What are your thoughts on casual sex?

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#1 deactivated-5a79221380856
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I think sex should be a romantic pursuit and not something to be shared with friends. Sex is the greatest romantic act that you can do to show you love someone. As such, I think it should be reserved for the highest romantic relationship, marriage, but I'm not looking to debate the issue of premarital sex. You can have your personal opinion about premarital sex, but I'm not looking for it. I'm interested in what you think about casual sex. Have you or would you have casual sex?

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I'm a virgin, but I've considered in the past about having just one sex partner, but not getting married. I've also considered of having one friend of the opposite sex with some romance and no sex. However, I think that doing as such would be too hard to be loyal to the person when you don't have a physical commitment to each other. For the romantic friendship, it would be like having a cake, but not being able to eat it.

Anyway, what do you think about casual sex? Do you support it?

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#2 gdogghenrikson
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sex, I havent had that in soo long I almost forgot what that is.

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#3 MoonMarvel
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I'd be all for it, If i were getting any. I am not so you cant get any either!
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#4 DJ_Lae
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It's up to the individual, although I'm not into it myself. There's nothing like having condomless sex in a longterm, secure relationship.
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#5 bededog
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 It is quite a deadly thing if you ask me.
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#6 rawsavon
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sex, I havent had that in soo long I almost forgot what that is.

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I'd be all for it, If i were getting any. I am not so you cant get any either!MoonMarvel
These 2 posts make me laugh and make me sad at the same time :lol: :cry: :lol:
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#7 Virtual_Price
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[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]

I think sex should be a romantic pursuit and not something to be shared with friends. Sex is the greatest romantic act that you can do to show you love someone. As such, I think it should be reserved for the highest romantic relationship, marriage, but I'm not looking to debate the issue of premarital sex. You can have your personal opinion about premarital sex, but I'm not looking for it. I'm interested in what you think about casual sex. Have you or would you have casual sex?

Picture of Super Friends.

I'm a virgin, but I've considered in the past about having just one sex partner, but not getting married. I've also considered of having one friend of the opposite sex with some romance and no sex. However, I think that doing as such would be too hard to be loyal to the person when you don't have a physical commitment to each other. For the romantic friendship, it would be like having a cake, but not being able to eat it.

Anyway, what do you think about casual sex? Do you support it?

Well, me and my gf were only together for a week, and we had sex, so yeah.... I don't care. It's the couple's choice.
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#8 Silverbond
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Not a fan of it.

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#9 Paladin_King
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This is totally a personal choice. Sex, to me, isn't a fundamentally immoral act and doesn't require a long-term commitment or marriage to justify it.
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#10 super_mario_128
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Uh, have sex with whoever you want, as long as it's within the limits of the law.
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#11 Aquat1cF1sh
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Casual sex? It's fun. :P In all seriousness though, I think it's completely up to the couple. As long as they both are for it and are clear that it's just casual sex they're having then I don't see a problem with it.
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#12 Bluestorm-Kalas
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Makes me jealous of people who have it. :P

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#13 clayron
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. Sex is the greatest romantic act that you can do to show you love someone. Genetic_Code
As someone who has had sex and been in a long term relationship I can tell you that this is false. And yes, I support casual sex.
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#14 Sonick54
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Up to the individual. I personally am not a fan of it.

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#15 wstfld
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Casual is the only kind of sex I have (and is not very much) and its usually with someone I'd never consider dating. I live with a goddamn super hero looking dude that I even think is ****** sexy. Whenever we go out he gets whoever he wants and if I'm lucky, I can scoop one of the friends. I'm taking the LSATs in October, so hopefully I can find the future wife in law school because I'm not dating a girl who will just go to a stranger's (my) house and get slammed because I bought them a few Bud Lights and some fruity shots.
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#16 deactivated-5c8e4e07d5510
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*school days pic*

It is quite a deadly thing if you ask me.bededog

:lol: I love it.

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#17 foxhound_fox
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It's up to the individual, although I'm not into it myself.

There's nothing like having condomless sex in a longterm, secure relationship.DJ_Lae

Agree with every glorious truth in this post.

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#18 Paladin_King
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[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]. Sex is the greatest romantic act that you can do to show you love someone. clayron
As someone who has had sex and been in a long term relationship I can tell you that this is false. And yes, I support casual sex.

Agreed. It's not at all uncommon for the sexual element of a relationship to linger long after the love has completely died out.
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#19 Dylan_11
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It's satisfying. Just don't go all David Carradine.

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Too soon?

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#20 MrBubbles59
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haha id be all for it

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#21 Paladin_King
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It's satisfying. Just don't go all David Carradine.

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Dylan_11

Not to me. Best post I've seen all day.

Well done, sir.

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#22 Z0MBIES
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There's nothing wrong with it in my opinion. Unfortunately, most people aren't capable of having casual sex, even if they think they are, and that can cause some emotional issues I guess. Sex can be very impersonal though, just have to be careful about it.
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#23 Paladin_King
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Sex can be very impersonal though, just have to be careful about it.Z0MBIES
Or extremely intoxicated.
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#24 Shottayouth13-
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That's just it, its casual. No biggie. I don't see a problem with it.
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#25 XilePrincess
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Would never do it, I could never have sex with somebody I was not in love with and in a committed relationship with. If other people want to do it, fine by me I guess. Just be smart about it and don't get STDs.
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#26 Barbariser
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It's your body... do whatever you want with it. Just be aware that there will be consequences, though, if you choose to go for it.

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#27 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I don't care about what other people do. If they want to have sex with no emotional attachment, with only emotional attachment, with one person, with ten people, etc. I don't care at all. That's their business. Personally I'm not all that interested in sex...period. Because of that I'm not exactly interested in having sex with a large number of people. If I were to have sex, it'd have to be with someone I cared about in some fashion.
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#28 SgtKevali
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It's satisfying. Just don't go all David Carradine.

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Dylan_11

Nah, he's had his reprieve from comedy for long enough.

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#29 ariz3260
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I've gotta know the person at least to a certain degree if I was to go thru with it. Complete strangers... no

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#30 raiden509
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I dont get enough of it .

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#31 GrimPhenom
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I am on the fence about it. I guess you could say that I neither support nor oppose it, but I also believe that a couple should know each other well. But at the same time, it is a couple's choice as to what happens between them.
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#32 RobboElRobbo
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I don't see the problem with it.

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#33 narutoisapirate
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im 14.

im all for casual sex.

even though i havent had it.

*tear rolls down face*

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#34 Z0MBIES
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[QUOTE="Z0MBIES"]Sex can be very impersonal though, just have to be careful about it.Paladin_King
Or extremely intoxicated.

That certainly won't hurt your cause, but for some people it's about as personal as playing 1 on 1 basketball.

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#35 mrmusicman247
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In my experience, sex is better with someone with someone you have feelings for.
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#36 hiphops_savior
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Not me, I used to think that sex is something that isn't that big of a deal, but then, as I get older, I realize the reality of the situation, with many people regretting having sex so early in their lives rather than saving it until marriage. It takes a sense of maturity in a way to be in a loving relationship and agreeing to abstain from sex until marriage. There is a lot more to life than sex, and a relationship built on physical relationships doesn't always last.
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#38 Cube_of_MooN
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Casual sex isn't something I'd choose to do, but if someone else wants to have sex casually, I won't stop them. It is their choice.
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#39 astrozombie37
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Would never do it, I could never have sex with somebody I was not in love with and in a committed relationship with. If other people want to do it, fine by me I guess. Just be smart about it and don't get STDs.XilePrincess
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#40 conistant
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Whatever makes people happy provided they dont die from some disease later on.Personally I would never do it.
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#41 anh5617
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[QUOTE="Genetic_Code"]. Sex is the greatest romantic act that you can do to show you love someone. clayron
As someone who has had sex and been in a long term relationship I can tell you that this is false. And yes, I support casual sex.

agreed casual sex is so fun but gets old after a while

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#42 deactivated-59d151f079814
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.. Its the person decision and only their decision, who am I to judge them one way or another?
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#43 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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I support it in the sense that I think if you get to know someone, I don't see any reason to wait to get married. I denounce it in the sense that if you just have random sex with strangers at a party or someone you just met then you are hankering for some stds.
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#44 XturnalS
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No problem with it and have engaged in it and will continue to.

Both have their pros and cons but hey its sex, even when its bad, its still pretty good.

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#45 Drakebunny
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Only if it's oral.

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hell yea, all day everyday
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#47 munu9
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Sex is only as important as you and your loved one make it. Some couples reserve it for only the most romantic situations, some couples like to trade partners (the later is a lot rarer)
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#48 weezyfb
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i dont care what others do in their bedrooms and i am not completely opposed to it either.
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#49 tocool340
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From my experience, it's more satisfying when your having it with someone you care about than just having one night stands with someone you don't.....
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#50 compost-mentis
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A physical expression of emotion is fine, no matter how intimate it may be, as long as one has not previously committed their exclusivity to another.