ugh..girl advice

before i get to my situation, i know everyone hates these threads, even me, but there's some funny responses haha and sometimes some maure person actually helps in some way, so here we go.

Theres this girl i can tell digs me and i like her too alot. I'm planning on asking her out on the last day of school which is friday, thats not the hard part. But, she texts me everyday since we've been friends which is like a month, and then the past few days she hasnt texted me. I know it sounds strange and paranoid and it probably is but i cant see a reason for her to not text me unless she doesnt like me anymore or found out i like her and think I'm a loser or something. Well, i gave and did something i never ever do, texted her first, idk then we had a pretty normal conversation yestarday when i texted her first nothing seemed too wrong but idk its strange, same thing happened today only she hasnt replied yet which really has me worried for some reason. So is she just testing me to see if i like her or whatever or is she just trying to tell me to lay off without saying anything at all?

Or maybe, the most liekly answer, I'm seriously crazy and she's just busy or something.

Paranoid much?, maybe something came up so she can't text youLed_poison

I know, I'm just crazy, something just doesnt feel right, like this girls so awesome and shes not even my girlfriend, I've had 4 girlfriends before but i probably didnt even like them as much as this girl.

Slap yourself. Alright now grow some balls and ask her out already before she only sees you as a friend, which by then you'll be screwed.

I honestly dont see your problem, you're in the best possible situation.

Or maybe, the most liekly answer, I'm seriously crazy and she's just busy or something.

Bauers-Twin

Makes much more sense. If someone text messages you everyday for a month, you'd have to take into consideration how much they text. Like are there other people she texts everyday that aren't girls?

Happens usually when im txting this girl its just we ran out of things to say so just break for a day or two and come up with some

more things to say.

Maybe she is busy. Maybe you are paranoid. I would just ask her to go to a movie or something with you on the last day of school. Don't forget to act all suave on the date. Girls like that ish.-Sluggo-

She invited me to alot of stuff like this fair thing and i told her we should go to the movies sometime blah blah but i want to make her my official girlfriend haha.

tough to say..her phone may not work.....could be a hundred different things....would she know you like her...(or have any reason to know)?....Omni-Slash

well yeah cause i act all flirtatious when i see a chance in our text messages, not alot but just corny little stuff here and there but it probably tipped her off.

I think I'm just paranoid though ugh i am the most free going careless person in the world its so strange for me to be making a big deal like this about something i need a shrink haha,

That isn't a good sign. From my experiance, that means she has lost interest. I would try to remedy that as quickly as possible(don't wait, just ask her out). right now I'm going through something similiar with a friend, she texted me everyday, she told me she didn't have a crush on me, I told her like a month before that I had a crush on her.

But after a month I got tired of feeling like I was the only one that felt something and told her I didn't have a crush on her anymore, now it's been a week and she hardly ever talks to me anymore(only when I text her). My advice is to ask her before she drifts further away. If you ask she might remember why she liked you and say yes.

Slap yourself. Alright now grow some balls and ask her out already before she only sees you as a friend, which by then you'll be screwed.

I honestly dont see your problem, you're in the best possible situation.

W1NGMAN-

i thoguht so too but idk haha

god im glad i was through middle school before everyone was textingg-unit248

this is my first phone and I'm not a crazy texter i just like this girl and all my texts pretty much with a few exceptions are with her

[QUOTE="Bauers-Twin"]

Or maybe, the most liekly answer, I'm seriously crazy and she's just busy or something.

IgNIght

Makes much more sense. If someone text messages you everyday for a month, you'd have to take into consideration how much they text. Like are there other people she texts everyday that aren't girls?

i asked her if she texted everyone or only a few people and she said onyl a few, like some exclusive list i must've made, i think I'm the only guy she texts but idk, i barely know this girl but know her so well at the same time.

Happens usually when im txting this girl its just we ran out of things to say so just break for a day or two and come up with some

more things to say.

MrKittyCat1234

this could be true, but its been like my little ritual everyday and now its changed and thrown me off as you can tell by my paranoia.

Whatever you do, just dont ask her why she hasnt been texting you back.

who cares? i would just ask her out anyways and if she sas o just ask "still friends?"

Whatever you do, just dont ask her why she hasnt been texting you back.

freek666

Yes for the love of God don't say that, and another thing since you were the last one to text, if you don't recieve one back you better not send another one until you do.

who cares? i would just ask her out anyways and if she sas o just ask "still friends?"

helljumper0st

still friends sounds so dumb IMO i couldnt imagine myself saying it, its basically like saying "damn, rejected again" like if this one ends i have all summer to nurse my heart and stuff I've been single since last summer when i had a short realationship that sucked, thats why I'm so anxious to get into a good one with this girl who i have deep feelings for.

BTW thanks, most everyone has been giving decent advice from their experiences

Ok heres advice from a girl!!!! :p

She might feel like shes annoying to you, clingy and you might loose interest in her because of such reasons.

YOU do some of the txting yourself to show you DO want to talk with her and enjoy it and care for her. If she those like you this will make her feel MUCH more relieved and happy.

:D

:lol:

where is mai textz!11!1 WHERE?1 :cry:

You're still in school, dude? I am sorry.

Honestly, I think you're just being paranoid. Nothing bad can happen, other than the girl saying no. Just give it a shot, bro, if she likes you, she'll say yes.

She's out of money on her cell, go talk to her in person!Erasorn

she has unlimited texting and i do talk to her in person but i dont see her some days cause we have a weird finals testing schedule this week and shes not in my grade, fridays the first time i see her since yestarday when i saw her once in the hall yestarday and she flashed me the biggest smile ever and i gave her a joking little shove and named it my love shove and she laughed and smiled at me more, i felt so good.

:lol:

where is mai textz!11!1 WHERE?1 :cry:

Jolly_Lolly

hahah. I didnt cry but i listened to death cab and it made me sad.

And the consensus seems to be just ask her, and i was leaning that way anyway, i just cant believe sh hasnt texted me, watch, tommorow or somethign I'll see her and she'll say "so i didnt talk to you yestarday, i was at my little cousins birthday party or something like that and i'll feel so relieved

[QUOTE="Erasorn"]She's out of money on her cell, go talk to her in person!Bauers-Twin

she has unlimited texting and i do talk to her in person but i dont see her some days cause we have a weird finals testing schedule this week and shes not in my grade, fridays the first time i see her since yestarday when i saw her once in the hall yestarday and she flashed me the biggest smile ever and i gave her a joking little shove and named it my love shove and she laughed and smiled at me more, i felt so good.

When in doubt, show her your post count. -Sluggo-

bets advice i ever heard

[QUOTE="Erasorn"]She's out of money on her cell, go talk to her in person!Bauers-Twin

she has unlimited texting and i do talk to her in person but i dont see her some days cause we have a weird finals testing schedule this week and shes not in my grade, fridays the first time i see her since yestarday when i saw her once in the hall yestarday and she flashed me the biggest smile ever and i gave her a joking little shove and named it my love shove and she laughed and smiled at me more, i felt so good.

Just ask her, since you've already made a strong connection with her, she'll probably say yes.

Txt her tonight and wait a few minutes. If she doesn't get back to you, follow up with "Respond please."

Anyone else remember that thread? :lol: Who knows, maybe it'll work with her. Honestly though, no matter what, don't be clingy. That's one of the worst possible things you can do. Ask her on the last day, but if she's grown really distant it's probably not an advisable move. Just feel her out and see what happens. Remember, play it cool and don't act like she's the center of your universe.

Txt her tonight and wait a few minutes. If she doesn't get back to you, follow up with "Respond please."

Anyone else remember that thread? :lol: Who knows, maybe it'll work with her. Honestly though, no matter what, don't be clingy. That's one of the worst possible things you can do. Ask her on the last day, but if she's grown really distant it's probably not an advisable move. Just feel her out and see what happens. Remember, play it cool and don't act like she's the center of your universe.

Rekunta

I'm pretty sure your just being paranoid. Don't worry I am too. :P

Anyways don't bury your thoughts. Do what you have to do. She's probably studying for exams anyway. Good luck.

...Just feel her...

Rekunta

I'd like to do the same...

Man if u did this at school ur social statues and any chances with the girl will be shot

Yeah, it's probably nothing.

Same thing happens to me all the time.

Maybe she's been busy with stuff for the end of the school year.

Why don't you chat with her in person a bit more?

before i get to my situation, i know everyone hates these threads, even me, but there's some funny responses haha and sometimes some maure person actually helps in some way, so here we go.

Theres this girl i can tell digs me and i like her too alot. I'm planning on asking her out on the last day of school which is friday, thats not the hard part. But, she texts me everyday since we've been friends which is like a month, and then the past few days she hasnt texted me. I know it sounds strange and paranoid and it probably is but i cant see a reason for her to not text me unless she doesnt like me anymore or found out i like her and think I'm a loser or something. Well, i gave and did something i never ever do, texted her first, idk then we had a pretty normal conversation yestarday when i texted her first nothing seemed too wrong but idk its strange, same thing happened today only she hasnt replied yet which really has me worried for some reason. So is she just testing me to see if i like her or whatever or is she just trying to tell me to lay off without saying anything at all?

Or maybe, the most liekly answer, I'm seriously crazy and she's just busy or something.

Bauers-Twin

Some chick will ignore you if they like you..... which is weird... but dont worry though just go with flow.... dont text first let her text

Some chick will ignore you if they like you..... which is weird... but dont worry though just go with flow.... dont text first let her text

bsman00

yeah i've been doing that but the past few days she hasnt been. But yeah maybe she does like me, i think she does, she seemed to have a busy day yestarday maybe she just didnt have time to text but she texted me this morning right when she woke up so i felt good.

Text her back a little. Ask her out friday...

Whats the worst that could happen? She pulls out a shotgun and says "Get away from me!"

[QUOTE="bsman00"]

Some chick will ignore you if they like you..... which is weird... but dont worry though just go with flow.... dont text first let her text

Bauers-Twin

yeah i've been doing that but the past few days she hasnt been. But yeah maybe she does like me, i think she does, she seemed to have a busy day yestarday maybe she just didnt have time to text but she texted me this morning right when she woke up so i felt good.

I know how that feels. Funny how something so simple can make us happy.