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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"]

[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]Without a Constitutional amendment the Federal government can't force gay marriage on the states. KC_Hokie

Not really. There's already the due process and equal protection clause.

But that was not the point I was getting at.

The Federal government trying to force gay marriage on the states would be unconstitutional. Obama even admitted it was a state issue. He won't try for any federal legislation either because he knows without a Constitutional amendment it would be a waste of time.

Did you even read my post? Just repeating yourself over and over again doesn't make you any less wrong. There's already the due process and equal protection clauses. It would not be difficult at all to create a constitutional basis for federal legislation that legalizes gay marriage. That's why conservatives want a constitutional amendment that prohibits gay marriage in the first place, because it makes it that much harder to legalize it.
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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] Not really. There's already the due process and equal protection clause.

But that was not the point I was getting at.

-Sun_Tzu-

The Federal government trying to force gay marriage on the states would be unconstitutional. Obama even admitted it was a state issue. He won't try for any federal legislation either because he knows without a Constitutional amendment it would be a waste of time.

Did you even read my post? Just repeating yourself over and over again doesn't make you any less wrong. There's already the due process and equal protection clauses. It would not be difficult at all to create a constitutional basis for federal legislation that legalizes gay marriage. That's why conservatives want a constitutional amendment that prohibits gay marriage in the first place, because it makes it that much harder to legalize it.

lol...no

Obama: I Support Gay Marriage But Am Ok With States Banning It

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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]The Federal government trying to force gay marriage on the states would be unconstitutional. Obama even admitted it was a state issue. He won't try for any federal legislation either because he knows without a Constitutional amendment it would be a waste of time. KC_Hokie

Did you even read my post? Just repeating yourself over and over again doesn't make you any less wrong. There's already the due process and equal protection clauses. It would not be difficult at all to create a constitutional basis for federal legislation that legalizes gay marriage. That's why conservatives want a constitutional amendment that prohibits gay marriage in the first place, because it makes it that much harder to legalize it.

lol...no

Obama: I Support Gay Marriage But Am Ok With States Banning It

What does that have to do with anything I said? For a self-proclaimed libertarian you really don't seem to have a problem with authoritarian laws.
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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]

[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] Did you even read my post? Just repeating yourself over and over again doesn't make you any less wrong. There's already the due process and equal protection clauses. It would not be difficult at all to create a constitutional basis for federal legislation that legalizes gay marriage. That's why conservatives want a constitutional amendment that prohibits gay marriage in the first place, because it makes it that much harder to legalize it. -Sun_Tzu-

lol...no

Obama: I Support Gay Marriage But Am Ok With States Banning It

What does that have to do with anything I said? For a self-proclaimed libertarian you really don't seem to have a problem with authoritarian laws.

How is preserving states' rights 'authoritative'?
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]lol...no

Obama: I Support Gay Marriage But Am Ok With States Banning It

KC_Hokie

What does that have to do with anything I said? For a self-proclaimed libertarian you really don't seem to have a problem with authoritarian laws.

How is preserving states' rights 'authoritative'?

Because you are giving the power of state governments (specifically the power to ban gay marriage) precedent over the rights of individuals. There's nothing intrinsically libertarian about state governments.

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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="KC_Hokie"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] What does that have to do with anything I said? For a self-proclaimed libertarian you really don't seem to have a problem with authoritarian laws.

How is preserving states' rights 'authoritative'?

Because you are giving the power of state governments precedent over the rights of individuals. There's nothing intrinsically libertarian about state governments.

Libertarians believe in limited government. The Federal government forcing gay marriage on all states would be authoritative and excessive. On top of that unconstitutional.
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The Federal government forcing gay marriage on all states would be authoritative and excessive. KC_Hokie

Yes and war is peace

Freedom is slavery

Ignorance is strength

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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]The Federal government forcing gay marriage on all states would be authoritative and excessive. -Sun_Tzu-

Yes and war is peace

Freedom is slavery

Ignorance is strength

So then you oppose Obama's stance? He is in favor of states deciding marriage and isn't supporting nor proposing any legislation, executive order, etc. in favor of gay marriage.
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So then you oppose Obama's stance? KC_Hokie
Uh, yeah.
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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]So then you oppose Obama's stance? -Sun_Tzu-
Uh, yeah.

OK just checking.
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Ehh, I'm fine with them having the choice of being married, but they cannot force a religious group who might not agree with homosexuality to bless them.hiphops_savior

Neither can heterosexuals. Non-issue.

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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]How is preserving states' rights 'authoritative'? KC_Hokie
Because you are giving the power of state governments precedent over the rights of individuals. There's nothing intrinsically libertarian about state governments.

Libertarians believe in limited government. The Federal government forcing gay marriage on all states would be authoritative and excessive. On top of that unconstitutional.

So you're ok with states limiting the rights of individuals?

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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] Because you are giving the power of state governments precedent over the rights of individuals. There's nothing intrinsically libertarian about state governments. worlock77

Libertarians believe in limited government. The Federal government forcing gay marriage on all states would be authoritative and excessive. On top of that unconstitutional.

So you're ok with states limiting the rights of individuals?

Laws should be made at the state level whenever possible. What is right for Vermont or Alaska may not be right or wanted in Texas or West Virginia, for example.
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]Libertarians believe in limited government. The Federal government forcing gay marriage on all states would be authoritative and excessive. On top of that unconstitutional. KC_Hokie

So you're ok with states limiting the rights of individuals?

Laws should be made at the state level whenever possible. What is right for Vermont or Alaska may not be right or wanted in Texas or West Virginia, for example.

Swell. Now address the actual question.

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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

So you're ok with states limiting the rights of individuals?

worlock77

Laws should be made at the state level whenever possible. What is right for Vermont or Alaska may not be right or wanted in Texas or West Virginia, for example.

Swell. Now address the actual question.

At the state level issues like gay marriage are on the ballot for everyone vote on vs. the Federal government with politicians in Washington forcing laws upon the states.

Which one do I favor? States rights.

And even Obama acknowledged this.

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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]Laws should be made at the state level whenever possible. What is right for Vermont or Alaska may not be right or wanted in Texas or West Virginia, for example.KC_Hokie

Swell. Now address the actual question.

At the state level issues like gay marriage are on the ballot for everyone vote on vs. the Federal government with politicians in Washington forcing laws upon the states.

Which one do I favor? States rights.

And even Obama acknowledged this.

You keep talking, yet you don't actually address the question I asked.

Yes or no. Are you in favor of states passing laws that restrict the rights and liberties of individuals?

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Allowing same-sex marriage would mean more work for catering services
So when you're against same sex marriage, you're against economic stimulation
and When you're against economic stimulation, you're against America
And when you're against America,
You're a communist.

SaintWalrus

Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

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[QUOTE="SaintWalrus"]

Allowing same-sex marriage would mean more work for catering services
So when you're against same sex marriage, you're against economic stimulation
and When you're against economic stimulation, you're against America
And when you're against America,
You're a communist.

whipassmt

Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

Would you have no problem if he refused to cater for a interracial couple?

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[QUOTE="SaintWalrus"]

Allowing same-sex marriage would mean more work for catering services
So when you're against same sex marriage, you're against economic stimulation
and When you're against economic stimulation, you're against America
And when you're against America,
You're a communist.

whipassmt

Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

No, since sexuality is not a protected status. Unless it's on legally protected grounds a business may refuse service to anyone for any reason at all.

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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]

[QUOTE="worlock77"]

Swell. Now address the actual question.

worlock77

At the state level issues like gay marriage are on the ballot for everyone vote on vs. the Federal government with politicians in Washington forcing laws upon the states.

Which one do I favor? States rights.

And even Obama acknowledged this.

You keep talking, yet you don't actually address the question I asked.

Yes or no. Are you in favor of states passing laws that restrict the rights and liberties of individuals?

Issues like gay marriage are on the ballot. Yes, I support that over the Federal government passing laws.
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]At the state level issues like gay marriage are on the ballot for everyone vote on vs. the Federal government with politicians in Washington forcing laws upon the states.

Which one do I favor? States rights.

And even Obama acknowledged this.

KC_Hokie

You keep talking, yet you don't actually address the question I asked.

Yes or no. Are you in favor of states passing laws that restrict the rights and liberties of individuals?

Issues like gay marriage are on the ballot. Yes, I support that over the Federal government passing laws.

Then you should stop calling yourself a libertarian, because you're not actually one.

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[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

You keep talking, yet you don't actually address the question I asked.

Yes or no. Are you in favor of states passing laws that restrict the rights and liberties of individuals?

worlock77

Issues like gay marriage are on the ballot. Yes, I support that over the Federal government passing laws.

Then you should stop calling yourself a libertarian, because you're not actually one.

Nice try.
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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="SaintWalrus"]

Allowing same-sex marriage would mean more work for catering services
So when you're against same sex marriage, you're against economic stimulation
and When you're against economic stimulation, you're against America
And when you're against America,
You're a communist.

worlock77

Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

No, since sexuality is not a protected status. Unless it's on legally protected grounds a business may refuse service to anyone for any reason at all.

Maybe not under federal law, but it is so in some states.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="SaintWalrus"]

Allowing same-sex marriage would mean more work for catering services
So when you're against same sex marriage, you're against economic stimulation
and When you're against economic stimulation, you're against America
And when you're against America,
You're a communist.

toast_burner

Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

Would you have no problem if he refused to cater for a interracial couple?

If those are his beliefs, he shouldn't be coerced into going against them. I would have a problem with the government penalizing him for acting in accordance with his conscience.

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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="whipassmt"] Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

whipassmt

Would you have no problem if he refused to cater for a interracial couple?

If those are his beliefs, he shouldn't be coerced into going against them. I would have a problem with the government penalizing him for acting in accordance with his conscience.

OK, but under current law that would be illegal (this might different where you're from). So I have no idea why you're singling out gays on this.

Besides this is a completely non-related issue.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="toast_burner"]Would you have no problem if he refused to cater for a interracial couple?

toast_burner

If those are his beliefs, he shouldn't be coerced into going against them. I would have a problem with the government penalizing him for acting in accordance with his conscience.

OK, but under current law that would be illegal (this might different where you're from). So I have no idea why you're singling out gays on this.

Besides this is a completely non-related issue.

under current law, what would be illegal, not catering to an inter-racial wedding? Than I would say that such a law is misguided and impinges on people's freedoms.

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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="whipassmt"] If those are his beliefs, he shouldn't be coerced into going against them. I would have a problem with the government penalizing him for acting in accordance with his conscience.

whipassmt

OK, but under current law that would be illegal (this might different where you're from). So I have no idea why you're singling out gays on this.

Besides this is a completely non-related issue.

under current law, what would be illegal, not catering to an inter-racial wedding? Than I would say that such a law is misguided and impinges on people's freedoms.

So you say gay marriage shouldn't be allowed to prevent this situation, then why aren't you also opposed to interracial marriage?

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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="whipassmt"] Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

whipassmt

No, since sexuality is not a protected status. Unless it's on legally protected grounds a business may refuse service to anyone for any reason at all.

Maybe not under federal law, but it is so in some states.

1 state. Exactly 1 state: New York.

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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="whipassmt"] Actually though if the state recognizes gay marriages that means that catering services, banquet halls, florists, photographers, and others in the wedding business, if they refuse to participate in a gay wedding for moral or religious reasons, (i.e. the photographer saying he won't photograph a gay wedding) can be sued for discrimination.

whipassmt

Would you have no problem if he refused to cater for a interracial couple?

If those are his beliefs, he shouldn't be coerced into going against them. I would have a problem with the government penalizing him for acting in accordance with his conscience.

So you'd be cool with a business refusing to serve Christians?

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="worlock77"]

No, since sexuality is not a protected status. Unless it's on legally protected grounds a business may refuse service to anyone for any reason at all.

worlock77

Maybe not under federal law, but it is so in some states.

1 state. Exactly 1 state: New York.

CT has some laws against discrimination on the basis of "sexual orientation", and recently passed one that also includes "gender identity". I saw such a poster at my school a few years back that said that discrimination on the basis of certain things (it mentioned "sexual orientation") is illegal under Connecticut law.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="toast_burner"]Would you have no problem if he refused to cater for a interracial couple?

worlock77

If those are his beliefs, he shouldn't be coerced into going against them. I would have a problem with the government penalizing him for acting in accordance with his conscience.

So you'd be cool with a business refusing to serve Christians?

If an atheist photographer refuses to photograph a Christian wedding I don't think he should be sued.

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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="whipassmt"] If those are his beliefs, he shouldn't be coerced into going against them. I would have a problem with the government penalizing him for acting in accordance with his conscience.

whipassmt

So you'd be cool with a business refusing to serve Christians?

If an atheist photographer refuses to photograph a Christian wedding I don't think he should be sued.

Who said anything about an atheist?
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[QUOTE="hiphops_savior"]Ehh, I'm fine with them having the choice of being married, but they cannot force a religious group who might not agree with homosexuality to bless them.worlock77

Neither can heterosexuals. Non-issue.

Not true. There was a Church in New Jersey that was penalized for not allowing a gay-couple to celebrate their civil union on the Church's property.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="worlock77"]

So you'd be cool with a business refusing to serve Christians?

DroidPhysX

If an atheist photographer refuses to photograph a Christian wedding I don't think he should be sued.

Who said anything about an atheist?

It was an example. Maybe I should rephrase. If a photographer refuses to photograph a Christian wedding because he feels it violates his moral/religious beliefs, I do not think the government should penalize him for doing so.

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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="hiphops_savior"]Ehh, I'm fine with them having the choice of being married, but they cannot force a religious group who might not agree with homosexuality to bless them.whipassmt

Neither can heterosexuals. Non-issue.

Not true. There was a Church in New Jersey that was penalized for not allowing a gay-couple to celebrate their civil union on the Church's property.

So? I'm sure there are some churches that got sued for not allowing some straight couples to marry.

Again this has got nothing to do with why same sex marriage should/shouldn't be allowed.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="toast_burner"]OK, but under current law that would be illegal (this might different where you're from). So I have no idea why you're singling out gays on this.

Besides this is a completely non-related issue.

toast_burner

under current law, what would be illegal, not catering to an inter-racial wedding? Than I would say that such a law is misguided and impinges on people's freedoms.

So you say gay marriage shouldn't be allowed to prevent this situation, then why aren't you also opposed to interracial marriage?

That isn't my main contention with gay marriage". I was responding to the TC's argument that state recognition of same-sex marriage would be good for caterers since it would lead to more weddings, by saying that it could also leave some caterers (and others in the wedding business) in a situation where they could be penalized for refusing to participate in a wedding that would violate their moral or religious beliefs.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="worlock77"]

Neither can heterosexuals. Non-issue.

toast_burner

Not true. There was a Church in New Jersey that was penalized for not allowing a gay-couple to celebrate their civil union on the Church's property.

So? I'm sure there are some churches that got sued for not allowing some straight couples to marry.

Again this has got nothing to do with why same sex marriage should/shouldn't be allowed.

Why would a church not allow some straight couples to marry and be sued for doing so?

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"] Not true. There was a Church in New Jersey that was penalized for not allowing a gay-couple to celebrate their civil union on the Church's property.

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So? I'm sure there are some churches that got sued for not allowing some straight couples to marry.

Again this has got nothing to do with why same sex marriage should/shouldn't be allowed.

Why would a church not allow some straight couples to marry and be sued for doing so?

My parents were refused to be married in the church because my dad had been married before. The preist doesn't agree with divorce and refused to allow it. So they got married in a registry office instead.

I'm sure similar things have happened to other people. And some people take any oppotunity they get to sue something.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]under current law, what would be illegal, not catering to an inter-racial wedding? Than I would say that such a law is misguided and impinges on people's freedoms.

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So you say gay marriage shouldn't be allowed to prevent this situation, then why aren't you also opposed to interracial marriage?

That isn't my main contention with gay marriage". I was responding to the TC's argument that state recognition of same-sex marriage would be good for caterers since it would lead to more weddings, by saying that it could also leave some caterers (and others in the wedding business) in a situation where they could be penalized for refusing to participate in a wedding that would violate their moral or religious beliefs.

Then what is your main concern with same sex marriage?

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[QUOTE="hiphops_savior"]Ehh, I'm fine with them having the choice of being married, but they cannot force a religious group who might not agree with homosexuality to bless them.whipassmt

Neither can heterosexuals. Non-issue.

Not true. There was a Church in New Jersey that was penalized for not allowing a gay-couple to celebrate their civil union on the Church's property.

"The dispute began when the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association stopped the couple from using its boardwalk pavilion, an area it rented out for weddings.

Administrative Law Judge Solomon Metzger wrote in yesterday?s ruling that the pavilion was a public space that advertised itself as a wedding venue without any mention of religious preconditions.

He rejected the church?s contention that the pavilion was an extension of its wedding ministry, noting that weddings had been performed at the pavilion for at least 10 years before the dispute arose and that there was no proof that couples, ?particularly those that chose secular vows, or that were of other faiths, were ever told that they were participating in a ministry.?"

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#391 whipassmt
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

Neither can heterosexuals. Non-issue.

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Not true. There was a Church in New Jersey that was penalized for not allowing a gay-couple to celebrate their civil union on the Church's property.

"The dispute began when the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association stopped the couple from using its boardwalk pavilion, an area it rented out for weddings.

Administrative Law Judge Solomon Metzger wrote in yesterday?s ruling that the pavilion was a public space that advertised itself as a wedding venue without any mention of religious preconditions.

He rejected the church?s contention that the pavilion was an extension of its wedding ministry, noting that weddings had been performed at the pavilion for at least 10 years before the dispute arose and that there was no proof that couples, ?particularly those that chose secular vows, or that were of other faiths, were ever told that they were participating in a ministry.?"

Still that should be for the Church, not the state to decide. But the Church would've been better off banning all Civil Unions on their property and only allowing marriages.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="toast_burner"]So? I'm sure there are some churches that got sued for not allowing some straight couples to marry.

Again this has got nothing to do with why same sex marriage should/shouldn't be allowed.

toast_burner

Why would a church not allow some straight couples to marry and be sued for doing so?

My parents were refused to be married in the church because my dad had been married before. The preist doesn't agree with divorce and refused to allow it. So they got married in a registry office instead.

I'm sure similar things have happened to other people. And some people take any oppotunity they get to sue something.

Well if a couple for one reason or another doesn't meet the criteria required by a church to be eligible for marriage the church should have the right not to be forced to perform such marriages.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="toast_burner"]So you say gay marriage shouldn't be allowed to prevent this situation, then why aren't you also opposed to interracial marriage?

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That isn't my main contention with gay marriage". I was responding to the TC's argument that state recognition of same-sex marriage would be good for caterers since it would lead to more weddings, by saying that it could also leave some caterers (and others in the wedding business) in a situation where they could be penalized for refusing to participate in a wedding that would violate their moral or religious beliefs.

Then what is your main concern with same sex marriage?

That it is not marriage. Marriage is a public union. Homosexual amorous relationships are private things.

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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="whipassmt"] Not true. There was a Church in New Jersey that was penalized for not allowing a gay-couple to celebrate their civil union on the Church's property.

whipassmt

"The dispute began when the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association stopped the couple from using its boardwalk pavilion, an area it rented out for weddings.

Administrative Law Judge Solomon Metzger wrote in yesterday?s ruling that the pavilion was a public space that advertised itself as a wedding venue without any mention of religious preconditions.

He rejected the church?s contention that the pavilion was an extension of its wedding ministry, noting that weddings had been performed at the pavilion for at least 10 years before the dispute arose and that there was no proof that couples, ?particularly those that chose secular vows, or that were of other faiths, were ever told that they were participating in a ministry.?"

Still that should be for the Church, not the state to decide. But the Church would've been better off banning all Civil Unions on their property and only allowing marriages.

No, it would have been better off not presenting its non-church side business as a secular, non-church business.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"] That isn't my main contention with gay marriage". I was responding to the TC's argument that state recognition of same-sex marriage would be good for caterers since it would lead to more weddings, by saying that it could also leave some caterers (and others in the wedding business) in a situation where they could be penalized for refusing to participate in a wedding that would violate their moral or religious beliefs.

whipassmt

Then what is your main concern with same sex marriage?

That it is not marriage. Marriage is a public union. Homosexual amorous relationships are private things.

Why is straight marriage public but gay is private? Are you saying that gays should keep their relationships secret?

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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="whipassmt"] That isn't my main contention with gay marriage". I was responding to the TC's argument that state recognition of same-sex marriage would be good for caterers since it would lead to more weddings, by saying that it could also leave some caterers (and others in the wedding business) in a situation where they could be penalized for refusing to participate in a wedding that would violate their moral or religious beliefs.

whipassmt

Then what is your main concern with same sex marriage?

That it is not marriage. Marriage is a public union. Homosexual amorous relationships are private things.

All amorous relationships are private things.

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#397 whipassmt
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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="toast_burner"]Then what is your main concern with same sex marriage?

worlock77

That it is not marriage. Marriage is a public union. Homosexual amorous relationships are private things.

All amorous relationships are private things.

Than why solemnize them in a public relationship such as matrimony or a civil union?

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"]

[QUOTE="worlock77"]

"The dispute began when the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association stopped the couple from using its boardwalk pavilion, an area it rented out for weddings.

Administrative Law Judge Solomon Metzger wrote in yesterday?s ruling that the pavilion was a public space that advertised itself as a wedding venue without any mention of religious preconditions.

He rejected the church?s contention that the pavilion was an extension of its wedding ministry, noting that weddings had been performed at the pavilion for at least 10 years before the dispute arose and that there was no proof that couples, ?particularly those that chose secular vows, or that were of other faiths, were ever told that they were participating in a ministry.?"

worlock77

Still that should be for the Church, not the state to decide. But the Church would've been better off banning all Civil Unions on their property and only allowing marriages.

No, it would have been better off not presenting its non-church side business as a secular, non-church business.

It would've been better of running the whole thing as a religious business. It is kind of stupid for a church to let its property be used for weddings of people who do not belong to that church.

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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]Then what is your main concern with same sex marriage?

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That it is not marriage. Marriage is a public union. Homosexual amorous relationships are private things.

Why is straight marriage public but gay is private? Are you saying that gays should keep their relationships secret?

Heterosexual couples produce children, thus perpetuating the society, which means their union affects the society and has a public ramification. Gay couplings are private matters. I do not mean private as in it must be kept secret, but private in the sense that it is merely a personal relationship of no significance to society.

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[QUOTE="whipassmt"] That it is not marriage. Marriage is a public union. Homosexual amorous relationships are private things.

whipassmt

Why is straight marriage public but gay is private? Are you saying that gays should keep their relationships secret?

Heterosexual couples produce children, thus perpetuating the society, which means their union affects the society and has a public ramification. Gay couplings are private matters. I do not mean private as in it must be kept secret, but private in the sense that it is merely a personal relationship of no significance to society.

Gay couples can and very often do have kids.

What about infertile couples or couples who simply don't want kids?