OK here's what happened. There's this girl at work, and I had the feeling that she actually liked me. So i started to develope some feelings for her. So last week, I asked her out, she simply nodded, and said she'd tell me the details on msn. SHe never showed up on msn, so I decided to mail her. She never replied. Today, at work, she got her friend (who used to work at the store) to complain about me to my supervisor, because she said she felt uncomfortable working with me, since I told her I liked her. I was so embarrased...just when I thought things couldn't get worse, this happens.
EDIT: Wow..I talked to her again today..she told me that she never said she was not afraid to come to work because of me, her friend (Let's call her X) just exeggearted to make me look really bad to my supervisor. I could see why she'd do that. This other girl tried to hook me up with X, and I said, "sorry, I'm so not her type. I listen to wiered rock music, and I'm such a nerd. I don't see how we could ever go together." I guess she took that as a rejection (wtf, how much nicer did I have to be), and tried to get revenge.
What a meanie. You should tell her that was very mean of her and hurt your feelings. .................................... And then rip out her jugular with your teeth.
It really annoys me with people like that, they can't deal with a problem themselves, they have to get others to do the work for them. If she actually felt uncomfortable she should have just outright told you. I hope your job isn't threatened by this, because if so that would suck major balls.
I just finished playing some KotOR II TSL and discovered quite the hilarious quote that I think best describes these kinds of situations...
This is spoken by HK47, an assassin droid:
"Love is making a shot to the knees of a target 120 kilometers away using an Aratech sniper rifle with a tri-light scope. This definition, I am told, is subject to interpretation. Obviously, love is a matter of odds. Not many meatbags could make such a shot, and strangely enough not many meatbags would derive love from it. Yet for me, love is knowing your target, putting them in your target reticule, and together, achieveing a singular purpose... against statistically long odds."
When you ponder it, it actually makes some sense... :P
I just finished playing some KotOR II TSL and discovered quite the hilarious quote that I think best describes these kinds of situations...
This is spoken by HK47, an assassin droid:
"Love is making a shot to the knees of a target 120 kilometers away using an Aratech sniper rifle with a tri-light scope. This definition, I am told, is subject to interpretation. Obviously, love is a matter of odds. Not many meatbags could make such a shot, and strangely enough not many meatbags would derive love from it. Yet for me, love is knowing your target, putting them in your target reticule, and together, achieveing a singular purpose... against statistically long odds."
When you ponder it, it actually makes some sense... :P foxhound_fox
[QUOTE="andyxm"][QUOTE="wrlyy"][QUOTE="andyxm"][QUOTE="wrlyy"][QUOTE="mark4091"]Shes playing hard to get. keep tryingmark4091
Yes. Go to her house tonight. and knock on her window With your tongue. make sure you're naked and shave those eyebrows Also make sure you wear your Mod badge to show her how ownage you are
There's a reason people say workplace relationships never work out. Or rather, its best not to get involved with them (I mean, even if it starts up smoothly, if you break up or get in a fight with each other, work is going to be mighty awkward after that).
But that girl sounds like she's paranoid/has a phobia of men. Aside from the fact that she agreed to a date, it says a lot about her that she didnt complain to the manager herself. She didnt even ask an employee to do it. No, she calls up one of her friends and inconviences that girl, who's totally uninvolved with the situation, to do the work for her. Hopefully your employer will understand what's going on, if he hasnt already (I mean, if she couldnt be bothered to tell your boss herself, then it must not have been that big of a problem).
[QUOTE="andyxm"][QUOTE="wrlyy"][QUOTE="andyxm"][QUOTE="wrlyy"][QUOTE="mark4091"]Shes playing hard to get. keep tryingmark4091
Yes. Go to her house tonight. and knock on her window With your tongue. make sure you're naked and shave those eyebrows You know what I look like? wow..GS stalker
Ha, maybe she wants your job, so sent you mixed signals to pull you into her trap. I've seen it before, not joking. And if you both have the same job, then she is just cruel and you should report HER for false accusation. Before anything though, i would approach her at work and tell her you did not mean to make her uncomfortable and that her actions have actually hurt your feelings. If she still get's all stiff, report her to your supervisor.
There's a reason people say workplace relationships never work out. Or rather, its best not to get involved with them (I mean, even if it starts up smoothly, if you break up or get in a fight with each other, work is going to be mighty awkward after that).
But that girl sounds like she's paranoid/has a phobia of men. Aside from the fact that she agreed to a date, it says a lot about her that she didnt complain to the manager herself. She didnt even ask an employee to do it. No, she calls up one of her friends and inconviences that girl, who's totally uninvolved with the situation, to do the work for her. Hopefully your employer will understand what's going on, if he hasnt already (I mean, if she couldnt be bothered to tell your boss herself, then it must not have been that big of a problem). gameguy6700
She's scared of confrontation.....not wanting to talk to you in person.....getting someone else to talk to the manager....I guess that little tidbit doesn't really help you out in any way but I feel smart pretending to be a psychologist:D
How was I being a stalker? And btw, I think I look decent. Maybe I'm just too nice, and girls like making nice guys feel like crap. That's what my friend said, and shee seemed to know what shes talking about. I'm not actually hurt at all, just overly embarrased.
Ha, maybe she wants your job, so sent you mixed signals to pull you into her trap. I've seen it before, not joking. And if you both have the same job, then she is just cruel and you should report HER for false accusation. Before anything though, i would approach her at work and tell her you did not mean to make her uncomfortable and that her actions have actually hurt your feelings. If she still get's all stiff, report her to your supervisor.
Best advise i can give you.
Tolwan
I'm just gonna ignore her completely. She got sad when I said I was quitting since she feels lonely without me. Now she could be as lonely as she wants. POS ***** And she did take some of my hours, so you might be right.
Ha, maybe she wants your job, so sent you mixed signals to pull you into her trap. I've seen it before, not joking. And if you both have the same job, then she is just cruel and you should report HER for false accusation. Before anything though, i would approach her at work and tell her you did not mean to make her uncomfortable and that her actions have actually hurt your feelings. If she still get's all stiff, report her to your supervisor.
Best advise i can give you.
cheetah_TM
I'm just gonna ignore her completely. She got sad when I said I was quitting since she feels lonely without me. Now she could be as lonely as she wants. POS ***** And she did take some of my hours, so you might be right.
Are you quitting over what happened between you and her, or something else? if its over this little debacle I'd say that's a overreacting a little bit, unless all your coworkers are giving you the stare and refer to you as "Perv".
And wait, did she say that she'd miss you before or after she reported you for sexual harrassment? Because if she said that after she's either trying to rub it in or she's got some serious issues.
OK here's what happened. There's this girl at work, and I had the feeling that she actually liked me. So i started to develope some feelings for her. So last week, I asked her out, she simply nodded, and said she'd tell me the details on msn. SHe never showed up on msn, so I decided to mail her. She never replied. Today, at work, she got her friend (who used to work at the store) to complain about me to my supervisor, because she said she felt uncomfortable working with me, since I told her I liked her. I was so embarrased...just when I thought things couldn't get worse, this happens.cheetah_TM
some girls are crazy dude, maybe this one wasn't meant for you.
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