*-The Therapy room:How is your life ?(Relationship issues, family, and etc)-*

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#151 GodofBigMacs
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Awful. I have to finish this 600 page book in like a week, maybe two. It's for a summer reading assignment. I've read only 200 pages. I'm a slow reader... life sucks. I'm considering just dropping this class altogether. It might not be worth the AP credit anyway next year (assuming I would pass the AP test).
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#152 Keyblade_150
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Things are going ok.

I'm quite the optimist, really, so I always try to look on the bright side of things.

However, there is one thing that's slightly upsetting me:
There's this girl that I really, really like. But she's my best friend. I told her anyway, and she said that she didn't feel the same way. I was like ok. But she kept flirting with me (sitting on my lap, linking arms) when she knew how I felt about her, and when she had no interest of a deeper relationship. Then, when I went round her house a few weeks later, she started putting on loads of make up, wearing a revealing dress, all to go onto webcam to some guy that she likes :/ So I texted her when I was drunk having a go at her, and having a go for how she flirts with me. She said that it's just cos she's comfortable around me. So now I feel like I've screwed up our friendship :/

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#153 battlefront23
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yeah, I know what you mean. I'm literally broke, so the expectation that I would buy everything isn't really there. But i'm sure there are girls out there who aren't materialistic bimbos so keep your head up lol.frostybanana
Well I figure the right one would be the type of girl who deserved to be pampered, as opposed to expecting to be pampered. That way, whenever I do pamper her, she is thankful for it, as opposed to whenever I don't pamper her her getting all pissed off at me. If she was pissed off because I didn't pamper her all the time, I'd dump her on the spot anyways.
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#154 CleanPlayer
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="CleanPlayer"][QUOTE="Young_Charter"] Did she use you as a rebound ?

haha most likely with the way things turned out!

lol how long was the relationship ?

3 months, not that long
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#155 Espada12
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Pretty decent, I'm learning japanese, then moving on to chinese then german and contemplating taking professional diving classes, I'm currently employed and I got my own office (dunno how that one happened and I get to come to GS whole day and play tropico while I have nothing going on!), awaiting my results from my first law exam, bought a new PC,and such.. only thing is I lost my wallet with my Id and drivers permit so I have to replace that and there's a women that really likes me apparently but the feeling isn't mutual so yea.. I will have to figure out how to deal with that one... otherwise everything is pretty much dandy.

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#156 ThePerro
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I think I just failed Calc 2... :/ Well not failed but I think I got a D, which is pretty much failing, I'd have to take the course again. I hope it doesn't come to that.

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#157 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="CleanPlayer"]haha most likely with the way things turned out!CleanPlayer
lol how long was the relationship ?

3 months, not that long

Yeah, you have to be careful next time..
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#158 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="mexicangordo"]

Ok, this thread is more depressing than that other thread.... I wish the best to many of you....

Things are going good, and if they are not, then i make lemonade. :P

I finally got promoted from my job, I don't just write reviews anymore, I edit, and over view now. I am very happy about that. I also am finishing my A.S in Hospitality Management and am the process of opening a very small bakery in Redwood with a friend. My dream of owning a music cafe is finally coming true.

I have not been in a relationship for about 8 months now, and I plan on staying that way until im done with school. I am just way happier single and not tricking my myself into thinking that I need someone in my life to be happy.

Smart man. Basically, since high school started, I've always felt everything would be "better" with a girlfriend which isn't necessarily true at all. I do want more girl-friends though. (Notice the dash)

just make sure you play safesex ... You have to be careful these days..
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#159 D_Battery
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Well, let's see; I'm sitting in my room rockin' out to Bathory and playing Final Fantasy Tactics Advance after a hard day's work. I've also decided that I'm not going to care about how I look for the rest of the summer and am consequently unshaven and wallowing in my own filth. So in short, things are pretty damn awesome.
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#160 martinX3X
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It's summer. I've basically been in my basement for days on the computer. I'm going crazy.

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#161 frostybanana
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Well, let's see; I'm sitting in my room rockin' out to Bathory and playing Final Fantasy Tactics Advance after a hard day's work. I've also decided that I'm not going to care about how I look for the rest of the summer and am consequently unshaven and wallowing in my own filth. So in short, things are pretty damn awesome.D_Battery
lol, i haven't shaved in 5 months.
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#162 MasterC5
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Awful, very awful.

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#163 michael_1234576
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Well my life is work and sleep right now and what little down time I have I spend here :lol:
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#164 D_Battery
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[QUOTE="D_Battery"]Well, let's see; I'm sitting in my room rockin' out to Bathory and playing Final Fantasy Tactics Advance after a hard day's work. I've also decided that I'm not going to care about how I look for the rest of the summer and am consequently unshaven and wallowing in my own filth. So in short, things are pretty damn awesome.frostybanana
lol, i haven't shaved in 5 months.

High five!
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#165 Grodus5
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I can't complain. I have two jobs, everything is going nicely. Got this crazy ex girlfriend that is hell bent on humilating me every chance she gets, but I usually out smart her. Still, its causing a little drama, but nothing I can't handle. If anything, its providing some needed entertainment to my social life.

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#166 Young_Charter
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I can't complain. I have two jobs, everything is going nicely. Got this crazy ex girlfriend that is hell bent on humilating me every chance she gets, but I usually out smart her. Still, its causing a little drama, but nothing I can't handle. If anything, its providing some needed entertainment to my social life.

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Yeah.. Love is a game sometimes :P
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I'm a little stressed out because a good friend of mine lashed out at me for no discernable reason. I will probably meditate to fight it off; it helps clear my mind of stress and/or anxiety.

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#168 Young_Charter
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I'm a little stressed out because a good friend of mine lashed out at me for no discernable reason. I will probably meditate to fight it off; it helps clear my mind of stress and/or anxiety.

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How to meditate ? N Why did they argue at you ?
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#169 Solid_Tango
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Acouple of days since my break down ( girl problem) now i moved on to the fass where i hate her, like i really really do hate her with all my being. 5 years i ve thought about her hope i forget her soon, its been too effin long.
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#170 frostybanana
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I can't complain. I have two jobs, everything is going nicely. Got this crazy ex girlfriend that is hell bent on humilating me every chance she gets, but I usually out smart her. Still, its causing a little drama, but nothing I can't handle. If anything, its providing some needed entertainment to my social life.

Grodus5
Actually I have a little story about something like this. My friend's ex-girlfriend did something similar. When they broke up she would do like little subtle things to piss him off. Like he left his textbook in her car and asked her for it because he needed to study for a test. She said she'd give it back but she purposefully avoided him until after the test and he failed. So that kind of set him off. He said he wanted to be friends with her even though they were broken up. And then for the next couple of months, they hung out and he pretended everything was fine and he wasn't angry. But he would mess with her in small ways, like go into her house, take something she used every day (like her IPOD) and hid it from her. And she's been going crazy thinking she's lost stuff. Anyways, he's still doing it actually. And she has no idea it's him. He said he's going to slash her tires soon though :X.
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#171 dracula_16
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[QUOTE="dracula_16"]

I'm a little stressed out because a good friend of mine lashed out at me for no discernable reason. I will probably meditate to fight it off; it helps clear my mind of stress and/or anxiety.

Young_Charter

How to meditate ? N Why did they argue at you ?

I sit in a quiet place and relax while concentrating on my breathing. I imagine that I can see the air going in and out of me.

My friend was angry that I wasn't on MSN. I guess she was already in a bad mood, so she took it out on me.

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#172 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Acouple of days since my break down ( girl problem) now i moved on to the fass where i hate her, like i really really do hate her with all my being. 5 years i ve thought about her hope i forget her soon, its been too effin long.

What happened ?
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#173 auron_16
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Horrible. I barely make it through the day.
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#174 GrandJury
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You guys, I don't even know what to say. If I can survive being homeless twice, not having OMG fun teenage years, having to stop going to school to take care of my family, and other BS, I am pretty sure you all can make it through the day. Hell I went through all of that and I am only 19.
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#175 frostybanana
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You guys, I don't even know what to say. If I can survive being homeless twice, not having OMG fun teenage years, having to stop going to school to take care of my family, and other BS, I am pretty sure you all can make it through the day. Hell I went through all of that and I am only 19.GrandJury
I can't even make it past breakfast
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#176 GrandJury
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Funny, I've been through all of that crap and I can still find the will to keep going with my life.
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#177 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="GrandJury"]You guys, I don't even know what to say. If I can survive being homeless twice, not having OMG fun teenage years, having to stop going to school to take care of my family, and other BS, I am pretty sure you all can make it through the day. Hell I went through all of that and I am only 19.frostybanana
I can't even make it past breakfast

agreed.
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#178 frostybanana
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Funny, I've been through all of that crap and I can still find the will to keep going with my life. GrandJury
You don't understand Grand... They stopped making my favorite cereal...Count Chocula... I have no reason to live...
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#180 GrandJury
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[QUOTE="GrandJury"]Funny, I've been through all of that crap and I can still find the will to keep going with my life. frostybanana
You don't understand Grand... They stopped making my favorite cereal...Count Chocula... I have no reason to live...

LOL, oh, that is harsh. *Puts hand on your shoulder*
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#181 comp_atkins
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[QUOTE="frostybanana"][QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="frostybanana"] you'd rather have done software engineering? mind if i ask why?

because I'm not going to build any kind of micro architectures anytime soon. rather than studying Computer architecture, signals and systems, digital signal processing, control systems,...etc, I would like to spend the time and effort into more productive things like learning more about databases, web development, complex software systems...etc

ah yeah, that's kind of what I figure too. software just seems like it has more appeal.

no way. hw is where it's at! :P
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#182 CannedWorms
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Have really bad anxiety, not sure if it's worth the hassle booking an appointment with my a doctor as I'm not sure if they'll give a teenager medication or not.

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#183 Young_Charter
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Have really bad anxiety, not sure if it's worth the hassle booking an appointment with my a doctor as I'm not sure if they'll give a teenager medication or not.

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Why ?
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#184 frostybanana
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Have really bad anxiety, not sure if it's worth the hassle booking an appointment with my a doctor as I'm not sure if they'll give a teenager medication or not.

CannedWorms
One of my friends took anxiety medicine. I don't talk to her anymore so I don't know if she still takes it, but she was taking it when she was 16-17 years old, so. They made her extremely boring and not fun to be around though.
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#185 zoraluv
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me....i'm wondering if i should go back and suck it up and stay at my high school as a snior or get a GED...thing is we need to move out of the place badly......and if i want to stay at my school we'd have to stay or move into somewhere rushed idk i'm just stressed
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#186 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]me....i'm wondering if i should go back and suck it up and stay at my high school as a snior or get a GED...thing is we need to move out of the place badly......and if i want to stay at my school we'd have to stay or move into somewhere rushed idk i'm just stressed

Im going through that to.
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#187 Solid_Tango
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Acouple of days since my break down ( girl problem) now i moved on to the fass where i hate her, like i really really do hate her with all my being. 5 years i ve thought about her hope i forget her soon, its been too effin long.

What happened ?

Chick whom i know for 5 years broke my heart :( too long man you dont wanna know
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#188 zoraluv
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it's hard isn't it!!!!! i really did'nt have to many friends but i did have some...... i just don't know if i will regret it...but on the plus side i would be around college people(i would'nt do it online)
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#189 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]it's hard isn't it!!!!! i really did'nt have to many friends but i did have some...... i just don't know if i will regret it...but on the plus side i would be around college people(i would'nt do it online)

Either way, GED or Diploma, at least you have one of the two.
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#190 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"][QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Acouple of days since my break down ( girl problem) now i moved on to the fass where i hate her, like i really really do hate her with all my being. 5 years i ve thought about her hope i forget her soon, its been too effin long.

What happened ?

Chick whom i know for 5 years broke my heart :( too long man you dont wanna know

u sure ?
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#191 CannedWorms
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="CannedWorms"] Why ?

:DWhy do I have anxiety? Why am I not sure if it's worth the hassle? Or why might the doctor not give me medication?
[QUOTE="CannedWorms"]

Have really bad anxiety, not sure if it's worth the hassle booking an appointment with my a doctor as I'm not sure if they'll give a teenager medication or not.

frostybanana
One of my friends took anxiety medicine. I don't talk to her anymore so I don't know if she still takes it, but she was taking it when she was 16-17 years old, so. They made her extremely boring and not fun to be around though.

I'm pretty boring at the minute so I've got nothing to lose. I don't see how medication could make her boring though.
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#192 zoraluv
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young charter you could make a killin doing this but you stay here.....awesome.... ugh......any agree that being bipolar stinks! it does if you did'nt know.....
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#193 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]young charter you could make a killin doing this but you stay here.....awesome.... ugh......any agree that being bipolar stinks! it does if you did'nt know.....

Make a killin off of giving people advice ? or somethin else ?
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#194 iBear-
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me....i'm wondering if i should go back and suck it up and stay at my high school as a snior or get a GED...thing is we need to move out of the place badly......and if i want to stay at my school we'd have to stay or move into somewhere rushed idk i'm just stressedzoraluv

I'm not sure why you need to move out badly, but if it's really serious for some reason, i guess you gotta move. I do strongly recommend you finish highschool though.

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#195 CleanPlayer
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I'm goin on a date, so I feel good
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I'm goin on a date, so I feel goodCleanPlayer
Go head pimpin' lol So you planned what you are doing for the date ?
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#197 gago-gago
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Every thing seem to be going good for me, but there are some situations with family members that I would like to be resolved. When they're happy, I'm happy. Oh wait, even though I'm making enough I would like more work hours or even a better job.

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#198 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="CannedWorms"][QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="CannedWorms"]:DWhy do I have anxiety? Why am I not sure if it's worth the hassle? Or why might the doctor not give me medication?
[QUOTE="CannedWorms"]

Have really bad anxiety, not sure if it's worth the hassle booking an appointment with my a doctor as I'm not sure if they'll give a teenager medication or not.

frostybanana
One of my friends took anxiety medicine. I don't talk to her anymore so I don't know if she still takes it, but she was taking it when she was 16-17 years old, so. They made her extremely boring and not fun to be around though.

I'm pretty boring at the minute so I've got nothing to lose. I don't see how medication could make her boring though.

I don't know, her mood would just change every time she took the meds. She was just no fun when she on them. When she wasn't on them she was a bubbly, normal person. The meds make her not laugh at anything, or talkative and she said I annoyed her by not being serious around her.
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#199 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]me....i'm wondering if i should go back and suck it up and stay at my high school as a snior or get a GED...thing is we need to move out of the place badly......and if i want to stay at my school we'd have to stay or move into somewhere rushed idk i'm just stressediBear-

I'm not sure why you need to move out badly, but if it's really serious for some reason, i guess you gotta move. I do strongly recommend you finish highschool though.

i too, strongly recommend finishing high school
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#200 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="iBear-"]

[QUOTE="zoraluv"]me....i'm wondering if i should go back and suck it up and stay at my high school as a snior or get a GED...thing is we need to move out of the place badly......and if i want to stay at my school we'd have to stay or move into somewhere rushed idk i'm just stressedfrostybanana

I'm not sure why you need to move out badly, but if it's really serious for some reason, i guess you gotta move. I do strongly recommend you finish highschool though.

i too, strongly recommend finishing high school

You should... I been through a lot n sometimes school is the best thing to keep you in control in life