Why do the majority of men treat women like objects?

because most women pick the wrong men.

the end.

You may as well ask why, when a woman wants something, she uses her sex appeal to get it. I don't know a single woman that doesn't do this. So that begs the question, if women don't want to be viewed sexually, why do they use their sex appeal as a tool to get what they want?br0kenrabbit

Because it works?

Let me tell you a little story TC. I have a friend who I kinda sorta like. She had a bf (now ex) who abused and still does abuse her to make her do sexual things for him...even when she's not in the mood. Its been going on a long while and still she's done nothing about it. I try and tell her to tell her friends, other ex's, mom, dad anybody but she won't. Why? Because she still "loves" him. Don't ask me why because I don't get it. She even admitted to being afraid of him. Thats why when he calls her up for a "favor" she says okay and comes over to do what he wants like a good little *****. It pisses me off that she'd rather let him do that to her than do something about it. She doesn't wanna see him in jail she says. Hell lately he promised he'd stop hitting...and yup you guessed it he still does and she STILL loves him. So why do women get treated like objects? Because in some cases (probably alot) they LET it happen instead of doing something about it. There is always a solution to being a doormat. I've only seen or known a few girls in my life that say "If a guy ever puts his hands on me...he better kill me because I will not let him get away with it. I will take him down". It makes me smile everytime I hear them say that. A strong woman/girl standing up for themselves instead of letting the jerks push them around. More girls should be like this and I believe we'd have less guys abusing them.KrunkMastaX

ouch my eyes! nice story btw! strong willed women ftw!

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

freek666

thats such b/s, the majority of men i find treat women with respect those that dont are definatly in the minority and not worth the time spent whining about them. I get hit on a lot at my work but you have to take it with a grain of salt because the time i work means that most of the guys are drunk when they behave in this manner, when sober they are actually quite nice. Besides women are often just as guilty of using men for sex.

[QUOTE="freek666"]

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

X360PS3AMD05

And what do you have to support this bold statement?

[QUOTE="freek666"]

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

X360PS3AMD05

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="freek666"]

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

freek666

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="freek666"]

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

muthsera666

And what do you have to support this bold statement?

[QUOTE="freek666"][QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="freek666"]

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

X360PS3AMD05

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="freek666"]

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

muthsera666

And what do you have to support this bold statement?

Oh give me a break, i dont love sunsets walks on the beach or fluffy toys, im still a woman, your just the type that likes to judge those not like you, well im sorry we dont all live up to your expectations, im afraid there just isnt one type of person in the world.

WTF, you're a woman and i was talking about guys........................and thanks for judging me. X360PS3AMD05

[QUOTE="muthsera666"][QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="freek666"]

Why do the majority of women think the majority of men are selfish, abusive pigs?

X360PS3AMD05

And what do you have to support this bold statement?

And what do you have support such claims? Do you know majority of the men on the planet?

Besides, why are you directly targeting me?

While you are generalising far too much I would say there is some truth in what you say, women are primarily represented as object, object of sexual desire (porn, strippers etc), objects of beauty (models, women in advertisements), objects of the household (name me one home cleaning based commercial that doesn't star a women) and there are others I can't be bothered thinking of. There are also the majority of girls who dress only to please and attract, while not entirely their fault (peer pressure) this is also a contributing factor. Now a man, after being bombarded with all these images sometimes cannot help thinking on a subconscious level that women are only there to please, because quite frankly that is majorly how they are represented. It also affect the women's psyche as well, they are always trying to live up to these beautiful women and so present themselves as objects to gain acceptance, popularity, confidence and whatever else.

Now obviously this also occurs to some extent with the males as well, but not nearly to the extent it occurs to females.

Why do the majority of women only go for said guys who treat them like objects?AirGuitarist87

Because you appear to be a "nice guy", just letting you know you are the minority. Maybe you are surrounded by them where you live so you think i'm wrong, but living in Los Angeles i can say that you are a minority. X360PS3AMD05

If it is true that the majority of the men to whom you have been exposed have been bad individuals, that does not mean that the majority of the men around the world are so. It might indicate that, but it does not prove that statement to be true.

That's all I'm saying.

I do try to be a nice guy, though.

[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"]Why do the majority of women only go for said guys who treat them like objects?green_obsidian

And more likely to treat them like crap.

It disgusts me how the majority men only care for sexual intercourse. Getting the 'hottest' girl and having sex with her. Then dumping her. And they treat women with disrespect and verbally abuse them. They believe love is a game, It's sick and disgusting. I walk through each day witnessing this. I cannot bare it any longer. How can people be so heartless?

Discuss.

Hinata237

we'll first off you must give up this false illusion that all men are this way, this isn't a fact just because you've met a few doesn't mean all men are that way, most men the majority are caring and loving and dont wanna just get the hottest girl and bang her and dump her.

2nd i can ask the same why are girls like this? why do most girls i know only want Jerks? Why is it that in my experience with quite a few women have the majority cheated?
What goes around comes around there are nice men out there.

[QUOTE="green_obsidian"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"]Why do the majority of women only go for said guys who treat them like objects?KrunkMastaX

And more likely to treat them like crap.

It's funny how women often flock to the jerk types, then complain after about how badly they were treated :roll:

As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
_Marisa_

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[QUOTE="green_obsidian"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"]Why do the majority of women only go for said guys who treat them like objects?BohemianAndy

And more likely to treat them like crap.

It's funny how women often flock to the jerk types, then complain after about how badly they were treated :roll:

hey now whos generalising? I date who ever i feel like at the time, most girls dont know theyre dating a jerk at the time and go for the guy who best suits their image. personally i've never cared enough about a guy to care how he treats me, im too young to get emotionally involved and im twenty-two

go for the guy who best suits their image. green_obsidian

[QUOTE="green_obsidian"] go for the guy who best suits their image. X360PS3AMD05

As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true._Marisa_

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
_Marisa_

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
br0kenrabbit

[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
_Marisa_

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.muthsera666

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
br0kenrabbit

[QUOTE="muthsera666"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true._Marisa_

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
_Marisa_

You're not the only happily single person :P

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="muthsera666"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.X360PS3AMD05

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="muthsera666"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true._Marisa_

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
BohemianAndy

You're not the only happily single person :P

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="muthsera666"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.X360PS3AMD05

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.

It's precisely the reason I am asexual.
_Marisa_

haha

It disgusts me how the majority men only care for sexual intercourse. Getting the 'hottest' girl and having sex with her. Then dumping her. And they treat women with disrespect and verbally abuse them. They believe love is a game, It's sick and disgusting. I walk through each day witnessing this. I cannot bare it any longer. How can people be so heartless?

Discuss.

Hinata237

A little bitter are we? lol

I find people generally tell you who they are, but you have to really really listen.

I think girls something mistake being a jerk for being confident/assertive. I'm a nice guy, but I'm still VERY confident and assertive. As girls get older though they start recognizing this and I get a lot more attention than I ever got (good presentation is always a good thing too. nice shirt, good jeans, etc, etc. lol).

I've never had sex with a girl just for sex. I mean, sex is VERY enjoyable and a lot of fun, but its also very emotional, and can unfortunately become a weapon for some people, to get what they want, or to later ruin someone's reputation (girls crying rape after they had mutual sex with someone. Seen that a lot).

My question to you though. Why are women so crazy and catty? lol

[QUOTE="muthsera666"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true._Marisa_

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

Still, you are generalizing. Not all people have decaying morals or ethics.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="muthsera666"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true.muthsera666

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

Still, you are generalizing. Not all people have decaying morals or ethics.

[QUOTE="muthsera666"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="muthsera666"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]As time goes on, the morality of both men and women decay. Sad, but true._Marisa_

Maybe true for some, but not all. Again, a generalization.

Still, you are generalizing. Not all people have decaying morals or ethics.

No, but you expressed it as a specific truth, which would then trickle down to all. Even yet, you wrote most, and there is little chance that you have met a >50% of the world's population. Therefore, your expression that most adhere to any certain behavior is highly dubious.

"A great number" or "a significant portion" would express the same sentiment, but it would not detract from the validity of your statement.