So I go in a fight at school today, I'm so confused. Please help.

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#101 Juggernaut140
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I'm surprised you didn't Bel-Air us.
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#102 Ultimator777
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I know violence isn't the answer, but sometimes getting it wrong on purpose is the best solution. Some people just need to be ***** UP!
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#103 error11
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TBH, you sound like a jerk to me. :?
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#104 KOTORkicker
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[QUOTE="SaugaGames"]I've seen this happen a hundred times. Egos clash all the time between friends and it almost always manifests itself in a physical fight. Everything will cool down in time.-Big_Red-

I don't have a large ego.

You could have a large ego subconsciously. And that's not just me being naive... He could have offended your ego without you even noticing (Consciously)

Ask yourself this : If there weren't so many people around, would you have fought him?

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#105 Scatheloke
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Err, I find some of this a bit exaderated.

If you are bipolar, you probaly woulda beat the crap outta when he started being a prick Unless you are on the meds. Then, you would auctually be a bit more relaxed and calm than most people.

Secondly, the whole "benching 300" thing, that's not even important, lol, thats just bragging.

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#106 I_pWnzz_YoU
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I'm surprised you didn't Bel-Air us.Juggernaut140

"So I got in one little fight and my mom got scared, she said, You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air"

Dun nananana Dun nananananana.

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#107 kerrman
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How about you talk to him? Salvage a good friendship?

You sound absolutely nuts by the way.

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#108 Dark-Sithious
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I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.bungie93

Lol, that was indeed funny. If you want to get better at fighting, you should do pushups on your bare knuckels. If you're strong enough add a 10-20kg backback to the mix.

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#109 cool_baller
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I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds.

-Big_Red-
oh sexy
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#110 shyskillz
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I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds. A feat that my friend were in shock, and aww of. I'm alot stronger than he is, he only bench presses 245, and i'm at 300.

-Big_Red-

this part made me laugh because it reminded me of a scene from a cartoon.lol

anyway, it isn't worth it. youngins can be jerks at times and itz mainly done by someone who wants to be seen and respected more... so they try to use their friends or bully to get the statis they desire. youngins don't think everything thru( i'm not saying they are dumb )

it sounds like all of you guys were just jacked up off of testosterone. at your age fighting is normal but itz really not tolerated so it can be confusing sometimes to live in these times. all young males have this problem in every animal. some are just not as physical with theirs and use various means to gain advantages over other males. as you get older you'll realize this, just be careful with your judgement, anger can ruin your life and it wouldn't be right if it was all because of hair brush. talk to him or challenge him in a game to release some of that tension.

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#112 DabsTight703
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Get over it and move on. Fighting solves nothing.

LJS9502_basic

Fighting solves many things. That kid sounds like he deserved to get punked out. You call him your friend? Really? If he easily did that then he just sounds like an idiot and deserves a good whoopin. Beat him down tommorow and take pictures.

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#113 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="saintpatrice"]

[QUOTE="bungie93"]I stopped reading when you said you can bench 300 and that he can "only" bench 245.bungie93

And yet you took the time to post such a useless comment. You sir, fail. You are for McCain AND have the name bungie? Could you be more useless?

So, since I don't support a socialist, I'm useless? And if you are going to be a fanboy, go to system wars. I posted the comment because the TC is obviously lying. Very few high school kids can bench 300 and I highly doubt one of the few who can would be posting on gamespot.

What the hell is that suppouse to mean?

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#114 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

But being that I'm bipolar, the darker side of me began to tak control. I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds. A feat that my friend were in shock, and aww of. I'm alot stronger than he is, he only bench presses 245, and i'm at 300.

elblanquito_81

This part here made me lol. Shock and awe? For ripping a shirt? Seriously? And benching 55 more lbs than he does makes you "a lot stronger than him"? I don't know, this, and this whole story just seems made up to soothe some insecurities. If it isn't, then you need to get yourself some anger management issues, and see a professional about your bipolar disorder and stop treating it like it's something to put the blame on when you lose your temper.

Actually 55 pounds is alot heavier than it sounds. And my bipolar disorder isn't too bad.

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#115 chrisrooR
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I smell a troll.
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#116 jerkface96
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big red the whole benchin 300 pounds dont mean anything, im pretty sure if you went up agains a feather weight boxer or ufc fighter that couldnt even bench 2 plates, they would still woop on you
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#117 DeathHeart95
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I'm the same way sometimes, where my mind just kind of shuts down for a moment and I'll push back, although that's the furthest I've gotten so far.

I have to keep out of fights. For some reason, I am always the kid who gets caught, so by my luck it'll look like I started the fight. Someone actually punched me in the back once, and absolutely none except for like five kids noticed, so I just walked away knowing that if I punched him back I'd be the one that got caught.

As for your problem, just ignore him. People like that are out for a reaction, so as long as you don't react back, he'll stop wanting to punch your face in.

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#118 ThisCurse
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I didnt read the whole 6 pages of replies.......but, yeah that sucks when its your FRIEND that acts that way. He was obviously trying to show off to his fotball pals and since he knew you, he thought he could get away with antagonizing you publicly. I say, just call him up as get to the bottom of it and squash it before it makes you two enemies for life. You were right to react the way you did, its only natural. If fact, you showed a lot of resraint considering the guy was your friend........it doesnt feel good to get backstabbed by a friend.
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#119 I_pWnzz_YoU
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I smell a troll.chrisrooR

Theres no such thing as a troll on the OT.

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#120 CreasianDevaili
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I was walking from sixth period to seventh period. And being that I had a very socially productive sixth period I was feeling wild, and uncontrollable. I don't know why, that's just how my mind is, whenever I make people laugh, and talk alot I get like that. Anyway I was walking from sixth period to seventh period. And I saw a large group of my friends hanging around the water fountain. Most of them play football, and wer'e all roudy. I was thirsty so I had decided to take a drink from the water fountain. It's one of the coldest, and cleanest ones in the school, so I took a longer drink than usual. My friend since eight grade was standing by the water fountain. He can be a tad annoying at times, and that's a huge understatement.

He was holding a brush in his hand, and as I took a drink he hit me in the back of the head with it. So I stopped drinking, and asked him why he did that. He got in my face and repeatedly yelled "GO TO CLASS!!" Some of his spit got on my lip, I whipped it off looked at the ground, and grinned wickedly. He continued to yell. I knew he was joking with me, but I just couldn't take because of my state of mind at the moment. I pushed him out my way, and he pushed back.

I stood there shaking my head at his ignorance. As I tried to walk away, he punched me in the face. I tried to maintain my cool. But being that I'm bipolar, the darker side of me began to tak control. I grabbed, and jaked him up against the wall, and ripped his shirt to shreds. A feat that my friend were in shock, and aww of. I'm alot stronger than he is, he only bench presses 245, and i'm at 300.

"You ripped my shirt!", he screamed. I stood there looking like I was ready to kill. He attempted to punch me in the face, but I dodged. So it's me and him in our stances, and ready to fight.I don't quited remember how many punches were thrown. But I do remember that one of his punches barely hit me, and put a small scratch on my nose. Then my rival Robert Ingram, had pushed me, as a warning sign to take control, and stop. I must of hit my oppenent hard, because he began to flee. My friend, and rival Robert Ingram (you all know my stories of the rivalry between us) psuhed me , as a warning sign to cool it, and gain control. I walked after my enemy as he was fleeing, but my friend blocked me, and his cousin who's also my friend and weighs over 300 pounds bench presses almsot as much as I do, and is around the height of 6''6 gently pushes me back, and just calms me down, I'm walking backwords infront of him, and staring down my opponent as we go to class. As much as I wanted to go kill him, I knew that my friends words of restraint we're the right thing to do, Ingram gave me my bakcpack, running shoes, and went to class. Surprisingly I didn't get in any trouble.

Ii's not 10:22 around eight hours after the incident. My friends say that it isn't worth it, and I know that what they're saying is true. But I can't help but want to fight him the upcoming day of school. I don't get it. We'eve been good friends for three years straight, and this happens. It's like just because he's finally playing football he thinks he so high, and mighty. he's so pompus. I'm pretty sure that had something to do with it. Being that im not playing football this year, I'm thinking about not being rival's with Ingram anymore, and devote all of my training to crushing my old friend. Please help off topic.

Discuss.

-Big_Red-

The pecking order of your circle of friends is more important to you than that individual friend. You had a confrontation in front of many friends with another, and it wasnt finished. As of right now, you and him are out of the loop until its settled.

He wounded your pride, he hurt your social perception from others, and you want to make a statement by fighting and winning him at school where there will be plenty to see.

Not saying its right or wrong. Up to you. However wanting to fight him at school means your doing this for how others look at you than how you look at yourself. If you want to settle the score personally then call him out and have it out one on one by yourselfs. If you need to do it in front of others, then you just want to prove something in the eyes of others and by all accounts the only way for you two to be friends is by making the other inferior and under your shadow, thus, your not going to be friends ever again.

Unless you can get rid of the urge to do it for how others see you now, someone who got pushed and couldnt finish the job, your just going to need to walk away from the friendship totally. You just made your friend, or him you, rivals.