Would you date a girl even if she wanted to stay abstinent forever?

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#51 Mr_Leonis
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Or we could just be friends.siLVURcross
This. Same thing will apply.
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#52 Rob0_Jesus
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[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]

[QUOTE="Jaysonguy"]

Not at all, what's the use?

There is not one single reason to have a relationship then

Jaysonguy

Wow are you serious? Thats a pretty shallow thing to say. Relationships arent made just to get it on.

I'm completely serious

If I want to talk to someone I'll have a friend

There's no reason to have a relationship with someone if they're not physical

I don't waste my time with "oh but we're so good at talking"

No, take your things and leave my sight immediately

Jason, homie, its not all about sex. Theres personality and other stuff. If the pair of vans fit. Why do you find it necessary to go for the Air Jordans?

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#53 Jaysonguy
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[QUOTE="Jaysonguy"]

[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]

Wow are you serious? Thats a pretty shallow thing to say. Relationships arent made just to get it on.

Rob0_Jesus

I'm completely serious

If I want to talk to someone I'll have a friend

There's no reason to have a relationship with someone if they're not physical

I don't waste my time with "oh but we're so good at talking"

No, take your things and leave my sight immediately

Jason, homie, its not all about sex. Theres personality and other stuff. If the pair of vans fit. Why do you find it necessary to go for the Air Jordans?

Yes and that's terrific to have as well but the second that someone says "Oh yeah you're super great but we're not doing everything" you remove them quickly

There is no point for the opposite sex without some sort of relations, that's the whole point of male and female

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#54 Mythomniac
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Or we could just be friends.siLVURcross
That would be the only option I could think of.
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#55 CreasianDevaili
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Isnt a woman, or the opposite sex, just the that gender if you want sex? If she never wanted sex, then there is no need to date nor a relationship. She is just a person, which can be a friend. However any and all forms of intimacy revolves around sex {the ideals, not just the act}. I mean if she sparks my mental interest, isnt that engagement just like with anyone else you love to debate/converse with regardless of gender? There is no true love without the sexual part of it. There is friendship yes, but not love. Love without sex is no different in the level that you would give to a parent, sibling, or best friend perhaps. Thus, since you dont feel the need to date your mother or sister, there is no need to date the "friend" either, which is ALL this person is. You love them all, enough to always protect them and love the company, but that isnt the "true love" your trying to attach to this. It dosent exist.
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#56 ice_radon
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Like even after married? If so, no. I kind of want to have kids more than just the sex part...
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#57 legend26
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Sorry No

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#58 Never3ndingLife
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no i would not
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#59 stupid4
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No way in hell.

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#60 Toriko42
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Hell no, sex is important to a relationship. Ain't no chemistry between us without a dash of sex.
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#61 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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[QUOTE="uhoh_hotdogs"]

[QUOTE="markop2003"]I'ld do it but only if she had a good reason, though personally i can't think of a satisfactory reason that could justify being abstinent forever.supa_badman

I'm ignorant when it comes to religion so I'm not sure about this, but what if she were a nun?

A nun wouldn't be in a relationship, because she's already 'married' to God :lol:

Oh. Sounds hot.

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#62 Furi-Kun
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LOL at the poll results.

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#63 Delphanius
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I am getting quite sick from these "would you date" threads...buy I think I would mind...

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#64 dracula_16
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No way. She would have to be a member of a cult to make such an outrageous vow. I distance myself as much as possible from cult members.

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#65 xionvalkyrie
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No way. She would have to be a member of a cult to make such an outrageous vow. I distance myself as much as possible from cult members.

dracula_16
^ This. But yeah, if it's not physical, then the relationship is no different from a friendship.
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#66 Phoenix534
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I'd go out with her, but I'd leave her sometime. I want kids someday.

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#67 CJL182
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I wouldn't mind unless she still wanted to remain abstinent after marriage lol.

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#68 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="dracula_16"]

No way. She would have to be a member of a cult to make such an outrageous vow. I distance myself as much as possible from cult members.

xionvalkyrie

^ This. But yeah, if it's not physical, then the relationship is no different from a friendship.

Well, I dont suppose abstinence includes kissing for instance. It must have to do with sex only. Unless of course physical refers just to sex. :P

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#69 Rob0_Jesus
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[QUOTE="xionvalkyrie"][QUOTE="dracula_16"]

No way. She would have to be a member of a cult to make such an outrageous vow. I distance myself as much as possible from cult members.

Teenaged

^ This. But yeah, if it's not physical, then the relationship is no different from a friendship.

Well, I dont suppose abstinence includes kissing for instance. It must have to do with sex only. Unless of course physical refers just to sex. :P

Abstinence means no, intercourse, ear sex, nose sex, armpit sex, anal sex,oral sex, and phone sex. You can still kiss and hug. :oops:

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#70 Lord_Daemon
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Would I date a girl that was opposed to sexual intercourse? My goodness no I wouldn't as that would indicate some seriously damaged problems going on that I would not readily welcome into my life. Now if a loved partner of mine were to suffer some attack or accident that would render them hesitant or reluctant in some way then I would try my best to help them work through it, but that would be the only scenario in which I could see myself putting up with that kind of childish nonsense.

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#71 Nifty_Shark
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there many people in this world that have the potential of being the "one" and I'm sure not everyone wants to be abstinent.

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#72 10thwonder
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Absolutely not, I need snu snu.

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#73 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="xionvalkyrie"] ^ This. But yeah, if it's not physical, then the relationship is no different from a friendship.Rob0_Jesus

Well, I dont suppose abstinence includes kissing for instance. It must have to do with sex only. Unless of course physical refers just to sex. :P

Abstinence means no, intercourse, ear sex, nose sex, armpit sex, anal sex,oral sex, and phone sex. You can still kiss and hug. :oops:

Ah its not that bad. :oops: :P

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#74 MOSSBERG_E-Rock
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Well i guess saying HELL NO is disruptive so here is my answer again. NO. silly mods.

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#75 Solid_Snake325
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Yes.
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#76 phillo99
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Yes'm.

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#77 tocool340
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No. If I were to have kids with her, I'd whether have it through sex rather than a test tube....
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#78 Duckman5
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Forever no. Until marriage maybe.
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#79 CyberAltair5
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I'ld do it but only if she had a good reason, though personally i can't think of a satisfactory reason that could justify being abstinent forever.markop2003
Shemale? To be honest shemales are kinda hot, the hot ones ie.
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#80 supa_badman
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armpit sexRob0_Jesus
LMAO what? Damn, you learn something new everyday :lol:

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#81 rawsavon
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NO
What's the point

I mean you are just basically best friends then.
So why not be just friends...just really good friends

Sex is not the only part of a relationship, but it is an important part of a healthy relationship (with a partner, not a normal friendship).
Sexual problems/frustrations will bleed out onto all aspects of the relationship.
Basically, the rest of your relationship will not be as good because of the sexual dysfunction in your relationship.

Why do that to yourself or your partner?

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#82 Alter_Echo
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Absolutely NO.

Unless of course she was cool with me getting it elsewhere. In which case....maybe

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#83 CyberAltair5
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Ever heard of masturbation?

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#84 ufcfan17
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My answer is yes only if she was the one.

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#85 deactivated-6224e9178325f
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Well even after marriage?

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#86 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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That'd be perfect because I have no interest in sex.
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#87 SamusFreak
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NO
What's the point

I mean you are just basically best fieinds then.
So why not just be friends...just really good friends

Sex is not the only part of a relationship, but it is an important part of an healthy relationship (partner, not friendship).
Sexual problems/frustration bleed out onto all aspects of a relationship.
Basically the rest of your relationship will not be as good because of the sexual dysfunction in your relationship.

Why do that to yourself or your partner?

rawsavon

this

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#88 CUDCUD
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I would because after seeing my body she'd change her mind anyway.

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#89 Fandangle
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While not the most important thing in the world certainly a deal breaker

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#90 MOSSBERG_E-Rock
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That'd be perfect because I have no interest in sex.t3hrubikscube
ehhhh >_>
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#91 -Sun_Tzu-
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No I wouldn't.
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#92 Dark_Overlord_7
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No I dont think I stay in a sexless relationship, I have never been with a girl like that, and probaly never will.

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#93 Los9090
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I don't know man, if a girl truely wants to abstain, then she'll become a nun. I've been with girls who want to wait until marriage and it never happens. I feel a person can only repress their sexual tensions only so much.

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#94 Serraph105
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um do you mean until marriage? if you do than yeah I'm cool with it. If not then that is just strange and more of a friendship than anything.

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#95 Theokhoth
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I don't know man, if a girl truely wants to abstain, then she'll become a nun. I've been with girls who want to wait until marriage and it never happens. I feel a person can only repress their sexual tensions only so much.

Los9090

In my experience, people who repress their sexual tensions either become clergy or raunchy comedians.

I am the latter.

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Sure, I would just corrupt that view as time went on. :twisted:
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#97 flowdee79
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haven't done it yet, so no. If I was old and done it multiple times I would be cool with it.
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#98 Los9090
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Sure, I would just corrupt that view as time went on. :twisted:Stevo_the_gamer

Oh I know, and isn't it great when you do? Until you realize, hmm I would prefer someone with some experience

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#99 Rob0_Jesus
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I cant believe lust is beating true love. :(

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#100 Ringx55
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If its the love of my life. Of course I wouldn't care.