and if i did not fight back I would feel like I am being pushed around. I do agree that fighting solves nothing but I'm not perfect and I would fight if provoked enough.

man your are one b a m f, wow you can bench 300 pounds , and rip peoples shirts, by the way how much u bench and how you run with a weighted vest at lunch doesnt mean anything when it comes to fightingyou

but by golly with all that discipline you could be the next Roy Jones JR!

jerkface96

He's obviously joking.

[QUOTE="saintpatrice"]

[QUOTE="bungie93"]I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.bungie93

And yet you took the time to post such a useless comment. You sir, fail. You are for McCain AND have the name bungie? Could you be more useless?

So, since I don't support a socialist, I'm useless? And if you are going to be a fanboy, go to system wars. I posted the comment because the TC is obviously lying. Very few high school kids can bench 300 and I highly doubt one of the few who can would be posting on gamespot.

Just about the entire Football team at my High School could bench that. I was near 200 myself.

A Socialist? Do you know what a socialist is?

My point was that your post was pointless and your obvious choices make you less credible.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHOxzsogzAk

[QUOTE="bungie93"][QUOTE="saintpatrice"]

[QUOTE="bungie93"]I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.saintpatrice

And yet you took the time to post such a useless comment. You sir, fail. You are for McCain AND have the name bungie? Could you be more useless?

So, since I don't support a socialist, I'm useless? And if you are going to be a fanboy, go to system wars. I posted the comment because the TC is obviously lying. Very few high school kids can bench 300 and I highly doubt one of the few who can would be posting on gamespot.

Just about the entire Football team at my High School could bench that. I was near 200 myself.

A Socialist? Do you know what a socialist is?

My point was that your post was pointless and your obvious choices make you less credible.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHOxzsogzAk

Haha, that's rich. Your team should be in the NFL then.

[QUOTE="saintpatrice"][QUOTE="bungie93"][QUOTE="saintpatrice"]

[QUOTE="bungie93"]I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.bungie93

And yet you took the time to post such a useless comment. You sir, fail. You are for McCain AND have the name bungie? Could you be more useless?

So, since I don't support a socialist, I'm useless? And if you are going to be a fanboy, go to system wars. I posted the comment because the TC is obviously lying. Very few high school kids can bench 300 and I highly doubt one of the few who can would be posting on gamespot.

Just about the entire Football team at my High School could bench that. I was near 200 myself.

A Socialist? Do you know what a socialist is?

My point was that your post was pointless and your obvious choices make you less credible.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHOxzsogzAk

Haha, that's rich. Your team should be in the NFL then.

Man everyone is just a liar in your eyes eh? hahaha

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]

The guy harassed him dude:| Would you walk away from this "friend", if he harassed you in any sort of manner?bazookajoe19

Yes, I would.

In the specific situation that the TC described, I would just walk away. If it was more personal and the actions of the attacker actually offended me I would defend myself. There are certain people that I would fight but only because I have no respect for them and if i did not fight back I would feel like I am being pushed around. I do agree that fighting solves nothing but I'm not perfect and I would fight if provoked enough.

[QUOTE="bungie93"][QUOTE="saintpatrice"][QUOTE="bungie93"][QUOTE="saintpatrice"]

[QUOTE="bungie93"]I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.saintpatrice

And yet you took the time to post such a useless comment. You sir, fail. You are for McCain AND have the name bungie? Could you be more useless?

So, since I don't support a socialist, I'm useless? And if you are going to be a fanboy, go to system wars. I posted the comment because the TC is obviously lying. Very few high school kids can bench 300 and I highly doubt one of the few who can would be posting on gamespot.

Just about the entire Football team at my High School could bench that. I was near 200 myself.

A Socialist? Do you know what a socialist is?

My point was that your post was pointless and your obvious choices make you less credible.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHOxzsogzAk

Haha, that's rich. Your team should be in the NFL then.

Man everyone is just a liar in your eyes eh? hahaha

You claimed that "just about the entire football team at my high school could bench that (300)." A statement like that is so absurd that I really have to wonder if you are just trying to get me worked up.

[QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]

The guy harassed him dude:| Would you walk away from this "friend", if he harassed you in any sort of manner?Vilot_Hero

Yes, I would.

In the specific situation that the TC described, I would just walk away. If it was more personal and the actions of the attacker actually offended me I would defend myself. There are certain people that I would fight but only because I have no respect for them and if i did not fight back I would feel like I am being pushed around. I do agree that fighting solves nothing but I'm not perfect and I would fight if provoked enough.

I personally think it would be embarrasing for the friend if the TC just walked away. He would seem immature for starting the fight and the TC would seem more mature for ignoring the whole situation. Obviously we're not going to agree on this because we have opposite views on fighting. I'm willing to agree to disagree with you on this. Good night, I'm going to sleep.

Haha, that's rich. Your team should be in the NFL then. bungie93

[QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"][QUOTE="bazookajoe19"][QUOTE="Vilot_Hero"]

The guy harassed him dude:| Would you walk away from this "friend", if he harassed you in any sort of manner?bazookajoe19

Yes, I would.

In the specific situation that the TC described, I would just walk away. If it was more personal and the actions of the attacker actually offended me I would defend myself. There are certain people that I would fight but only because I have no respect for them and if i did not fight back I would feel like I am being pushed around. I do agree that fighting solves nothing but I'm not perfect and I would fight if provoked enough.

I personally think it would be embarrasing for the friend if the TC just walked away. He would seem immature for starting the fight and the TC would seem more mature for ignoring the whole situation. Obviously we're not going to agree on this because we have opposite views on fighting. I'm willing to agree to disagree with you on this. Good night, I'm going to sleep.

But being that I'm bipolar, the darker side of me began to tak control. I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds. A feat that my friend were in shock, and aww of. I'm alot stronger than he is, he only bench presses 245, and i'm at 300.

-Big_Red-

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

But being that I'm bipolar, the darker side of me began to tak control. I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds. A feat that my friend were in shock, and aww of. I'm alot stronger than he is, he only bench presses 245, and i'm at 300.

elblanquito_81

So why is it when someone posts a topic asking for help the majority of people who respond are skeptical and disrespectful to the topic creator? As for me, I won't make a judgement call since I don't personally know the parties involved.Saying my opinion on this matter would be very subjective and unfair on my part.

[QUOTE="elblanquito_81"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

But being that I'm bipolar, the darker side of me began to tak control. I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds. A feat that my friend were in shock, and aww of. I'm alot stronger than he is, he only bench presses 245, and i'm at 300.

viewtiful26

So why is it when someone posts a topic asking for help the majority of people who respond are skeptical and disrespectful to the topic creator? As for me, I won't make a judgement call since I don't personally know the parties involved.Saying my opinion on this matter would be very subjective and unfair on my part.

[QUOTE="viewtiful26"][QUOTE="elblanquito_81"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

But being that I'm bipolar, the darker side of me began to tak control. I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds. A feat that my friend were in shock, and aww of. I'm alot stronger than he is, he only bench presses 245, and i'm at 300.

elblanquito_81

So why is it when someone posts a topic asking for help the majority of people who respond are skeptical and disrespectful to the topic creator? As for me, I won't make a judgement call since I don't personally know the parties involved.Saying my opinion on this matter would be very subjective and unfair on my part.

so true to all of the above, but wat u guys dont understand, is this is HULKMANIIIIAAAAAAA