*-The Therapy room:How is your life ?(Relationship issues, family, and etc)-*

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#251 WiiRocks66
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It's kind of crappy.

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#252 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="frostybanana"][QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="jaqulle999"] Your avatar lightened up my day. I'm sure it will help everyone here. I'm fine. I stay at my dads during July away from friends and go back to my moms for august so i get pretty bored. oh well

o your bored huh ?

I think we're all bored. I just got back from playing some basketball, and all my muscles are screaming with pain. So i'm just curled up in my bed watching It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia re-runs. I'm going to sleep like a baby tonight.

lol me to
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#253 Mercenary848
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I am in those last few moments of puberty.

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#254 Young_Charter
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I am in those last few momentsof puberty.

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? huh ?
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#255 Mercenary848
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Also I got a 2 on an AP exam, I feel like taking that whole class was a waste eventhough I passed with flying colors.(it was my least favorite and I could have used that college credit).

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#256 Mercenary848
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[QUOTE="Mercenary848"]

I am in those last few momentsof puberty.

Young_Charter

? huh ?

Becoming a man

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#257 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="Mercenary848"]

I am in those last few momentsof puberty.

Mercenary848

? huh ?

Becoming a man

o lol
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#258 th3warr1or
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Pretty crappy..
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#259 Young_Charter
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Pretty crappy.. th3warr1or
why??
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#260 Truf89
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Im goin thru some bull with my girl. Im tryin to start everything over. Gave her 2 weeks to herself. Now i'm see if it helped. Plus I just watch Tupac Resurrection and seeing hes my favorite rapper i teared up and stuff.
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#261 Young_Charter
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Also I got a 2 on an AP exam, I feel like taking that whole class was a waste eventhough I passed with flying colors.(it was my least favorite and I could have used that college credit).

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Lol u passed though
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#262 Mercenary848
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[QUOTE="Mercenary848"]

Also I got a 2 on an AP exam, I feel like taking that whole class was a waste eventhough I passed with flying colors.(it was my least favorite and I could have used that college credit).

Young_Charter

Lol u passed though

I always thoght 3 out of 5 was the minimum.

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#263 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"][QUOTE="Mercenary848"]

Also I got a 2 on an AP exam, I feel like taking that whole class was a waste eventhough I passed with flying colors.(it was my least favorite and I could have used that college credit).

Mercenary848

Lol u passed though

I always thoght 3 out of 5 was the minimum.

lol but u did pass :P
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#264 Communist_Soul
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I can't join the Canadian reserve forces since I had to be 16 by july 1st (Born July 9th) anyways gives me more to get ready to join.

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#265 x-wing20
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well lets see i've been feeling down. lately i'm going to take my girl to a nice dinner and what not tomorrow night but right now its eh. I keep saying my relationship is great but i havn't spent time with my girl sense friday. we're use to seeing each other a lot probably more than we should. Then we've havnt sex in ages, i blame the pill. It's summer i should have a good time i'm looking forward to going to comic-con next weekend but it feels so far off, but i've been tight with my money. I'm college student and have no job its impossible to find a job right now, so i have to watch my money and where i live nothing is cheap. I try to hang out with friends and i've hung out with my friends more often then i have in a while i even started podcasting with a friend of mine. i'll post a link if one wants to hear it.

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There are a few things bothering me right now... First, just the other day my iPod corrupted and I lost over half of my music. Music is a huge part of my life and losing so much of it without warning has really left me shaken. And then there's my birthday that's coming up. I'm turning 16 so my parents want to get me something really good as a present. I've been wanting a new cellphone for quite a while now, so I figured I'd ask them for one. The one I really want is the HTC Evo, but I know how expensive it is and that we'd have to change our cellphone plan (which would increase the bill a lot). It turns out my parents want to get that for me, and I feel horrible about it. I want the phone, I want it really badly, but I feel really bad knowing that I'd be costing them so much. Sure, it is my birthday, but still... It's got me thinking. All I ever do is cost them money. A week or so ago when my Wii remote died, my dad bought me a new one. They gave me money just for getting good grades in school. And I haven't really given them anything. I can't help but feel like a horrible son. I've been a wreck since I lost my music, which is probably why I've been worrying so much and feeling so bad.
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#267 Young_Charter
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There are a few things bothering me right now... First, just the other day my iPod corrupted and I lost over half of my music. Music is a huge part of my life and losing so much of it without warning has really left me shaken. And then there's my birthday that's coming up. I'm turning 16 so my parents want to get me something really good as a present. I've been wanting a new cellphone for quite a while now, so I figured I'd ask them for one. The one I really want is the HTC Evo, but I know how expensive it is and that we'd have to change our cellphone plan (which would increase the bill a lot). It turns out my parents want to get that for me, and I feel horrible about it. I want the phone, I want it really badly, but I feel really bad knowing that I'd be costing them so much. Sure, it is my birthday, but still... It's got me thinking. All I ever do is cost them money. A week or so ago when my Wii remote died, my dad bought me a new one. They gave me money just for getting good grades in school. And I haven't really given them anything. I can't help but feel like a horrible son. I've been a wreck since I lost my music, which is probably why I've been worrying so much and feeling so bad.SoraX64
Yeah bro, just sit down on youtube, i tunes, Sirus radio, or local radio and fun music for your ipod.. It'll be ok... IT happened to me my PSP got stolen and I had to start from scratch.

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#268 Young_Charter
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well lets see i've been feeling down. lately i'm going to take my girl to a nice dinner and what not tomorrow night but right now its eh. I keep saying my relationship is great but i havn't spent time with my girl sense friday. we're use to seeing each other a lot probably more than we should. Then we've havnt sex in ages, i blame the pill. It's summer i should have a good time i'm looking forward to going to comic-con next weekend but it feels so far off, but i've been tight with my money. I'm college student and have no job its impossible to find a job right now, so i have to watch my money and where i live nothing is cheap. I try to hang out with friends and i've hung out with my friends more often then i have in a while i even started podcasting with a friend of mine. i'll post a link if one wants to hear it.

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Just take a step one at a time... When you cram things in your head it hurts the inside... Remember that.. Just take things slow... like 1) Time with your girl 2) How to manage and slowly spend money 3) looking for a job 4) etc.. Just take your time "breathe in and out" and handle the battle slowly homie.. It takes time.. and look for a job no matter what, a income helps.
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#269 Young_Charter
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I can't join the Canadian reserve forces since I had to be 16 by july 1st (Born July 9th) anyways gives me more to get ready to join.

Communist_Soul
Yeah just work out and get more right and do other things until further notices.
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#270 ForsakenWicked
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I've been living a mess recently. A lot of issues everywhere I go. Good thing is that now I'm studying and this keeps me motivated to keep on going.
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#271 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="SoraX64"]There are a few things bothering me right now... First, just the other day my iPod corrupted and I lost over half of my music. Music is a huge part of my life and losing so much of it without warning has really left me shaken. And then there's my birthday that's coming up. I'm turning 16 so my parents want to get me something really good as a present. I've been wanting a new cellphone for quite a while now, so I figured I'd ask them for one. The one I really want is the HTC Evo, but I know how expensive it is and that we'd have to change our cellphone plan (which would increase the bill a lot). It turns out my parents want to get that for me, and I feel horrible about it. I want the phone, I want it really badly, but I feel really bad knowing that I'd be costing them so much. Sure, it is my birthday, but still... It's got me thinking. All I ever do is cost them money. A week or so ago when my Wii remote died, my dad bought me a new one. They gave me money just for getting good grades in school. And I haven't really given them anything. I can't help but feel like a horrible son. I've been a wreck since I lost my music, which is probably why I've been worrying so much and feeling so bad.

Sucks about your IPod. I've been there, and it's not fun. About your parents though, that's nothing to fret about. They're just trying to make you happy. You know what I got for my 16th birthday? An ass kicking. You're parents think you deserve that phone, then by all means enjoy it. If you really want to pay them back, just work hard in school and become a success. That's really the best thing you can do.
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#272 LostProphetFLCL
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Right now I am tired as hell thanks to my having to work a random 5 hours last night (got called in at 10:30 PM and stayed till alomost 3 AM).

I haven't gotten a full night's sleep in a couple of days now which could very well mess me up.

I DID manage to talk to a friend I hadn't heard from in forever yesterday which was nice. That whole situation makes me a bit sad though because not only did I do a good job of putting ZERO effort into maintaining that relationship before, but I find I have feelings for her but she lives way out a couple states away and I haven't seen her in 4 years now....

Supposed to go to my friends tonight but IDK now. I woke up way late, have a bunch of errands to run, and in general I just feel out of it because of my sleep being screwed up these last two days.

My comp stopped working which has me mad.

My job just might drive me crazy.

On the plus side though I have earned plenty of money through overtime this week to pay for my trip to Cedar Point and then some!

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my death will come with others.
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#274 Jazz_Fan
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You wanna explain your story some more ?Young_Charter
Not much else to say, other than I am inept socially and really haven't met anyone I find interesting my age. I suppose it's more my fault, though....
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Suppose it's better than normal since I have my first job interview in freaking ages next Tuesday, planning on acting as professional as I possibly can since it's actually a pretty good job as far as working in a supermarket goes.
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#276 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"]You wanna explain your story some more ?Jazz_Fan
Not much else to say, other than I am inept socially and really haven't met anyone I find interesting my age. I suppose it's more my fault, though....

it happens to me.....i'm a teen and all the girls my age want to talk about is who is going to be doing whom.......thats nice and all but can we stick with just one? at least tonight? geesh

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#277 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="Jazz_Fan"][QUOTE="Young_Charter"]You wanna explain your story some more ?zoraluv

Not much else to say, other than I am inept socially and really haven't met anyone I find interesting my age. I suppose it's more my fault, though....

it happens to me.....i'm a teen and all the girls my age want to talk about is who is going to be doing whom.......thats nice and all but can we stick with just one? at least tonight? geesh

lmfao ahahaaa good one
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#278 Espada12
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[QUOTE="Young_Charter"]You wanna explain your story some more ?Jazz_Fan
Not much else to say, other than I am inept socially and really haven't met anyone I find interesting my age. I suppose it's more my fault, though....

You should just try and be more open I'm sure you will meet some people because I am the definition of a NERD although I don't look like it, I fit into every single nerd stereotype except being a science lover and I have quite a few friends and had some GFs.

1. I love anime and manga and hell I listen to j-pop/rock

2. I love PC games/building pcs and I play mmorpgs

3. I do not go to parties, I normally don't go out with my friends cause I want to raid or just stay home and watch anime.

4. I despise rap,hip-hop, dancehall and concious (most popular music down here by far.. a black guy not liking these gets a wtf look)

5. I don't talk to people unless they talk to me, and I'm generally very anti-social... yet I've still met alot of people through school/work/random encounters of them walking up to me because they say something interesting in me, which boggles my mind because there's nothign interesting about me(met my last GF like that)

So don't really hate yourself, there's always people out there! If a nerd like me can do it anyone can imo! Cause I am by far the nerdiest person I know, the only thing I don't fit the bill with is looks, since I work out a bit.

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#279 Young_Charter
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[QUOTE="Jazz_Fan"][QUOTE="Young_Charter"]You wanna explain your story some more ?Espada12

Not much else to say, other than I am inept socially and really haven't met anyone I find interesting my age. I suppose it's more my fault, though....

You should just try and be more open I'm sure you will meet some people because I am the definition of a NERD although I don't look like it, I fit into every single nerd stereotype except being a science lover and I have quite a few friends and had some GFs.

1. I love anime and manga and hell I listen to j-pop/rock

2. I love PC games/building pcs and I play mmorpgs

3. I do not go to parties, I normally don't go out with my friends cause I want to raid or just stay home and watch anime.

4. I despise rap,hip-hop, dancehall and concious (most popular music down here by far.. a black guy not liking these gets a wtf look)

5. I don't talk to people unless they talk to me, and I'm generally very anti-social... yet I've still met alot of people through school/work/random encounters of them walking up to me because they say something interesting in me, which boggles my mind because there's nothign interesting about me(met my last GF like that)

So don't really hate yourself, there's always people out there! If a nerd like me can do it anyone can imo! Cause I am by far the nerdiest person I know, the only thing I don't fit the bill with is looks, since I work out a bit.

I don't look like one either :P you seem like a cool person already :D
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#280 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="Espada12"]

[QUOTE="Jazz_Fan"] Not much else to say, other than I am inept socially and really haven't met anyone I find interesting my age. I suppose it's more my fault, though....Young_Charter

You should just try and be more open I'm sure you will meet some people because I am the definition of a NERD although I don't look like it, I fit into every single nerd stereotype except being a science lover and I have quite a few friends and had some GFs.

1. I love anime and manga and hell I listen to j-pop/rock

2. I love PC games/building pcs and I play mmorpgs

3. I do not go to parties, I normally don't go out with my friends cause I want to raid or just stay home and watch anime.

4. I despise rap,hip-hop, dancehall and concious (most popular music down here by far.. a black guy not liking these gets a wtf look)

5. I don't talk to people unless they talk to me, and I'm generally very anti-social... yet I've still met alot of people through school/work/random encounters of them walking up to me because they say something interesting in me, which boggles my mind because there's nothign interesting about me(met my last GF like that)

So don't really hate yourself, there's always people out there! If a nerd like me can do it anyone can imo! Cause I am by far the nerdiest person I know, the only thing I don't fit the bill with is looks, since I work out a bit.

I don't look like one either :P you seem like a cool person already :D

there aren't a lot of nerds with dreadlocks though
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#281 clyde46
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Alright, I'm still struggling to get my ex out of my head. Its not as bad as it used to be but she's still there.

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#282 zoraluv
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wow i'm such an oppisite...i look miss emolicious and i listen to anything if you look at my mp3 it's drake and tokio hotel with a little katy perry....yes i do get dirty look's when i play my "rap" music. except i don't think those are the type of look's they call dirty....sigh i need to move or wear a full body cloak like size 7x AARGGH sorry venting is over

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#283 frostybanana
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Alright, I'm still struggling to get my ex out of my head. Its not as bad as it used to be but she's still there.

clyde46

did you try repeatedly ramming your head into a brick wall? it works for me. but i think i forgot how to multiply.

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#284 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Alright, I'm still struggling to get my ex out of my head. Its not as bad as it used to be but she's still there.

frostybanana

did you try repeatedly ramming your head into a brick wall? it works for me. but i think i forgot how to multiply.

wow....... make's me glad i'm single.....still wish i had a boyfriend i just don't fita "class of anything so since i don't ONLY listen to ONE genre of music i'm cool.are the fact half the guy's i pick are rude...cry but frostybanana i forgot how to multiply a long time ago!!!!

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#285 clyde46
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[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Alright, I'm still struggling to get my ex out of my head. Its not as bad as it used to be but she's still there.

frostybanana

did you try repeatedly ramming your head into a brick wall? it works for me. but i think i forgot how to multiply.

alright, I :lol:
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#286 clyde46
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[QUOTE="frostybanana"]

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Alright, I'm still struggling to get my ex out of my head. Its not as bad as it used to be but she's still there.

zoraluv

did you try repeatedly ramming your head into a brick wall? it works for me. but i think i forgot how to multiply.

wow....... make's me glad i'm single.....still wish i had a boyfriend i just don't fita "class of anything so since i don't ONLY listen to ONE genre of music i'm cool.are the fact half the guy's i pick are rude...cry but frostybanana i forgot how to multiply a long time ago!!!!

Relationships are great. I loved being in one. Its the way it ended turned everything sour.
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#287 zoraluv
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sorry....you know i will never get it all the nice guy's go for bad girls and vice versa....and the gamers never approach me because they would never guess i like game's again i'm sorry:cry:

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#288 clyde46
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sorry....you know i will never get it all the nice guy's go for bad girls and vice versa....and the gamers never approach me because they would never guess i like game's again i'm sorry:cry:

zoraluv
As you make it uni college and uni. You'll find guys that arent idiots.
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#289 zoraluv
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that's why i am still considering getting my GED on campus....mature people

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#290 clyde46
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that's why i am still considering getting my GED on campus....mature people

zoraluv
Aye, but in general be more social. The more social you are, the more likely you are to come across a nice guy :D
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#291 jacob2125
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Quite a mess realy. Here goes...

My ex (whom I work with)broke up with me about a month ago and gets together with another guy about a week later (whom I also work with).For a couple weeks they go on and on posting poetry and **** onFacebook and I'm realy getting ******* tired of it.I guess she gets tired of him sometimes because sometimes she'll tell me that she misses me, or even hug me.

Well turns out shes pregnant and the children, twins, are mine. This dude tells everyone they are his and she goes along with it for the time being. So he tells a few people that they are going to be moving in together come November without even talking to her and she gets realy upset about it. So she talks to me about it and she tells me she wants to come back to me pretty much, and that she is gonna break up with this guy. Well it's been a week and still they are going back and forth on Facebook. Not that I particularly want to get back together with her for her, but for the sake of the kids.I don't want them to be raised by this guy. And she can't afford to raise them herself. She already has one child.

I don't know why she is still with this guy because they don't get along all that well. Shes a sucker for losers I guess, shes been divorced twice. We were together 5 months and everything was going fine then she just crushes my heart out of the blue and goes on with her life like nothing ever happened. I'm so sick of this...

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#292 zoraluv
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wow i'm sorry as a teenage girl i will always know never lose the good guy trying to search for a bad guy never works sorry for your situation

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#293 frostybanana
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Quite a mess realy. Here goes...

My ex (whom I work with)broke up with me about a month ago and gets together with another guy about a week later (whom I also work with).For a couple weeks they go on and on posting poetry and **** onFacebook and I'm realy getting ******* tired of it.I guess she gets tired of him sometimes because sometimes she'll tell me that she misses me, or even hug me.

Well turns out shes pregnant and the children, twins, are mine. This dude tells everyone they are his and she goes along with it for the time being. So he tells a few people that they are going to be moving in together come November without even talking to her and she gets realy upset about it. So she talks to me about it and she tells me she wants to come back to me pretty much, and that she is gonna break up with this guy. Well it's been a week and still they are going back and forth on Facebook. Not that I particularly want to get back together with her for her, but for the sake of the kids.I don't want them to be raised by this guy. And she can't afford to raise them herself. She already has one child.

I don't know why she is still with this guy because they don't get along all that well. Shes a sucker for losers I guess, shes been divorced twice. We were together 5 months and everything was going fine then she just crushes my heart out of the blue and goes on with her life like nothing ever happened. I'm so sick of this...

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Dude, WTF, that's by far the worst thing I've read all day. I don't know man, if it wasn't for the kids I'd say get out of there now. But it's totally understandable that you'd want to be a part of their lives. Here's the thing though, it might be best for everybody if you just let it be and let her be with that guy. Obviously there's a huge trust issue here because of how she's treating the situation right now. But if that guy can take care of the kids, it might be better just to let them have a normal life, y'know? If you have the option of leaving it behind you with the benefit of knowing your kids will be taken care of, then you might just have to do that. However, if they end up breaking up and you know those kids are going to need support, then I guess it's best to help support the kids. That doesn't necessarily mean you have to get back together with her. It's a complicated mess, and it might require a complicated solution. In any case, I really do wish you the best and hope you come out OK.
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#294 jacob2125
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Thanks. Just kind of confused and upset at the moment. I'll get through it though.

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#295 Young_Charter
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wow i'm sorry as a teenage girl i will always know never lose the good guy trying to search for a bad guy never works sorry for your situation

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Your a girl ?
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#296 clyde46
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Thanks. Just kind of confused and upset at the moment. I'll get through it though.

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Chin up man, I cant offer any more than kind words but things will get better for you. They say "once you've hit bottom, the only way you can go is up".
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#297 zoraluv
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]

wow i'm sorry as a teenage girl i will always know never lose the good guy trying to search for a bad guy never works sorry for your situation

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Your a girl ?

yeah...do i act like a guy.?...Cry's in corner

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#298 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="zoraluv"]

wow i'm sorry as a teenage girl i will always know never lose the good guy trying to search for a bad guy never works sorry for your situation

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Your a girl ?

are you really expecting a no as an answer to this? :P
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#299 jacob2125
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Thanks, I guess that's true. I feel better just talking about it. I give this thread 2 thumbs up ;)

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#300 frostybanana
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Thanks, I guess that's true. I feel better just talking about it. I give this thread 2 thumbs up ;)

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that's right, frosty b will make you forget your troubles