So OT, how old are you? *Poll*

[QUOTE="gingefails"]I'm 17. A few months and I can go in to Bargain Booze with my glasses on and it'll be okaaaaaaaay.spazzx625

[QUOTE="gingefails"]I'm 17. A few months and I can go in to Bargain Booze with my glasses on and it'll be okaaaaaaaay.spazzx625

UK or Canada i guess..isn't legal drinking age in the USA 21?..

[QUOTE="gingefails"] More like a discount circus, with some of the people I see working in there. And that's simple; they make me look about 12. spazzx625

People say i look like a 15-16 year old...:|

People say i look like a 15-16 year old...:|

Xx_Hopeless_xX

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

People say i look like a 15-16 year old...:|

spazzx625

No i'm 18 :cry:..

*hides in a corner crying*..

[spoiler] there aren't any corners to hide in.. [/spoiler]

Ah, but mine are bright red and flamboyant. I love them, but I wouldn't choose them when purposely trying to appear old + legal. I have round cheeks too. There's something about glasses that makes them look squishier.gingefails

No i'm 18 :cry:..

*hides in a corner crying*..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

[QUOTE="spazzx625"] Discount circus with booze involved? My curiosity is piqued... Hm, I've always thought glasses make people look older...You're a girl, right? I guess it just depends on the frames. I feel like my glasses make me look like an old mangingefails

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]bright red glasses >_> interestinggingefails

as I'm pulling a stupid face trying to shot lemon juice.gingefails

[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"][QUOTE="clyde46"]

Ask me now and I'm 18, ask me in 4 days and I'm 19 :o

clyde46

[QUOTE="gingefails"]as I'm pulling a stupid face trying to shot lemon juice.Jandurin

[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="gingefails"]as I'm pulling a stupid face trying to shot lemon juice.spazzx625

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

No i'm 18 :cry:..

*hides in a corner crying*..

spazzx625

You don't look like your younger then 18 though..no offense..

I'll be 58 on Jan. 8th.

rjxtian

Damn that sucks so your almost dead huh? JK

20 yr old over here.

You don't look like your younger then 18 though..no offense..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

You don't look like your younger then 18 though..no offense..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

You don't look like your younger then 18 though..no offense..

Jandurin

You don't look like your younger then 18 though..no offense..

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

You don't look like your younger then 18 though..no offense..

spazzx625

I get carded all the time ( Though I'm only 18 ). Be it an M rated game or an R rated movie. I think the people at my Game Store know me now though, seeing as the last few M rated games I purchased they haven't carded me for. :P

That most be annoying at 27.

That most be annoying at 27.

Snipes_2

That most be annoying at 27.

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

That most be annoying at 27.

spazzx625

Oh, I don't drink or anything so, No problem there :P

I go to GameStop and GameCrazy. They insist on Carding me most of the time :o

The Video Store also Cards me :(

19, almost 20.

[QUOTE="Jandurin"] haha, the beard deflects all well, not all, i still get carded, but it's infrequentspazzx625

[QUOTE="spazzx625"][QUOTE="Jandurin"] haha, the beard deflects all well, not all, i still get carded, but it's infrequentJandurin

[QUOTE="Jandurin"] them, your woman, everyone D= I don't grow neck beard. I don't have to do any extra shaving for my beard if I don't want! :lol: Though I do shave back a bit of cheek hairspazzx625

Mutton Chops?

I'm 20 years old.

[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

19 physically, 30 mentally. My boyfriend is 40 physically and anywhere from 21 to 40 mentally depending on the day, so we work out pretty well. :P

Assassin1349

Sugar daddy?

To some. And no, not sugar daddy. He makes a lot of money because he owns a 7-11 but I could care less. And it would be creepy if I was some little girl mentally. But both my parents are older than him so it's not like he's older than my dad. :P Either way, I know its weird for some people, so I respect your opinion.

[QUOTE="Assassin1349"][QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

Sugar daddy?

Esmenet

To some. And no, not sugar daddy. He makes a lot of money because he owns a 7-11 but I could care less. And it would be creepy if I was some little girl mentally. But both my parents are older than him so it's not like he's older than my dad. :P Either way, I know its weird for some people, so I respect your opinion.

Haven't you ever wondered if he'd date you if you were his age...or why he's dating you now...?

Seriously..im 18 and i could not fathom dating a woman that's 22 years older then me...bleh..

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

19 physically, 30 mentally. My boyfriend is 40 physically and anywhere from 21 to 40 mentally depending on the day, so we work out pretty well. :P

Xx_Hopeless_xX

Why would you date a 40 year old dude...by the time your 29 he's going to be getting grey/white hair...by the time your 39 he's going to be getting decrepit and really old looking..by the time your 49 you'll have to be looking out for him..by the time your 59 he'll probably be dead...

Also, i tend to think he only cares about you because your young and he sees you as someone inexperienced...so he can basically trick you into doing what he wants...take into accountt he fact that if you were say...40 too...would he really be dating you..?...sorry to judge a relationship..

Not a problem. I get it all the time. The difference here is, you don't know anything about either of us, so your judgement is basically void. But either way, we were both sex addicts, so calling me inexperienced is pretty ridiculous. :P And he can't trick me into anything, because we both grew up lying to everyone and everything so I see right through it. We are both happy to say its been almost a year, and we've only had sex with one person. It's a great feeling. And he was married before to someone close to his age, so he doesn't just go after someone younger. But I don't fault you for your opinion, because I would caution all of my friends the same way. Hard to follow your own advice sometimes, right? Ha. As for how old he is, I don't care. If I can spend 30 good years of my life with someone that I love, I'd do it over 70 years with someone I tolerate.

22 years old here. Although, most of the time i do feel alot older.

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

[QUOTE="Assassin1349"] A 19 year old girl with 40 year old dude is creepy as hell. Xx_Hopeless_xX

To some. And no, not sugar daddy. He makes a lot of money because he owns a 7-11 but I could care less. And it would be creepy if I was some little girl mentally. But both my parents are older than him so it's not like he's older than my dad. :P Either way, I know its weird for some people, so I respect your opinion.

Haven't you ever wondered if he'd date you if you were his age...or why he's dating you now...?

Seriously..im 18 and i could not fathom dating a woman that's 22 years older then me...bleh..

I won't date a guy thats a day younger than me. But that stems from the fact that I was raped by four 17 and 18 year old idiots so I don't really like people my age. And most guys don't like dating older women, because they start to look older but men tend to look more refined and intelligent rather than wrinkly and gross. For a period of time that is. He looks more like 30 to me, and I love him, so it doesn't matter what his age is.

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

19 physically, 30 mentally. My boyfriend is 40 physically and anywhere from 21 to 40 mentally depending on the day, so we work out pretty well. :P

Esmenet

Why would you date a 40 year old dude...by the time your 29 he's going to be getting grey/white hair...by the time your 39 he's going to be getting decrepit and really old looking..by the time your 49 you'll have to be looking out for him..by the time your 59 he'll probably be dead...

Also, i tend to think he only cares about you because your young and he sees you as someone inexperienced...so he can basically trick you into doing what he wants...take into accountt he fact that if you were say...40 too...would he really be dating you..?...sorry to judge a relationship..

Not a problem. I get it all the time. The difference here is, you don't know anything about either of us, so your judgement is basically void. But either way, we were both sex addicts, so calling me inexperienced is pretty ridiculous. :P And he can't trick me into anything, because we both grew up lying to everyone and everything so I see right through it. We are both happy to say its been almost a year, and we've only had sex with one person. It's a great feeling. And he was married before to someone close to his age, so he doesn't just go after someone younger. But I don't fault you for your opinion, because I would caution all of my friends the same way. Hard to follow your own advice sometimes, right? Ha. As for how old he is, I don't care. If I can spend 30 good years of my life with someone that I love, I'd do it over 70 years with someone I tolerate.

Not inexperienced that way...inexperienced in the ways of life etc...as i said..i guess i just don't trust anyone..but if an older woman were to date me..i'd feel as if she was just doing it to show she still has some.."life" i guess you could say...in her...it would be quite uncomfortable...and not to sound like some prophetic ass...but usually lies come back to bite you...

I'm not arguing about your choice..just trying to understand it..

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]Hmmm... Logic vs Emotional Response for me on this issue...rawsavon

On the one hand:
she is a big girl (19), hopefully capable of informed, thought out decisions
she is an adult
she is best suited to know what is best for her
only she knows about the quality (or lack there of) of the relationship...at least from her side

On the other hand:
things like this (right or wrong) give me the insta creeper vibe
I can't help but wonder what they have in common
I would not feel comfortable dating a 19 year old (being 28 )...so it makes me wonder about him
It just makes me 'uneasy'...though I am not involved, so that is inconsequential

I am capablke of my own decisions. :P We have one major thing in common. We were both liars, cheaters, and sex addicts. We both have had trauma in our lives, and are on the path of recovery. We've been together for a year, and have only had sex with eachother, a feat we both thought was impossible. We read the same books, play the same games, share the same philosophy on life, and most of all enjoy each others company and support. My dad and mom were scared when I told them, and didn't want anything to do with him, but considering my past and the reasons I hate guys my age, they gave hiim a chance. My dad and him get along for the most part and my mom is slowly warming up to him because she can see that he protects me and loves me and respects me, something boys my age have shown they know nothing of.

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

To some. And no, not sugar daddy. He makes a lot of money because he owns a 7-11 but I could care less. And it would be creepy if I was some little girl mentally. But both my parents are older than him so it's not like he's older than my dad. :P Either way, I know its weird for some people, so I respect your opinion.

Esmenet

Haven't you ever wondered if he'd date you if you were his age...or why he's dating you now...?

Seriously..im 18 and i could not fathom dating a woman that's 22 years older then me...bleh..

I won't date a guy thats a day younger than me. But that stems from the fact that I was raped by four 17 and 18 year old idiots so I don't really like people my age. And most guys don't like dating older women, because they start to look older but men tend to look more refined and intelligent rather than wrinkly and gross. For a period of time that is. He looks more like 30 to me, and I love him, so it doesn't matter what his age is.

Sorry to hear that...another reason why i hate most people...especially guys my age...but you shouldn't generalize...not all 18 year olds etc...are rapists..or...i'm not sure if men/teens being perverted would offend you...only because you said you were a sex addict..not to be offensive..

What are you going to do when he does get wrinkly and old...

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Why would you date a 40 year old dude...by the time your 29 he's going to be getting grey/white hair...by the time your 39 he's going to be getting decrepit and really old looking..by the time your 49 you'll have to be looking out for him..by the time your 59 he'll probably be dead...

Also, i tend to think he only cares about you because your young and he sees you as someone inexperienced...so he can basically trick you into doing what he wants...take into accountt he fact that if you were say...40 too...would he really be dating you..?...sorry to judge a relationship..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

Not a problem. I get it all the time. The difference here is, you don't know anything about either of us, so your judgement is basically void. But either way, we were both sex addicts, so calling me inexperienced is pretty ridiculous. :P And he can't trick me into anything, because we both grew up lying to everyone and everything so I see right through it. We are both happy to say its been almost a year, and we've only had sex with one person. It's a great feeling. And he was married before to someone close to his age, so he doesn't just go after someone younger. But I don't fault you for your opinion, because I would caution all of my friends the same way. Hard to follow your own advice sometimes, right? Ha. As for how old he is, I don't care. If I can spend 30 good years of my life with someone that I love, I'd do it over 70 years with someone I tolerate.

Not inexperienced that way...inexperienced in the ways of life etc...as i said..i guess i just don't trust anyone..but if an older woman were to date me..i'd feel as if she was just doing it to show she still has some.."life" i guess you could say...in her...it would be quite uncomfortable...and not to sound like some prophetic ass...but usually lies come back to bite you...

I'm not arguing about your choice..just trying to understand it..

Maybe this will help. I don't trust anyone but myself. Ever. I was gang raped when I was 13 years old by 18 year old boys. I hate guys my age. They're immature and unresponsible and more importantly, pigs. And trust me, every lie I've told has come back to bite me, especially the fact that up until 3 months ago, no one knew I was raped. Now I have panic attacks daily. But I'm dealing with it, and he is helping me more than anyone, because he understands because he had a similar experience. I'm not arguing either, just trying to help you understand. Each circumstance is different. But like I said in another post, I would caution any other girl as well, unless I knew the man personally. So thank you for your concern.

I hate guys my age. They're immature and unresponsible and more importantly, pigs.

Esmenet

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Haven't you ever wondered if he'd date you if you were his age...or why he's dating you now...?

Seriously..im 18 and i could not fathom dating a woman that's 22 years older then me...bleh..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

I won't date a guy thats a day younger than me. But that stems from the fact that I was raped by four 17 and 18 year old idiots so I don't really like people my age. And most guys don't like dating older women, because they start to look older but men tend to look more refined and intelligent rather than wrinkly and gross. For a period of time that is. He looks more like 30 to me, and I love him, so it doesn't matter what his age is.

Sorry to hear that...another reason why i hate most people...especially guys my age...but you shouldn't generalize...not all 18 year olds etc...are rapists..or...i'm not sure if men/teens being perverted would offend you...only because you said you were a sex addict..not to be offensive..

What are you going to do when he does get wrinkly and old...

Oh I know most boys aren't like that, but I have a hard time trusting them either way, unless I'm just having sex with them. Jim (my boyfriend) has helped me understand that none of it was my fault, and has helped me realize that I shouldn't torture myself by having sex with anything that comes across my path, and that I'm more than just a toy for men to play with. He makes me feel useful, and loved, and gives me a reason to continue to heal. I wouldn't care if he was 30 years older than me, if he an give me that, then I would welcome him any day. And teens being perverted is just a teen thing, but I don't respect it anymore. I used to love it, because it made it easy for me to feel "wanted", but in all the wrong reasons.

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

I hate guys my age. They're immature and unresponsible and more importantly, pigs.

Jandurin

Well good. I'm glad you didn't think drugging a 13 year old and taking turns raping her with your friends would be a fun idea.

[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="Esmenet"]

I hate guys my age. They're immature and unresponsible and more importantly, pigs.

Well good. I'm glad you didn't think drugging a 13 year old and taking turns raping her with your friends would be a fun idea.