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#1 Rikusaki
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I love her more than anything in the world. We were friends for a very long time.

I went crazy for her during Middle School and she said, 'Let's just be friends.'

So I stopped bothering her about it. I still love her, though. She thought I stopped liking her.

Recently, she wanted me to tell her a secret so I told her that I never stopped liking her. She was surprised!

She said that she loves me like a brother, but she wants to marry me later. :?

I didn't ask if she was being serious about this, but I can't move on. I can't stop loving her.

And I had a dream last night of her death and I woke up crying in the middle of the night.

We don't see each-other that much because we go ot different schools now (High School), but I text her.

It hurts me thinking about her every night. I even cry sometimes.

What should I do to stop the pain? I can't stop loving her.

I will not release any pictures or names, sorry.

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#2 GTA_dude
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Infatuation.
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#3 homie13_9
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dont stop keep trying, thats the only solution
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#4 CuDDKiDD
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Wincest ! ;)
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#5 AAllxxjjnn
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I'm sorry to hear that :( there's not much you can do man.
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#6 andyboiii
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sing her this song by Otis Redding - i've been loving you too long
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#7 gamefan67
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Infatuation. GTA_dude
This infatuation lasted a long time. Take a bayer-aspirin that should relieve some pain j/k. I dont know you should ask her if she was serious about marrying you in the future. If she was then you could wait for her while dating other people in between since I know she is going to be to be doing the same thing. Maybe you'll end up liking/loving some other girl in the process.
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#8 DJ_Lae
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I was in a similar situation and I used whiskey, and lots of it. It didn't turn out well, so while I can't tell you what to do, I can say not to do what I did.
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#9 jrnhanie0310
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i say just do what u gotta do.. if you heart still wants to believe she's the one, then don't stop here..
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#10 gobo212
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Time to move on.
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#11 Rikusaki
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Infatuation. GTA_dude
I don't think so! I believe that I love her.
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#12 jmg128thinfrgt
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Dang dude thats tough. I wish the best for you as I know the feeling.
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#13 Rikusaki
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sing her this song by Otis Redding - i've been loving you too long andyboiii
Omg, that's a nice song. :)
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#14 CuDDKiDD
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You're not even 18 yet. You have your whole life ahead of you. Sooner or later you'll find someone else and look back on this and laugh.
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#15 Cardinal_22
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roofies;) no im kidding go for broke. or just do what i did and sleep around.
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#16 GTA_dude
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[QUOTE="GTA_dude"]Infatuation. Rikusaki
I don't think so! I believe that I love her.

Lol, thats kinda what infatuation is.....
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#17 Gaming-Planet
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Hey, I have a girl just like that... but it splitted during High School like you bro lol

I know her myspace but I'm afraid I might give her a heart attack.

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#18 freek666
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Booze, lots of booze.
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#19 MrGeezer
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This thread goes out to the girl you love.

This thread goes out to the girl you've left behind.

She's a simple prop, to occupy your mind.

So stop thinking about her. Much like Hicks said in Aliens, "Forget about her, she's gone!"

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#20 Rikusaki
Member since 2006 • 16641 Posts

This thread goes out to the girl you love.

This thread goes out to the girl you've left behind.

She's a simple prop, to occupy your mind.

So stop thinking about her. Much like Hicks said in Aliens, "Forget about her, she's gone!"

MrGeezer
I can't do that though. :(
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#21 andyboiii
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I can't do that though. :(Rikusaki
it might take awhile but you'll get over it
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#22 lonewolf604
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buddy, look at the bright side, at least you acknowledge each others existence, and are friends with each other. i've liked this girl for about 5 years now, and i have never spoken to her in a while, and we are barely friends. we go out as a group with other friends, but i still don't talk to her...
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#23 MrGeezer
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

This thread goes out to the girl you love.

This thread goes out to the girl you've left behind.

She's a simple prop, to occupy your mind.

So stop thinking about her. Much like Hicks said in Aliens, "Forget about her, she's gone!"

Rikusaki

I can't do that though. :(

Sure you can. If Chilean soccer players can eat the corpses of their friends after crashing on top of a mountain, then you can do ANYTHING.

If it helps you to forget about her, just pretend that she doesn't really like you at all anyway. That makes it easy to forget about her, since you think that she doesn't even like you. And that's the key to letting go. Obsession thrives on hope. Once you remove all hope, you have nothing left to obsess over. Once you truly realize (or pretend) that you absolutely do not have a snowball's chance in Hell of being with her, then it's MUCH easier to let her go. Then you will feel worthless and broken, and you will have emotionally come close to hitting rock bottom. It's at that point that you realize that you are still alive. And that the fresh spring air still smells delicious, and that you're still a young and fit smart man with endless opportunities available.

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#24 CoolSkAGuy
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[QUOTE="Rikusaki"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

This thread goes out to the girl you love.

This thread goes out to the girl you've left behind.

She's a simple prop, to occupy your mind.

So stop thinking about her. Much like Hicks said in Aliens, "Forget about her, she's gone!"

MrGeezer

I can't do that though. :(

Sure you can. If Chilean soccer players can eat the corpses of their friends after crashing on top of a mountain, then you can do ANYTHING.

If it helps you to forget about her, just pretend that she doesn't really like you at all anyway. That makes it easy to forget about her, since you think that she doesn't even like you. And that's the key to letting go. Obsession thrives on hope. Once you remove all hope, you have nothing left to obsess over. Once you truly realize (or pretend) that you absolutely do not have a snowball's chance in Hell of being with her, then it's MUCH easier to let her go. Then you will feel worthless and broken, and you will have emotionally come close to hitting rock bottom. It's at that point that you realize that you are still alive. And that the fresh spring air still smells delicious, and that you're still a young and fit smart man with endless opportunities available.

^ I was in love with a girl last year who was a senior while I was not, we were perfect for each other but I never had the balls to say anything then she graduated havent seen her since. I was angry at myself for never saying anything but the only way to cure love is to find new love....
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#25 esbastica
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she loves u like a brother but she wants to marry u later...wow.she is using u as a spare ,it's not fair
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#26 XxFreakmanxX
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Yep dude it's deffinitly time to move on, there are plenty of more fish in the sea. Don't let her keep pulling you down.
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#27 Rikusaki
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she loves u like a brother but she wants to marry u later...wow.she is using u as a spare ,it's not fairesbastica
So that's bad?
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#28 CuDDKiDD
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[QUOTE="esbastica"]she loves u like a brother but she wants to marry u later...wow.she is using u as a spare ,it's not fairRikusaki
So that's bad?

Only if you have an ounce of self respect and self love. :!

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#29 jimmyjammer69
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She can't go and say that you're just a friend but she will still marry you one day, that's just torture - she's stringing you along. Pay her less attention and begin showing interest in another girl. Jealousy is one of the most powerful feelings on earth.
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#30 remmbermytitans
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If you believe you love her, keep trying. But don't PUSH it on her, make her come to you. Be there for her when she needs you, hang with her, talk to her. After you've done this, tell her that you still care about her, and that you want to be with her. If she says yes, then there you go. If she says no, then it may be time to move on.
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#31 Rikusaki
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She can't go and say that you're just a friend but she will still marry you one day, that's just torture - she's stringing you along. Pay her less attention and begin showing interest in another girl. Jealousy is one of the most powerful feelings on earth.jimmyjammer69
If you believe you love her, keep trying. But don't PUSH it on her, make her come to you. Be there for her when she needs you, hang with her, talk to her. After you've done this, tell her that you still care about her, and that you want to be with her. If she says yes, then there you go. If she says no, then it may be time to move on.remmbermytitans
Umm... Okay now I'm starting to have mixed feelings... When you guys say that she is using me as a 'spare' or 'stringing me along,' it makes me think that she isn't worth the trouble. But I still have hope inside that won't go away!
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#32 GTA_dude
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This thread goes out to the girl you love.

This thread goes out to the girl you've left behind.

She's a simple prop, to occupy your mind.

So stop thinking about her. Much like Hicks said in Aliens, "Forget about her, she's gone!"

MrGeezer
Fire?
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#33 Cloud_Insurance
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[QUOTE="Rikusaki"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

This thread goes out to the girl you love.

This thread goes out to the girl you've left behind.

She's a simple prop, to occupy your mind.

So stop thinking about her. Much like Hicks said in Aliens, "Forget about her, she's gone!"

MrGeezer

I can't do that though. :(

Sure you can. If Chilean soccer players can eat the corpses of their friends after crashing on top of a mountain, then you can do ANYTHING.

If it helps you to forget about her, just pretend that she doesn't really like you at all anyway. That makes it easy to forget about her, since you think that she doesn't even like you. And that's the key to letting go. Obsession thrives on hope. Once you remove all hope, you have nothing left to obsess over. Once you truly realize (or pretend) that you absolutely do not have a snowball's chance in Hell of being with her, then it's MUCH easier to let her go. Then you will feel worthless and broken, and you will have emotionally come close to hitting rock bottom. It's at that point that you realize that you are still alive. And that the fresh spring air still smells delicious, and that you're still a young and fit smart man with endless opportunities available.

it was a uruguayan rugby team...
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#34 MrGeezer
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it was a uruguayan rugby team...Cloud_Insurance

Meh, close enough.

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#35 Cloud_Insurance
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[QUOTE="Cloud_Insurance"] it was a uruguayan rugby team...MrGeezer

Meh, close enough.

close only counts in horseshoes and landmines
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#36 seabiscuit8686
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"She said that she loves me like a brother, but she wants to marry me later. " Incest is the best, put your brother to the test
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#37 ch-ch-chaoguy
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It's dangerous to go alone, take this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ip1zsUIosoA
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#38 Rikusaki
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[QUOTE="ch-ch-chaoguy"]It's dangerous to go alone, take this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ip1zsUIosoA

Lol, I love that song. :P
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#39 Rikusaki
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I guess you guys are right... What she is doing to me isn't fair.

I just have to try and move on.

But it's so hard and now I can't sleep.

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#40 hell_blazer899
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pics and I'll try to help ya.
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#41 wii4panta
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I guess you guys are right... What she is doing to me isn't fair.

I just have to try and move on.

But it's so hard and now I can't sleep.

Rikusaki
In 1 week or so, if you indeed try to forget her, you will have done it.
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#42 flabasha
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The only way to get her... is to forget about her.

Then she'll be all over you.

But by then, you won't care.

As William Shatner said in Airplane 2, "Irony can be pretty ironic sometimes."

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#43 shinian
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I guess you guys are right... What she is doing to me isn't fair.

I just have to try and move on.

But it's so hard and now I can't sleep.

Rikusaki
Start using sleeping pills or take the safer way - go to psychiatrist he will propably prescribe you some fluoxetine. It kikcks in after few days but you will sleep like a baby again.
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#44 optiow
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Just keep at it man, and doin't worry I have a girl that I can't stop loving that is in the "friend" category, just keep trying and hoping.

And don't worry about dreams, they mean nothing.

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#45 II_Seraphim_II
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[QUOTE="DJ_Lae"]I was in a similar situation and I used whiskey, and lots of it. It didn't turn out well, so while I can't tell you what to do, I can say not to do what I did.

:lol: oh man, this post cracked me up :P
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#46 AnObscureName
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I can't really relate but I'd just try to take a step back and look at the situation. Is she using you in anyway? Are you going out of your way to please her?
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#47 II_Seraphim_II
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I can't really relate but I'd just try to take a step back and look at the situation. Is she using you in anyway? Are you going out of your way to please her? AnObscureName
Yeah so true. One thing that alot of guys fail to realize is that most people are replaceable. There really are more fish in the sea. If it doesnt work with her, just move on and I guarantee you that you will someone else out there you feel the same about. Now, if you 2 were married, then it would be a whole different story.
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#48 sAndroid17
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you will get over it eventualy, everyone goes through pain. welcome to the real world
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I can't really relate but I'd just try to take a step back and look at the situation. Is she using you in anyway? Are you going out of your way to please her? AnObscureName
this ^ *places stamp of approval squarely on quote*