Student fights suspension over wearing Rosary.

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#101 twitchmonkey399
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TC, did you watch the video? The complaining party wasn't giving an excuse to break the policy, it was saying the policy didn't apply because a rosary can't be called a gang symbol in and of itself.

I believe that if it can be established that the child isn't wearing it to show gang affiliation, he should be allowed to wear it.

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#102 urdead18
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[QUOTE="theone86"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Christianity is not a cult :|

Cult - followers of an unorthodox, extremist, or false religion or sect who often live outside of conventional society under the direction of a charismatic leader

Snipes_2

Cult and sect are terms created specifically for a pejorative purpose, to denote certain religions, most notably Christianity, as superior and label other belief systems as inferior. The phrases were coined specifically to grant Christianity legitimacy and steal legitimacy from other belief systems without any reason or proof. Unorthodox in comparison to what? Is all Protestantism a cult a then? who gets to decide what is orthodox? By conventional society do you mean European-derived white society, or is there some relativity clause? Islam is a cult in Amerca but Christianity is a cult in Iran or something along those lines? Christianity has been very extremist in the past and there are still portions of Christianity that remain extremist, guess that makes Christianity a cult, huh? And false, are you kidding me? There is no religion out there that is substantiated by real evidence, it's all based on holy writings.

Religion is religion is religion. It is not based on proof, it is based on faith and no relgion is better than any other. I don't care what you want to call it, but if you call one religion a cult then you call the rest of them a cult. They're all basically the same.

Christianity is not Unorthodox (By Societies Standards), Extremist, or a false religion/sect that lives outside of conventional society while under the direction of a charismatic leader. IF that were so, the 76% of Americans that are Christian would not be part of society.

:P

On topic, that's silly. Let the kid wear them/keep them in his pocket.

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#103 CosmicZombie
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[QUOTE="warbmxjohn"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Mexican/hispanic gangs i thought?....and that kid doesn't look like he's hispanic to me..

Xx_Hopeless_xX

Race doesn't instantly clarify whether a person is a gangbanger or not, and even if he isn't he's making it seem like he is.

If it's exclusive to HISPANIC/MEXICAN gangs then i think it should be clear he's not one of them..and again..he has no tattoos or anything suggesting he is a member of any gang..

You dont know if it is.

He has a gangsta face

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#104 SolidSnake35
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Surely this is the same as wearing other religious stuff, like veils and whatnot.
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#105 deactivated-590595a6292ce
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Meh, just let the kid wear it.

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#106 RTUUMM
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I wear a rosay everyday, I use to wear it to school (Im graduating in 2 days)
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#107 iowastate
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[QUOTE="harashawn"]

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"] I will state it again. Wearing it around the neck is viewed as wearing it as jewelry. That is why they make Rosary Pouches. So you can keep your rosary in the pouch either at your side, in your pocket, or in your purse. When you wear something that is visible for all to see, you are portraying it as jewelry. A fashion accessory. Relics also are not to be worn as Jewelry, yet it is ok to wear them around your neck - just tucked under your shirt. Most people who wear roasaries around their neck are wearing them as a fashion accessory... and i doubt that anyone who does wear it around their neck can recite the prayer of the Holy Rosary. theone86

Wearing it with the intention of showing it off is considered sacrilege, but it can be worn around a neck without being easily seen.
Just because "most people" do something for some reason doesn't make it wrong to do it for another reason.

How is this argument even relevant?Assuming it is sacreligous it's not the place of the school to enforece the belief system of the Catholic Church.

so you are saying it is the place of the school system to quash religion?

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#108 jalexbrown
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I don't see the big deal here. If someone wants to wear a religious symbol, let them wear it. I'm sure there are people in this school wearing cross necklaces and not getting in trouble for it.
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#109 chessmaster1989
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[QUOTE="theone86"]

[QUOTE="harashawn"] Wearing it with the intention of showing it off is considered sacrilege, but it can be worn around a neck without being easily seen.
Just because "most people" do something for some reason doesn't make it wrong to do it for another reason.

iowastate

How is this argument even relevant?Assuming it is sacreligous it's not the place of the school to enforece the belief system of the Catholic Church.

so you are saying it is the place of the school system to quash religion?

...where does he say anything even close to that? :?

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#110 weezyfb
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the principal did the kid a favour those are an eye sore
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#111 Tauruslink
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Yeah I saw this earlier. So ridiculous. They should leave him alone.
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#112 Montaya
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So theres a local gang with purple colors? :lol: . Just wear the cross under your shirt, problem solved, people dont need to see it for it to have meaning to the barer.

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#113 iowastate
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[QUOTE="iowastate"]

[QUOTE="theone86"]

How is this argument even relevant?Assuming it is sacreligous it's not the place of the school to enforece the belief system of the Catholic Church.

chessmaster1989

so you are saying it is the place of the school system to quash religion?

...where does he say anything even close to that? :?

where was there any implication of the school enforcing the Catholic Church belief system by anyone? a matter of "tit for tat" - you know if he can jump to an unwarranted assumption so can the next person :P after all this thread became rather silly a long time ago
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#114 freek666
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Pfft should just cop the suspension and not care.

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#115 Faber_Fighter
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As much as he has a right to religious expression, the school told him to at least hide it underneath his shirt, which he could have easily done instead of being so stubborn. But he didn't, gets a suspension, then does the exact same thing the next week? The school was probably a bit harsh but I still think they were in the right and the kid was just being silly by going against school policy. He can hide it under his shirt, put it in his pocket, leave it in his locker, whatever, but at least respect the schools uniform policy.
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#116 iowastate
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As much as he has a right to religious expression, the school told him to at least hide it underneath his shirt, which he could have easily done instead of being so stubborn. But he didn't, gets a suspension, then does the exact same thing the next week? The school was probably a bit harsh but I still think they were in the right and the kid was just being silly by going against school policy. He can hide it under his shirt, put it in his pocket, leave it in his locker, whatever, but at least respect the schools uniform policy.Faber_Fighter

if the school was willing to allow him to wear it under his shirt or in his pocket(the correct spot) then they did all they were required.

it is his own fault for defying them if he was warned...although I would think detention would have been enough of a punishment.

edit....of course I don't know his record..if it was lengthy he may have used up his "get out of jail cards" already

Even though I was on the deans list I reached that point during my school career and the Vice Principal/Head Master does lose patience eventually:wink:

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#117 conistant
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Now people can't even wear rosaries.Wow talk about freedom of clothing.Here in India we have dozens of different religions and people are allowed to wear rosaries,turbans and even hijabs.People in the west are just paranoid.
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#118 deactivated-59d151f079814
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Now people can't even wear rosaries.Wow talk about freedom of clothing.Here in India we have dozens of different religions and people are allowed to wear rosaries,turbans and even hijabs.People in the west are just paranoid.conistant

Hehe yeah and that time when there was outrage in India for Richard Gere kissing a Indian actress on tv that they wanted to thrown him in jail?

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#119 Xorital
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[QUOTE="warbmxjohn"]

Ok so this kid gets suspended for wearing a rosary at school then fights it because it's a right to religious expression. Also the story says his brother died clutching the beads in a bicycle accident. Which is really tragic and all, but does that give him the right to violate policy?

I think he should respect the policy, regardless of how meaningful his ecuse to break the rules is.

What say you?

http://cosmos.bcst.yahoo.com/up/player/popup/?cl=20132999

iowastate

He should NOT have been wearing a rosary he should have been carrying the rosary in his pocket like any good Catholic would. Rosaries are not intended to be worn as beads in the first place - if it had been a cross he could have kept it unobtrusively inside his shirt and there probably would have been no problem. Just been told to keep it out of sight:wink: @Anti-Venom - he should have been told to put the rosary in his trouser pocket where it belongs. I am Catholic and I would never wear a Rosary - that shows a lack of respect:?

oh hush it.

Let him wear the beads, its his brothers momento.

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#120 iowastate
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[QUOTE="iowastate"][QUOTE="warbmxjohn"]

Ok so this kid gets suspended for wearing a rosary at school then fights it because it's a right to religious expression. Also the story says his brother died clutching the beads in a bicycle accident. Which is really tragic and all, but does that give him the right to violate policy?

I think he should respect the policy, regardless of how meaningful his ecuse to break the rules is.

What say you?

http://cosmos.bcst.yahoo.com/up/player/popup/?cl=20132999

Xorital

He should NOT have been wearing a rosary he should have been carrying the rosary in his pocket like any good Catholic would. Rosaries are not intended to be worn as beads in the first place - if it had been a cross he could have kept it unobtrusively inside his shirt and there probably would have been no problem. Just been told to keep it out of sight:wink: @Anti-Venom - he should have been told to put the rosary in his trouser pocket where it belongs. I am Catholic and I would never wear a Rosary - that shows a lack of respect:?

oh hush it.

Let him wear the beads, its his brothers momento.

Notice later on...where he was warned to keep the rosary inside his shirt. and did not get suspended until he came back and did that again despite the warning. Then I had to admit that the school did meet the obligations to warn him and he was at fault for defying them. also I said that detention was probably a more fitting punishment but since I was not familiar with his previous history it is possible something more severe was warranted. This is simply another case where we do not enough data for an informed opinion and have been making guesses that can not even be called "educated" probably the lack of educated guesses is because most of us had to attend public school much of the time:P
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#121 Wolf-Man2006
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Same old song and dance... He is not violating any rights to free expression by wearing a rosary. Issues like these and other similar incidents only reveal more of the schools' double standards over religion.

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#122 Wanderer5
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Well religion doesn't seem to be the problem here; a gang in that area uses rosary with beads as their symbol or whatever they use it for.

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#123 JustPlainLucas
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If it's a policy not to wear them, and you wear them, then you should be supsended. If you don't like the policy, find another school.
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#124 conistant
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[QUOTE="conistant"]Now people can't even wear rosaries.Wow talk about freedom of clothing.Here in India we have dozens of different religions and people are allowed to wear rosaries,turbans and even hijabs.People in the west are just paranoid.sSubZerOo

Hehe yeah and that time when there was outrage in India for Richard Gere kissing a Indian actress on tv that they wanted to thrown him in jail?

Thats what happens in the tribal regions.
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#125 RogueShodown
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Lol, It IS A form of Religious Expression. Let him wear it, wow. OH my God, did anyone watch the video, they thought it was gang paraphernalia.

warbmxjohn

Because they are used as gang paraphernalia in that area... And a public school is not a place for religious expression as it is. That's a private matter. I mean unless satan worshippers can also utilize their relgious rights as well...

I think they had a right to do what they did until they found out why he was wearing it. It's still school rules, so he should have been told that it wasn't allowed and that's all. Unless he made a fit. I don't see any reason to take it this far.

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#126 UbiquitousAeon
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I can understand...in my high school when it became popular it started to be used for gangs.MgamerBD
So what? Why is it bad to show off that you're in a gang. If you're doing your school work, minding your own business, the school can **** off.
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#127 RogueShodown
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I can understand...in my high school when it became popular it started to be used for gangs.UbiquitousAeon
So what? Why is it bad to show off that you're in a gang. If you're doing your school work, minding your own business, the school can **** off.

I hope you're being sarcastic. If you're in a gang, chances are that you're doing something illegal. How are people supposed to know if you'd start any trouble there? Gangs aren't known to be peaceful.
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#128 UbiquitousAeon
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[QUOTE="UbiquitousAeon"][QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I can understand...in my high school when it became popular it started to be used for gangs.RogueShodown
So what? Why is it bad to show off that you're in a gang. If you're doing your school work, minding your own business, the school can **** off.

I hope you're being sarcastic. If you're in a gang, chances are that you're doing something illegal. How are people supposed to know if you'd start any trouble there? Gangs aren't known to be peaceful.

Regardless of what you do outside of the school, wearing something to represent your gang isn't illegal and to be honest I prefer it they wear their colors so I know to stay away from them. If in school all they do is what they are supposed, I couldn't care less what the hell they wear. It's not offending me.