I have before. People in this thread seem to be making the assumption that just because you date someone who has a kid then you have to act as a father figure to the kid.
I have before. People in this thread seem to be making the assumption that just because you date someone who has a kid then you have to act as a father figure to the kid.
I have before. People in this thread seem to be making the assumption that just because you date someone who has a kid then you have to act as a father figure to the kid.
surrealnumber5
i wonder what the age of each poster ITT is If we did actually 'date', then I am sure I would have to see 'it' at some point. ...then I would have to explain why/deal with the awkward few moments after I punted it upon its approach (totally involuntary, justified reaction on my part)
I have before. People in this thread seem to be making the assumption that just because you date someone who has a kid then you have to act as a father figure to the kid.
rawsavon
i wonder what the age of each poster ITT is If we did actually 'date', then I am sure I would have to see 'it' at some point. ...then I would have to explain why/deal with the awkward few moments after I punted it upon its approach (totally involuntary, justified reaction on my part) "what your house was infested with something, why are you mad? you should be thanking me..."
At this point in my life, probably not. Not that I have anything against the mother and the kid (I would eventually like to start a family of my own), but right now I am not sure I would handle the situation very well.
unless she is really great i wont. If she wont stay with the father of her own kid what chance do i have? It also tells me she is not a mature stable person if she has a kid young.
unless she is really great i wont. If she wont stay with the father of her own kid what chance do i have? It also tells me she is not a mature stable person if she has a kid young.
dontshackzmii
Because clearly if she's a single parent it's because she won't stay with the father.
[QUOTE="rawsavon"]date (as in 'serious' relationship)?...nope, I hate kids. 'mess around with'?...sure, why not. they obviously like to 'have fun' Didn't I read you where a teacher? How can you hate kids and be a teacher?
when i was in college and highschool i didnt care (met a girl when she was preggers when we were 16 and dated her when i was 19 or 20). it was really a huge deal. but im 22 now and out of college and have a real job. more importantly i have the money to go do things and not enough free time to waste it around kids.
[QUOTE="rawsavon"]date (as in 'serious' relationship)?...nope, I hate kids. 'mess around with'?...sure, why not. they obviously like to 'have fun'Fightingfan
Didn't I read you where a teacher? How can you hate kids and be a teacher?
[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]date (as in 'serious' relationship)?...nope, I hate kids. 'mess around with'?...sure, why not. they obviously like to 'have fun'coolbeans90
Didn't I read you where a teacher? How can you hate kids and be a teacher?
No. I used to think I would, but I just couldn't do it now that I've experienced an actual relationship and have learned what I expect from a relationship.
I most likely wouldn't and I also judge those women who have a baby when they're teenagers and not married. They're ridiculously selfish and put their urge to procreate above the emotional and financial well being of their child.
What I hate more is single, young women who CHOOSE to have a baby and then talk about how hard it is to be a single mother as if were supposed to feel sorry for them.
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