I don't get what the big deal is. I have gay male friends and straight female friends, and I don't act or treat them differently than I do anyone else. The idea that your gay friends are gonna get the hots for you is just kinda... immature.
[QUOTE="Gambler_3"]No male and female "friends" dont sleep on the same bed.
The difference is obvious male gays are attracted to males and straights are not.
Gambler_3
I've slept in the same bed with females quite a few times. So obviously you're wrong.
And what difference does it make if they sleep with people of the same sex? It's not like you're going to be sleeping with them and I doubt all you ever talk about is sex. So it shouldn't make any difference what so ever.Â
It doesnt happen in my society and I dont find the idea of male and female friends sleeping on the same bed to be good. You are entitled to your opinion.
The idea that a male friend of yours could potentially get aroused by something you do is not very pleasant you know. But gays cannot understand this problem obviously.
What do you mean by "But gays cannot understand this problem obviously."? You unintentionally causing a gay man to be aroused is like a gay man causing a heterosexual female to become aroused. And why is that such a big deal? It happens. I've been attracted to gay women before. Kind of sucked when I found out. But whatever, i got over it. If a gay man ever asked me out I'd politely explain that I'm not interested. it'd be no different than turning down a female I'm not interested in. I don't see the problem here.Â
[QUOTE="Pffrbt"] You're not going to find this happening often.
So are you saying you regularly sleep with your straight guy friends?
Gambler_3
Ofcourse it wont always happen but it can happen.
Nope but I do when we go on vacations or when we do a night stay at a friends place.
Yeah we would often even sleep in the same bed... If there's no reason to believe any of them are attracted to me then there's no harm... However things are different now from when I was growing up no one was openly gay... however there was one incident with this guy touching my junk... I was about 16 and he stayed the night over my cousins house with us because we all went late night skating... He wasn't usually a part of our group... If I'd have known he was gay I wouldn't have slept in the same room or I would have covered myself... I was on the couch and he had a sleeping bag on the floor... It was summer so I slept without a cover...I was awoken by the feel of something touching me... when I opened my eyes he hurried and tried to pretend he was asleep... I beat the crap out of him and became homophobic until my adult years... I think back now... if everyone was accepting of gay folks he'd have had a boyfriend and wouldn't need to do what he did... He did go on to come out eventually but only after taking 2 more beatings for the samething...
[QUOTE="Pffrbt"] You're not going to find this happening often.
So are you saying you regularly sleep with your straight guy friends?
jeremiah06
Ofcourse it wont always happen but it can happen.
Nope but I do when we go on vacations or when we do a night stay at a friends place.
Yeah we would often even sleep in the same bed... If there's no reason to believe any of them are attracted to me then there's no harm... However things are different now from when I was growing up no one was openly gay... however there was one incident with this guy touching my junk... I was about 16 and he stayed the night over my cousins house with us because we all went late night skating... He wasn't usually a part of our group... If I'd have known he was gay I wouldn't have slept in the same room or I would have covered myself... I was on the couch and he had a sleeping bag on the floor... It was summer so I slept without a cover...I was awoken by the feel of something touching me... when I opened my eyes he hurried and tried to pretend he was asleep... I beat the crap out of him and became homophobic until my adult years... I think back now... if everyone was accepting of gay folks he'd have had a boyfriend and wouldn't need to do what he did... He did go on to come out eventually but only after taking 2 more beatings for the samething...
hey i still do that but i ask my friends first if its okay if i put my head on their shoulder or w/e. i sorta know which ones do and dont let me now but i ask all the same. and yes im out, theres something magical that only girls or gays understand about burying the side of your head in a guys shoulder and maybe holding his arm or his hand :oops::D
Nearly all homophobes are closet cases themselves. They've literally done studies where they hooked sensors up to homophobes' genitals and showed them gay porn and straight porn. Homophobes invariably get way more aroused by the gay porn.Â
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