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#101 XvX_Fear_XvX
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i love saying it :)
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#102 stevoqwerty
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[QUOTE="stevoqwerty"]

Most people forgot what it really means, they thought it's just a replacement word for "brother".

And also, "Never Ignorant Getting Goals Accomplished"

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I'm pretty sure it comes from negro, which means black in Spanish

I know that, but most people don't, they thought it's cool to said it.

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#103 SupraGT
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There are two types of the "n" word that you need to be aware about though.

If it ends in "a" it's somewhat okay but if it ends in "er" it's a racial slur.

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This.

Most people oblivious to the word don't even know this, that is why they get in trouble.

I've had some white friend use n***a and I didn't care because I knew they didn't mean any racial harm and they understood the meaning of it.

However, people that use the "er" version have no right to use it because they simply don't understand.

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#104 taj7575
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I hate that word, no matter who uses it...

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#105 bleacher6
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I know black people that dont like when other black people say the word..its just how you react to it i guess so i just dont say it lol.

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#106 ragek1ll589
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There are two types of the "n" word that you need to be aware about though.

If it ends in "a" it's somewhat okay but if it ends in "er" it's a racial slur.

ThePerro

Why is there a need to alter a racial slur into something that is ok to say?

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#107 Apocalypse33
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it's one of my favorite words to throw around all the time. Words only mean what you assign to it.
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#108 XxspritexX
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I want to use it as it's general term.
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#109 flash_drive
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I say that anybody can say it, but its really lame if you weren't raised around people who do say it, and you say it.

I use the N word everyday, I have no interest in stopping either.

EDIT: to elaborate, I'm saying that you should'nt just go and start saying the N word, just because you can, because to me that would seem that you are trying to be someone who you aren't.

I say the N word, my parents say it (with discretion) my brother says it, my black friends say it.

I say it because all of those influences made me into who I am today.

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#110 HiroshimaKumon
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I think it can be very appropriate in certain situations when your jimmies are getting russled.
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#111 ayanami_rei
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Speaking about the n-word, Huckleberry Finn is being reprinted because they edited out the n-word and changed it with slave.
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#112 MgamerBD
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I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?
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#113 Rougehunter
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I think it's stupid. It's like a Jewish person saying "Hail Hitler an Asian person calling other people goons or chinks, or a German person calling people a Jerry or a kraut.

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#114 walkingdream
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Ill say it if i feel like it. I aint letting nobody tell me otherwise. With that said i rarely ever use it. All my other friends however call my black friend the N word, he doesn't seem to mind. (however i live in Australia so nobody really cares over here)
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#115 ernie1989
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I use it all the time, but never with the intention of insulting anyone; it's for joking around.

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#116 II_Seraphim_II
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So brahs, me and my cuz were arguing about the use of the n word. He says only black ppl should be able to say it. I think that's reverse racism. Noone should be using the word. What do you thinkCapitan_Kid
You see I dont get this. Why is this even a topic? Do you wake up in the morning with a burning itch to say a racial slur? I mean I have no burning itch to commit murder so I don't argue why soldiers are allowed to kill people but I'm not.
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#117 DudeNtheRoom
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I think only fish ppl and should be able to say Naga. Orcs, humans and elves should make up their own word.

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#118 taj7575
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I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?MgamerBD

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

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#119 Drakebunny
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well it no longer means what it originally meant. I personally dont use it but hear it come out of Black and Hispanic mouths everyday. One of my white russian gfs use it often too. Its in many peoples daily vocabulary here in NYC. Fuhgeddabouditt

Its one of the things that make me dislike living in New York City, honestly.

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#120 Chris_Williams
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I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?MgamerBD
i'm black and i think its dumb when people say only we can say it, i mean our ancestors where called that to put them down, to humiliate them, so i never seen where tis okay for anyone to say it.

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?taj7575

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

thats exactly what i was thinking, i'm black and i hate when anyone uses the word, even with friends, when they call them that, i get serious and tell them don't call me a "n" word, because i just don't think thats cool, our ancestors where humiliated by being called that, i'm sure my great grandfather wouldn't like me calling someone a "n" word so i respect that and i wish everyone who thinks its so cool to say it to respect it also.
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#121 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?taj7575

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?
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#122 taj7575
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?MgamerBD

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

It's fine..It's a terrible outlook, and it makes you look like a hypocrite. Oh, and I'm not white ;)

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#123 coolbeans90
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A word I avoid using due to sensitivity issues of other people. The double standard the word has developed is undoubtedly absurd, but not really bothersome.

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#124 Chris_Williams
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?MgamerBD

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

dude, i'm black and i don't even understand what the heck your talking about, the word shouldn't be used period, the sooner that happens the sooner we can grow past racism "which will be a little tiny growth but growth nonetheless", what would our ancestors feel if they saw us calling each other that word, think about it.
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#125 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

It's fine..It's a terrible outlook, and it makes you look like a hypocrite. Oh, and I'm not white ;)

My motto in life "Everyone is a hypocrite". So it doesn't really bother me. Alot of things based on racial issues is based on hypocrisy I just accept it and use it the best I could. Also I know your Asian(I think) so yeah. Just accept it ;)
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#126 clayron
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I stop taking TC serious when he said reverse racism. Racism is racism. There is no such thing as "reverse" racism.

If when blacks are racist to white it's reverse racism, and when whites are racist to anyone it's racism then that would mean that the very definition of racism is "a [white]belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others." and reverse racism would be the opposite.

Racism is racism, TC. Racism is Racism. Say it with me. Racism. Is. Racism. And anyone who says reverse racism is stupid.

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#127 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Chris_Williams

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

dude, i'm black and i don't even understand what the heck your talking about, the word shouldn't be used period, the sooner that happens the sooner we can grow past racism "which will be a little tiny growth but growth nonetheless", what would our ancestors feel if they saw us calling each other that word, think about it.

Don't know what my ancestors will think if they saw us calling each other that word cause they are gone. I use it as a friendly jester though. To me and my friends it is just a word that the majority of people around us use. Let me enjoy my ignorance. I thought about how my ancestors feel, I used to be just like you and hated the word. Something in me changed I guess(I blame high school). Anyway I could go into an argument with you about this. And talk to you about where our race is right now is nothing to be proud but I'm not. Its my choice to say the word. And I still love my race to death its just one of my little ignorance moments that I enjoy. :)

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#128 musalala
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?MgamerBD

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

I'm with Mgamer it will take a long time for it to be appropriate for white people to use that word, Thats just the way it is .Its not fair , it doesn't make sense but thats the way it is.

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#129 taj7575
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

musalala

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

I'm with Mgamer it will take a long time for it to be appropriate for white people to use that word, Thats just the way it is .Its not fair , it doesn't make sense but thats the way it is.

Hmm..I don't think he'll ever feel like it's appropriate for white people to use that word if you read the previous comments.

If anything, I see the use going down.

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#130 optiow
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I don't like to use the word.
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#131 Pixel-Pirate
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Either everyone should be able to use it or no one. Otherwise it is discrimination to allow one person to use it and not another.

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#132 coolbeans90
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Either everyone should be able to use it or no one. Otherwise it is discrimination to allow one person to use it and not another.

Pixel-Pirate

Completely agreed, but it's not really something worth fighting over. I'm not going to argue with personal insecurities.

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#133 jeremiah06
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Really it's no different than the f word... It's just(highly useful) filler speak... Instead of articulating you use a filler word.
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#134 clayron
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Either everyone should be able to use it or no one. Otherwise it is discrimination to allow one person to use it and not another.

Pixel-Pirate
That makes no sense. Groups of people across the world use different words, some derogatory, to speak to and reference one another. Because it's perfectly fine for one group to consider a term or phrase acceptable when used by their own community that doesn't necessarily mean it should translate to every group.
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#135 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Chris_Williams

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

dude, i'm black and i don't even understand what the heck your talking about, the word shouldn't be used period, the sooner that happens the sooner we can grow past racism "which will be a little tiny growth but growth nonetheless", what would our ancestors feel if they saw us calling each other that word, think about it.

You don't seem like you're from the hood though(I hope I cause no offense)... I'm not trying to be all ghetto but MgamerBD has the general "hood" mentality about the subject. I've seen white people get shot(and killed) over saying it.

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#136 clayron
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You don't seem like you're from the hood though(I hope I cause no offense)... I'm not trying to be all ghetto but MgamerBD has the general "hood" mentality about the subject. I've seen white people get shot(and killed) over saying it.

jeremiah06

I've seen black people shot and killed over it. Remember, even though we as black people consider it our word when used in certain context it can be really offensive and infuriating. ' I saw a guy get his ass whipped while playing ball for pointing a guy and saying, "Man, this n****". It was an ass whipping the likes of which they make Tyler Perry movies about.

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#137 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Either everyone should be able to use it or no one. Otherwise it is discrimination to allow one person to use it and not another.

clayron

That makes no sense. Groups of people across the world use different words, some derogatory, to speak to and reference one another. Because it's perfectly fine for one group to consider a term or phrase acceptable when used by their own community that doesn't necessarily mean it should translate to every group.

Yes, it should.

If you don't want it being used then don't use it. Otherwise don't cry when others use it. I don't get my own special word and neither do you.

Also often you aren't going to be living in an all black community.

I don't get why a black person can use the word "cracker" or "honkee" but I can't use the N Word. Words are just words and cannot physically hurt you in any way.

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#138 clayron
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[QUOTE="clayron"][QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

Either everyone should be able to use it or no one. Otherwise it is discrimination to allow one person to use it and not another.

Pixel-Pirate

That makes no sense. Groups of people across the world use different words, some derogatory, to speak to and reference one another. Because it's perfectly fine for one group to consider a term or phrase acceptable when used by their own community that doesn't necessarily mean it should translate to every group.

Yes, it should.

If you don't want it being used then don't use it. Otherwise don't cry when others use it. I don't get my own special word and neither do you.

Also often you aren't going to be living in an all black community.

I don't get why a black person can use the word "cracker" or "honkee" but I can't use the N Word. Words are just words and cannot physically hurt you in any way.

Ok, who said it was perfectly acceptable for blacks to use the words "honkie" and "cracker"? I didn't. I just simply referenced that groups of people have words and phrases that are acceptable within their group. For instance, I can bet one of your closest friends could insult you and you two would likely get a laugh over it. However, if someone outside your circle of friends, your little community, were to say the same thing you'd flip your s***. The situation is no different. Different groups determine what is acceptable to their respective groups, and that's perfectly fine. And the whole "physically hurt" thing is a given. That's why there exist a thing called "verbal abuse/assault" which is a very real thing and can be very hurtful.
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#139 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]You don't seem like you're from the hood though(I hope I cause no offense)... I'm not trying to be all ghetto but MgamerBD has the general "hood" mentality about the subject. I've seen white people get shot(and killed) over saying it.

clayron

I've seen black people shot and killed over it. Remember, even though we as black people consider it our word when used in certain context it can be really offensive and infuriating. ' I saw a guy get his ass whipped while playing ball for pointing a guy and saying, "Man, this n****". It was an ass whipping the likes of which they make Tyler Perry movies about.

Yeah... It makes no difference to me who says it though. I was just pointing out that MgamerBD's attitude about it is a common one(with everyone feeling the need to announce they're black-ness as they attempt to speak for the entire race). My original thought is thats it's a useful filler word like f***.
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#140 Sagem28
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The only thing I can't stand is white people calling each other N*****.

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#141 XxspritexX
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Either everyone should be able to use it or no one. Otherwise it is discrimination to allow one person to use it and not another.

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#142 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"][QUOTE="MgamerBD"] Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?jeremiah06

dude, i'm black and i don't even understand what the heck your talking about, the word shouldn't be used period, the sooner that happens the sooner we can grow past racism "which will be a little tiny growth but growth nonetheless", what would our ancestors feel if they saw us calling each other that word, think about it.

You don't seem like you're from the hood though(I hope I cause no offense)... I'm not trying to be all ghetto but MgamerBD has the general "hood" mentality about the subject. I've seen white people get shot(and killed) over saying it.

Exactly...I've lived in the hood all my life. Its natural to me and many others that lived here. Something you won't understand unless you was one of us. The n word is a pronoun, adjective, noun, etc to me. It is part of our vocabluary and mentality. Also the Chris_williams kid sound like he lived in the suburbs just from saying"dude". Its not something you will understand unless you grew up here.
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#143 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

[QUOTE="clayron"] That makes no sense. Groups of people across the world use different words, some derogatory, to speak to and reference one another. Because it's perfectly fine for one group to consider a term or phrase acceptable when used by their own community that doesn't necessarily mean it should translate to every group.clayron

Yes, it should.

If you don't want it being used then don't use it. Otherwise don't cry when others use it. I don't get my own special word and neither do you.

Also often you aren't going to be living in an all black community.

I don't get why a black person can use the word "cracker" or "honkee" but I can't use the N Word. Words are just words and cannot physically hurt you in any way.

Ok, who said it was perfectly acceptable for blacks to use the words "honkie" and "cracker"? I didn't. I just simply referenced that groups of people have words and phrases that are acceptable within their group. For instance, I can bet one of your closest friends could insult you and you two would likely get a laugh over it. However, if someone outside your circle of friends, your little community, were to say the same thing you'd flip your s***. The situation is no different. Different groups determine what is acceptable to their respective groups, and that's perfectly fine. And the whole "physically hurt" thing is a given. That's why there exist a thing called "verbal abuse/assault" which is a very real thing and can be very hurtful.

Many millions of people is not the same as my circle of friends and it would depend on the context, just as all words should. The N word is not inherently evil. It's context that matters. If my friend called me an idiot in a joking matter then that is fine. It was in the context of a joke. In a non joking manner it is not fine. Also I would not flip my **** if someone said that to me. Anyone who flips their **** over words should probably check an anger counciling class.

Also the black community does not get to determine who gets the use of the word unless they can show ownership of said word. I understand why people would not want X person to say it but I disagree with censorship in any form.

Again, context is important. You are justified in getting upset of someone saying the N word in a manner to be hurtful. If your friend is joking and uses it and is obviously using it in the context of a joke, you are overreacting. But that is my personal opinion.

Also society finds it okay for black people to use the word honkie and cracker. Anyone should be able to use any word. Speech should not be censored.

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#144 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"] dude, i'm black and i don't even understand what the heck your talking about, the word shouldn't be used period, the sooner that happens the sooner we can grow past racism "which will be a little tiny growth but growth nonetheless", what would our ancestors feel if they saw us calling each other that word, think about it.MgamerBD

You don't seem like you're from the hood though(I hope I cause no offense)... I'm not trying to be all ghetto but MgamerBD has the general "hood" mentality about the subject. I've seen white people get shot(and killed) over saying it.

Exactly...I've lived in the hood all my life. Its natural to me and many others that lived here. Something you won't understand unless you was one of us. The n word is a pronoun, adjective, noun, etc to me. It is part of our vocabluary and mentality. Also the Chris_williams kid sound like he lived in the suburbs just from saying"dude". Its not something you will understand unless you grew up here.

Dude is a pretty common word in certain areas of the US (California for instance). Especially during the 80's and 90's.

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#145 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="clayron"]

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]You don't seem like you're from the hood though(I hope I cause no offense)... I'm not trying to be all ghetto but MgamerBD has the general "hood" mentality about the subject. I've seen white people get shot(and killed) over saying it.

I've seen black people shot and killed over it. Remember, even though we as black people consider it our word when used in certain context it can be really offensive and infuriating. ' I saw a guy get his ass whipped while playing ball for pointing a guy and saying, "Man, this n****". It was an ass whipping the likes of which they make Tyler Perry movies about.

:lol: omg clayron your awesome for that last sentence
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#146 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]I still only think that it can only be said by blacks. A white person says it...I'll knock him out...that word has too much history behind it to be said. Just accept it and life will be much much easier. k?MgamerBD

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

Technically no one can stop a white person from using it.

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#147 coolbeans90
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People with the "hood mentality" need to grow a pair.

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#148 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

Your post is contradicting. You said that the word has too much history behind it to be said. But in the beginning, you said only blacks can use it. What that supposed to mean? The only people who should be using a word degrading your race is your race? Why should anyone be using the word if it's a word with a bad history?

Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?

Technically no one can stop a white person from using it.

True...just don't say it around me or any other blacks. It is really a simple concept. You can whine all you like that is just the way things are. Its not gonna change. Just make it easier by accepting it and listening to what I say :).Period. /thread. Game over. Have a good night.
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#149 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"] Hey...I don't have to make sense. That's just the way it is. The faster you accept it the easier your life will be. Blacks can use it and only blacks with some hispanics. White people can't. Its something you won't understand so don't worry about it and listen to me :). k?MgamerBD

Technically no one can stop a white person from using it.

True...just don't say it around me or any other blacks. It is really a simple concept. You can whine all you like that is just the way things are. Its not gonna change. Just make it easier by accepting it and listening to what I say :).Period. /thread. Game over. Have a good night.

If someone wants to get executed or serve several decades in prison because "Someone used by word!" they should probably check into a mental instituion.

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#150 Pixel-Pirate
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People with the "hood mentality" need to grow a pair.

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Agreed so much. "I'm tough! I grew up in the hood! But don't use my special word or I'll throw a tantrum!"