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#51 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Actually, the B word is gender neutral. It just means different things when directed at each gender.LJS9502_basic
The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.

Ehhh, I'm not one to really insult people.... Sooooo.. I don't know where you're going with this.
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#52 HlHlHl
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Actually, the B word is gender neutral. It just means different things when directed at each gender.

The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.

Yes but words evolve like I have been saying.
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#53 weezyfb
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not cool "brah"
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#54 Diablo-B
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Reverse Racism doesn't exist. Its just racism. As far as using the 'n' word, anyone can use it, but, that doesn't make it smart for you to do so. If you aren't black, its best that you don't use it. If your are black you should only use it among close friends in closed doors, or better yet not at all.
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#55 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Actually, the B word is gender neutral. It just means different things when directed at each gender.-Big_Red-
The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.

Ehhh, I'm not one to really insult people.... Sooooo.. I don't know where you're going with this.

You didn't read my entire post.:(
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#56 -RocBoys9489-
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It's okay to use when you use the suffix "ah", but bad if you use "er" :P
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#57 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="HlHlHl"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Actually, the B word is gender neutral. It just means different things when directed at each gender.

The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.

Yes but words evolve like I have been saying.

Yes....but it hasn't evolved to where the derogatory meaning is not still a part of the term in this case. And thus, should not be used.
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#58 HlHlHl
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="HlHlHl"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.

Yes but words evolve like I have been saying.

Yes....but it hasn't evolved to where the derogatory meaning is not still a part of the term in this case. And thus, should not be used.

It evolved past being gender specific. Assuming you're still talking about the "b word".
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#59 Silverbond
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[QUOTE="Silverbond"][QUOTE="KHAndAnime"] Because nobody likes a word nazi. If I want to use a word, I'll use it. HlHlHl
Then be prepared for the consequences for saying what you want when you want.

What consequences? Violence? Over a ****ing word?

1. I never said anything about violence.

2. No one is ever able to truly say what they want, when they want, how they want. That's just life and you should deal with it or face the consequences.

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#60 BreakTheseLinks
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="HlHlHl"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.

Yes but words evolve like I have been saying.

Yes....but it hasn't evolved to where the derogatory meaning is not still a part of the term in this case. And thus, should not be used.

You know it's not as if people will transcend their nature and stop hating each for ridiculous things; insults are going to be said no matter what. And I agree, it really shouldn't be used but people have every right to say it.
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#61 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="HlHlHl"] Yes but words evolve like I have been saying.HlHlHl
Yes....but it hasn't evolved to where the derogatory meaning is not still a part of the term in this case. And thus, should not be used.

It evolved past being gender specific. Assuming you're still talking about the " word".

No I thought we were talking about something else. Anyway in regard to any word....context is paramount.

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#62 Mr_Cumberdale
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]I don't think anyone should user it ever. That includes hip hop artists.rockinplanes
It's just a word. It holds no deeper meaning nowadays. I sometimes even call my grandma a n***. It's nothing.

Why not call your grandma grandma? Or something of similar meaning? It's hard for me to think about calling my grandma a racial slur or some derogatory term.
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#63 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="HlHlHl"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.LJS9502_basic
Yes but words evolve like I have been saying.

Yes....but it hasn't evolved to where the derogatory meaning is not still a part of the term in this case. And thus, should not be used.

It can be argued that preventing it from being used, also prevents it from evolving (whether negatively or positively), since meaning changes through use, obviously.

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#64 BreakTheseLinks
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[QUOTE="rockinplanes"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]I don't think anyone should user it ever. That includes hip hop artists.Mr_Cumberdale
It's just a word. It holds no deeper meaning nowadays. I sometimes even call my grandma a n***. It's nothing.

Why not call your grandma grandma? Or something of similar meaning? It's hard for me to think about calling my grandma a racial slur or some derogatory term.

Totally. I wont even curse in front of my gradma let-alone call her a racial slur.
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#65 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] The original meaning was not gender neutral. However, why does one need to use insulting terms when dealing with people. If I don't like you....you'll know it without my use of derogatory insulting terms. Note:you as a general word and not directed at you specifically.LJS9502_basic
Ehhh, I'm not one to really insult people.... Sooooo.. I don't know where you're going with this.

You didn't read my entire post.:(

Oh I did. You only said that the word "you" wasn't directed at me. You never said "one":P.
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#66 branketra
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It's just dumb.
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#67 XilePrincess
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Tempted to agree but their similarity ends when you consider society's reaction to both words. You can get away with "b" on prime time.HlHlHl

I can agree with that, but like anything else, words become way more casual and accepted the more they're said. It's like calling somebody gay or retard it doesn't mean they're homosexual or mentally handicapped, they've just evolved into casual words. It's not right to use them like that, but I can't defend the N word like I can the other two because the gays and the handicapped didn't go around saying "Yo retard or "Sup gay to each other every day.

Actually, the B word is gender neutral. It just means different things when directed at each gender.-Big_Red-

I think it means different things more based on who it's being said to from whom, and in what context.

I say "sup b****" at my female friends (I could say it to guys too, in a certain tone, but I don't have many guy friends to say it to anymore), and "b**** please" at both genders and neither are offensive or degrading. It's not gender neutral, because if it was it wouldn't be offensive to males when they get told they're acting like one.

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#68 Desulated
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I love it how when people throw a hissy fit when others call them that but they use the word themselves.

Gotta love hypocrites.

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#69 Rutzfuz
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...

I am sorry

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#70 WhiteKnight77
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It's okay to use when you use the suffix "ah", but bad if you use "er" :P-RocBoys9489-

It shouldn't be used either way. If the n word is so offensive, it should never be used, by anyone, but most people ignore the fact that it could be anyone from any race no matter the skin color.

As far as the b word, I have to laugh when women all call themselves female dogs. Totally stupid if ya ask me and as demeaning as calling a woman a slut or whore or ho.

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#71 Teenaged
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I love it how when people throw a hissy fit when others call them that but they use the word themselves.

Gotta love hypocrites.

Desulated

Doesnt that happen with every derogatory word?

We do swear at others but we dont like being called names, because we think we are right when we deem they deserve it but that they are wrong when they think we deserve it.

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#72 Tetrarch9
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I don't have a problem with it. I call my friends c*****rs sometimes. Its basically the same here for blacks, they refer to each other as their ***s. This is the southern U.S nobody cares.
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#73 Desulated
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[QUOTE="Desulated"]

I love it how when people throw a hissy fit when others call them that but they use the word themselves.

Gotta love hypocrites.

Teenaged

Doesnt that happen with every derogatory word?

We do swear at others but we dont like being called names, because we think we are right when we deem they deserve it but that they are wrong when they think we deserve it.

No, the issue is that the n word is used by those who get the term shot at them like bullets. I've seen it all the time, like "Wut up *****?"

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#74 -Big_Red-
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[QUOTE="Rutzfuz"]

...

I am sorry

:lol:!!!!!
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#75 ThePerro
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STOP SAYING "BRAH"!cd_rom


This. Let's stop using the "b" word.

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#76 Capitan_Kid
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[QUOTE="cd_rom"]STOP SAYING "BRAH"!ThePerro



This. Let's stop using the "b" word.

No can do bruh. "Brah" is a man's soul!!!!
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#77 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Desulated"]

I love it how when people throw a hissy fit when others call them that but they use the word themselves.

Gotta love hypocrites.

Desulated

Doesnt that happen with every derogatory word?

We do swear at others but we dont like being called names, because we think we are right when we deem they deserve it but that they are wrong when they think we deserve it.

No, the issue is that the n word is used by those who get the term shot at them like bullets. I've seen it all the time, like "Wut up *****?"

Ah I get it.

I think its more about (false or not, justified or not) assumptions from their part. They probably assume that among them people wouldnt mean the word negatively, but they probably assume that someone who isnt black would use it in a derogatory fashion towards them.

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#78 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Desulated"]

I love it how when people throw a hissy fit when others call them that but they use the word themselves.

Gotta love hypocrites.

Teenaged

Doesnt that happen with every derogatory word?

We do swear at others but we dont like being called names, because we think we are right when we deem they deserve it but that they are wrong when they think we deserve it.

I think it's a bit more than that....
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#79 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="Desulated"]

I love it how when people throw a hissy fit when others call them that but they use the word themselves.

Gotta love hypocrites.

LJS9502_basic

Doesnt that happen with every derogatory word?

We do swear at others but we dont like being called names, because we think we are right when we deem they deserve it but that they are wrong when they think we deserve it.

I think it's a bit more than that....

Elaborate then.

Unless you mean what Desulated already told me after that post of mine.

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#80 bbkkristian
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I don't think Anybody should say it. All it does is create more stereotypes about those who use it...
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#81 raynimrod
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I think we should ban words in general. They're just hurtful.

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#82 LJS9502_basic
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Elaborate then.

Unless you mean what Desulated already told me after that post of mine.

Teenaged

If he said it can be used by one group but not the other...then yes.

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#83 Crotazoa8
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Depends on how you say it. If you say it with an "a" at the end, im fine with it. If you say it with an "er" at the end, then there's going to be a problem...
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#84 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

Elaborate then.

Unless you mean what Desulated already told me after that post of mine.

LJS9502_basic

If he said it can be used by one group but not the other...then yes.

Yes, thats what I understood from his last post.

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#85 stevoqwerty
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Most people forgot what it really means, they thought it's just a replacement word for "brother".

And also, "Never Ignorant Getting Goals Accomplished"

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#86 ChampionoChumps
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Most people forgot what it really means, they thought it's just a replacement word for "brother".

And also, "Never Ignorant Getting Goals Accomplished"

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I'm pretty sure it comes from negro, which means black in Spanish
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#87 haggard_korn
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I think it's just a word. I don't understand why people get so hurt over a word who's sole intention is to do exactly that.

All the black people I know say they don't even care about the word. Hell, in my experience white people are more offended by the word than black people are. :P But that's society for you, everything has to be offensive.

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#88 Gaming-Planet
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That word is so last decade.

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#89 arad96
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]What do you mean no-one should be using the word?Capitan_Kid
Im black and i don't like it. It's just not a good word. If a black person says it to another black person it's ok but if a white dude says it, fists will fly. It seems like a double standard to me brah.

I don't know man. I have some black friends and I call them that every once in a while and they just take it as a joke. I'm not a white dude, I'm hispanic. Does that make a difference?

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#90 xLFTMx
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I say n**** like 10 times a day.

I just enjoy the way it rolls off the tongue.

I could brush my teeth with it.

I don't ever say it in a "I hate blacks" kinda way.

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#91 T_REX305
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i use the N word like theres no tomorrow :P

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#92 ragek1ll589
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We've become desensitized to the word, plain and simple. Its used in such a way that its become "cool" to use.

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#93 Melpoe
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[QUOTE="Oborozukiyo"]It's a fun word to say. :)ace-of-spades93

I love calling people necrophilliacs too.

Necrophilia ftw!

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#94 vidplayer8
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At this point, I've literally just stopped carrying. I never did like the term reverse racism.

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A cure.

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#96 Lto_thaG
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So...Only black people can call other people noobs?

The f*** is that about?

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#97 bobaban
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[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]What do you mean no-one should be using the word?Capitan_Kid
Im black and i don't like it. It's just not a good word. If a black person says it to another black person it's ok but if a white dude says it, fists will fly. It seems like a double standard to me brah.

What about non-whites and non-blacks? Not said in a malicious way either.

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#98 Dante2710
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I think we should ban words in general. They're just hurtful.

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#99 ps3wizard45
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It's just a word....

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#100 ThePerro
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There are two types of the "n" word that you need to be aware about though.

If it ends in "a" it's somewhat okay but if it ends in "er" it's a racial slur.