So. . . . I wanna ask this guy out. . . . .*UPDATED*

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#51 markop2003
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[QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

At least it's not a girl advice thread. >.>

Theokhoth

Not may area of expertice but I'll try to help.

You're best bet is to get the stones and ask him if he wants to hang out or grab lunch or something. If nothing else, it can be a simple friendly gesture. I'm sure if you play the right cards you might be able to get some more info out of it.

Perhaps, but that would be difficult. . .I'd have to invite him to a party or something where there will be other people.

invite him to a movie or somin with some of your friends,maybe you could get your straight friends to start talking about thier GFs or their experiances with girls then they can slip in in a joke about you "having it easy not having problems with women" or somin like that

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

At least it's not a girl advice thread. >.>

markop2003

Not may area of expertice but I'll try to help.

You're best bet is to get the stones and ask him if he wants to hang out or grab lunch or something. If nothing else, it can be a simple friendly gesture. I'm sure if you play the right cards you might be able to get some more info out of it.

Perhaps, but that would be difficult. . .I'd have to invite him to a party or something where there will be other people.

invite him to a movie or somin with some of your friends,maybe you could get your straight friends to start talking about thier GFs or their experiances with girls then they can slip in in a joke about you "having it easy not having problems with women" or somin like that

Invite him to a musical...

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#54 domatron23
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Well I think step one is to find out his sexual orientation. You can bring up homosexuality jokingly or ask him what his previous relatioinships were like (a girlfriend is not a good sign).

Step two if he's gay Tell him that you are also gay and then ask him out- easy.

Good luck.

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="Boba_Fett_3710"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

At least it's not a girl advice thread. >.>

markop2003

Not may area of expertice but I'll try to help.

You're best bet is to get the stones and ask him if he wants to hang out or grab lunch or something. If nothing else, it can be a simple friendly gesture. I'm sure if you play the right cards you might be able to get some more info out of it.

Perhaps, but that would be difficult. . .I'd have to invite him to a party or something where there will be other people.

invite him to a movie or somin with some of your friends,maybe you could get your straight friends to start talking about thier GFs or their experiances with girls then they can slip in in a joke about you "having it easy not having problems with women" or somin like that

Heh... the longer the thread gets, the more elaborate the plan.

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#56 mentalabc123
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[QUOTE="mentalabc123"]

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]Get a friend to go up to him and say, "Hey do you think (insert girl in your class's name here) is hot?"harashawn

How would that work? If he's in the closet, he's not going to say 'I'm into guys, thanks'.

How do you know?

Been there, done that.

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Ok here is what you do. You are a big boy now. Get some courage and ask him. Simple as that. Just walk up to him when you two have some privacy and say "Hey. I have been wanting to ask you something. I am gay and want to know if you gay as well."

Something along those lines.

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get a picture of a hot chick show him if he thinks she hot and show a dude and see his answer,
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#59 justblaze7204
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Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.
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#60 Theokhoth
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Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.justblaze7204

I think that's the route I'm going to try.I do have a female friend who knows I'm gay . . .but she may not want to help, because she's also a Christian, and more of the Conservative type.

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#61 Hoobinator
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Ok here is what you do. You are a big boy now. Get some courage and ask him. Simple as that. Just walk up to him when you two have some privacy and say "Hey. I have been wanting to ask you something. I am gay and want to know if you gay as well."

Something along those lines.

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I knew you were gay I just knew it...

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#62 mentalabc123
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Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.justblaze7204

I think that's probably one of the better ideas.

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[QUOTE="justblaze7204"]Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.Theokhoth

I think that's the route I'm going to try.I do have a female friend who knows I'm gay . . .but she may not want to help, because she's also a Christian, and more of the Conservative type.

She should help I don't see why being a Christian and Conservative should stop her because she isn't saying she is gay she is only helping out a friend and I hope everything turns out good.

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Aren't you a guy?Tuky06

maybe he is gay hence the issue about the "gaydar". Why would a woman need gaydar?

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[QUOTE="justblaze7204"]Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.Theokhoth

I think that's the route I'm going to try.I do have a female friend who knows I'm gay . . .but she may not want to help, because she's also a Christian, and more of the Conservative type.

Not all Christians are against homosexuality.

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[QUOTE="Tuky06"]Aren't you a guy?mrbojangles25

maybe he is gay hence the issue about the "gaydar". Why would a woman need gaydar?

It depends.

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I think that's the route I'm going to try.

Theokhoth

That's what SHE said! :D

Actually, that doesn't work given the context. >_>

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="justblaze7204"]Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.harashawn

I think that's the route I'm going to try.I do have a female friend who knows I'm gay . . .but she may not want to help, because she's also a Christian, and more of the Conservative type.

Not all Christians are against homosexuality.

I know.

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#69 Funky_Llama
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="justblaze7204"]Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.harashawn

I think that's the route I'm going to try.I do have a female friend who knows I'm gay . . .but she may not want to help, because she's also a Christian, and more of the Conservative type.

Not all Christians are against homosexuality.

I'm guessing he knows that, given that he himselfis Christian.

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#70 Theokhoth
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She should help I don't see why being a Christian and Conservative should stop her because she isn't saying she is gay she is only helping out a friend and I hope everything turns out good.

justblaze7204

No, but she might view it as aiding a sin, sort of how cops arrest assistants of criminals. We have a mutual understanding: I don't flaunt my homosexuality, and she doesn't throw holy water at me.:P

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[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="justblaze7204"]Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.Funky_Llama

I think that's the route I'm going to try.I do have a female friend who knows I'm gay . . .but she may not want to help, because she's also a Christian, and more of the Conservative type.

Not all Christians are against homosexuality.

I'm guessing he knows that, given that he himselfis Christian.

Is he? How did you know that and I didn't?

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#72 harashawn
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[QUOTE="justblaze7204"]

She should help I don't see why being a Christian and Conservative should stop her because she isn't saying she is gay she is only helping out a friend and I hope everything turns out good.

Theokhoth

No, but she might view it as aiding a sin, sort of how cops arrest assistants of criminals. We have a mutual understanding: I don't flaunt my homosexuality, and she doesn't throw holy water at me.:P

But Holy water is so good!

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#73 Theokhoth
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Is he? How did you know that and I didn't?

harashawn

He probably knows because I argue with him all the ****ing time. . . .:lol:

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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="justblaze7204"]Are you openly gay and by that I mean if someone ask you will tell them the truth saying that you are. If you aren't trying to hid it then why not have one of your friends that is a girl go up to him and ask him if he is gay and then have them say the reason is because they have a friend that thinks you are cute or something of that nature. If he isn't guy then he won't do anything to the girl and if he is then the girl helped you out.harashawn

I think that's the route I'm going to try.I do have a female friend who knows I'm gay . . .but she may not want to help, because she's also a Christian, and more of the Conservative type.

Not all Christians are against homosexuality.

I'm guessing he knows that, given that he himselfis Christian.

Is he? How did you know that and I didn't?

Well, if he's not Christian, he's guilty of a hell of a lot of intellectual dishonesty given all the religious debate threads in which he argues for Christianity. :P

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But Holy water is so good!

harashawn

It burns.:(

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it's dude on dude so just ask to hang out like you would with any other friend... then idk what to do from there since I don't go that way >.>
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uhhh...so u like other people's wee wee on your ding dongs?..thats ok with me...i dont have any problem with that....umm this is akward :shock:hot_juicy_steak

Thanks for the words i couldn't express...

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Try to find his Mobile phone number(by a friend of yours)and send a message "R U GAY I am one of your school student we'll have good times with each other" I don't know something like that. and you know the rest of story.
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[QUOTE="harashawn"]

But Holy water is so good!

Theokhoth

It burns.:(

fight through the pain.

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[QUOTE="Tuky06"]Aren't you a guy?harashawn

maybe he is gay hence the issue about the "gaydar". Why would a woman need gaydar?

It depends.

speaking of gaydar did anyone else think of the Office Episode?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjsN22Oye1A

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[QUOTE="tzar3"]Run up to him and hug him, if he holds you it means he likes you.Mehdi-Y
Try to find his Mobile phone number(by a friend of yours)and send a message "R U GAY I am one of your school student we'll have good times with each other" I don't know something like that. and you know the rest of story.

That would probably scare him away, actually.

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#83 Boba_Fett_3710
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Well, if he's not Christian, he's guilty of a hell of a lot of intellectual dishonesty given all the religious debate threads in which he argues for Christianity. :P

Funky_Llama

I want to see how this turns out. Please don't let this turn into a religious thread, I'm sick of those as they never make any progress.

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

I think that's the route I'm going to try.

Funky_Llama

That's what SHE said! :D

Actually, that doesn't work given the context. >_>

It was a valiant effort nevertheless.

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[QUOTE="Mehdi-Y"][QUOTE="tzar3"]Run up to him and hug him, if he holds you it means he likes you.harashawn

Try to find his Mobile phone number(by a friend of yours)and send a message "R U GAY I am one of your school student we'll have good times with each other" I don't know something like that. and you know the rest of story.

That would probably scare him away, actually.

That actually seems kind of stalkerish and turn him away and he would lose all chance with him.

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[QUOTE="harashawn"]Get someone to ask him?Theokhoth

That's actually a decent idea. . .I could ask one of my female friends. But then if he gets snoopy something might happen.:?

this souned like a good plan to me.
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#87 N8A
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[QUOTE="harashawn"]Get someone to ask him?Theokhoth

That's actually a decent idea. . .I could ask one of my female friends. But then if he gets snoopy something might happen.:?

this souned like a good plan to me.
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Im a gay college male as well and it seems like you havnt had many relationships. Its so easy to fine out if a guys gay especialy in college. First off, your not going to get beat up if you ask him straight up, but if your to shy to ask him get to know him. If you become friends with him (and assuming that he is gay then he will be alittle more flirty with you than a straight guy would. If your to shy to do that, then ask a friend to go up to him and say something like," My friend thinks your cute and he wanted to know if you were gay Still, getting to know him and asking him is by far the easiest and best thing to do.
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="harashawn"]Get someone to ask him?N8A

That's actually a decent idea. . .I could ask one of my female friends. But then if he gets snoopy something might happen.:?

this souned like a good plan to me.

I always have great ideas! :)

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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

I think that's the route I'm going to try.

domatron23

That's what SHE said! :D

Actually, that doesn't work given the context. >_>

It was a valiant effort nevertheless.

Thank you. *bows*

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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

I think that's the route I'm going to try.

domatron23

That's what SHE said! :D

Actually, that doesn't work given the context. >_>

It was a valiant effort nevertheless.

Thank you. *bows*

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Try to find his Mobile phone number(by a friend of yours)and send a message "R U GAY I am one of your school student we'll have good times with each other" I don't know something like that. and you know the rest of story.Mehdi-Y

If I did that then I think I'd come off as a perverted stalker, even if he is gay

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[QUOTE="domatron23"][QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

I think that's the route I'm going to try.

Funky_Llama

That's what SHE said! :D

Actually, that doesn't work given the context. >_>

It was a valiant effort nevertheless.

Thank you. *bows*

Wow. Triple posted.

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Try to find his Mobile phone number(by a friend of yours)and send a message "R U GAY I am one of your school student we'll have good times with each other" I don't know something like that. and you know the rest of story.Mehdi-Y

:lol: The romance is almost palpable.

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Secretly follow him around, and if he goes to a gay bar he is probably gaycool_baller

or just looking for some free drinks

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just ask him do he wants to get some coffee, ice cream or sodapop. if yes,then converse on stuff like super heros , games,sports and exercise. if you get that far i ganrantee you'll find out if he's gay or not....if you don't get that far then everything happens for a reason. i missed out on plenty of girl crushes in school but i don't think about none of them now.

life is too short to be procrastinating.....especialy about this. go for it, the worst that could happen is a rejection and men have dealt with that more then any women will care to admit.

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#99 Boba_Fett_3710
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[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Secretly follow him around, and if he goes to a gay bar he is probably gayvendettared468

or just looking for some free drinks


True that. I'd flirt a bit for a few free drinks.
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#100 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="vendettared468"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Secretly follow him around, and if he goes to a gay bar he is probably gayBoba_Fett_3710

or just looking for some free drinks


True that. I'd flirt a bit for a few free drinks.

Really?:|