You know, it really ****s being a loser

[QUOTE="AussieePet"]Make some friends and find a girlfriend on E harmony and there life is great. codymcclain14

[QUOTE="codymcclain14"][QUOTE="AussieePet"]Make some friends and find a girlfriend on E harmony and there life is great. AussieePet

Just keep your head up buddy. I'm 20 and I've never been in a relationship. And while it stinks, I just stay positive and tell myself how one day I'll meet that special someone. You're just going through a tough phase right now, what I do to keep myself entertained is playing video games. PM me if you wanna talk more about your situation.

then do something about it. if you aren't proactive about it, then nothing will change. go to the gym, join a club, make friends, and it will get better.

Channel your frustration, angst and misery into the wonderful world of art.

Make some friends and find a girlfriend on E harmony and there life is great. AussieePet

Just keep your head up buddy. I'm 20 and I've never been in a relationship. And while it stinks, I just stay positive and tell myself how one day I'll meet that special someone. You're just going through a tough phase right now, what I do to keep myself entertained is playing video games. PM me if you wanna talk more about your situation.

flowersjf

Cheer up.

Do you ever feel like a plastic bag
Drifting through the wind
Wanting to start again

Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin
Like a house of cards
One blow from caving in

Do you ever feel already buried deep
Six feet under scream
But no one seems to hear a thing

Do you know that there's still a chance for you
Cause there's a spark in you

You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
Like the Fourth of July

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what your worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gunna leave 'em fallin' down-own-own

You don't have to feel like a waste of space
You're original, cannot be replaced
If you only knew what the future holds
After a hurricane comes a rainbow

Maybe you're reason why all the doors are closed
So you can open one that leads you to the perfect road

Like a lightning bolt, your heart will blow
And when it's time, you'll know

You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
http://www.elyricsworld.com/firework_lyrics_katy_perry.html
Like the Fourth of July

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what your worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gunna leave 'em fallin' down-own-own

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
It's always been inside of you, you, you
And now it's time to let it through

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what your worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gunna leave 'em goin "Oh, oh, oh!"

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon

I hate my life just as much, but you won't see me posting about it on OT. If you haven't noticed they aren't gonna help you.

[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]Nope. Apart from not having a girlfriend my life is quite good. How can you not have any friends though?dkdk999

I'd figure if you're at that age you'd have at least have 1 friend. I mean, what the hell were you doing all your life??

Having no girlfriend is one thing, but having no friends is an indication that you have f*cked up royally.

At Least you've got a job.:(

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

Mister_Mackey

Yes, I play video games, drink alcohol every so often. I definately can say I have it worst than you, but I found a way to relax so its k. But I have the future to look forward to. Honestly, who cares about girls, get rid of that mentality, they 90 percent of the time are trouble.

If thats how you see yourself. You already lost half the battle

[QUOTE="Mister_Mackey"]

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

mahlasor

Yes, I play video games, drink alcohol every so often. I definately can say I have it worst than you, but I found a way to relax so its k. But I have the future to look forward to. Honestly, who cares about girls, get rid of that mentality, they 90 percent of the time are trouble.

I am sorry, I lied, just about nintenty nine percent of the time. Though I think it depends on how well trained they are. Seriously, if you let them, they will wear you out unless you pause them right in their tracks. Honestly you are not really benefiting from a girlfriend, she is. Women like to leech lets just say.

edit: I am not talking about just merely being around women, I am talking about relationships.. But yeah some women, omg. Oh and is your first name Brian (TC)? LOL!

edit 2: TC do this and you will succeed... Start pumping iron.

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

Mister_Mackey

I'm pretty sure that you look fine. You can talk to anyone in the OT to connet. Sure they might be on a rage at times :P, but theyre alright people.

[QUOTE="dkdk999"][QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]Nope. Apart from not having a girlfriend my life is quite good. How can you not have any friends though?Shottayouth13-

I'd figure if you're at that age you'd have at least have 1 friend. I mean, what the hell were you doing all your life??

Having no girlfriend is one thing, but having no friends is an indication that you have f*cked up royally.

Ouch, I had no friends in highschool... I lost friends rapidly as I hit puberty.

In highschool I joined a sports team though and that helps people tolerate you if they can put you in a bubble... They tolerated me for a couple of years but then I was pretty much shunned from my team cuz I was weird and not very good.

I love how your so judgemental of the TC, maybe he just is not a very great at socializing. I have the same problem and as a matter of fact I have no friends either now.

I'm pretty sure that you look fine. You can talk to anyone in the OT to connet. Sure they might be on a rage at times :P, but theyre alright people.

gaming25

I disagree, people on this board are judgemental and bullyish at times... They follow the hateful trends of offcolor jokes and spam memes.

[QUOTE="gaming25"]

I'm pretty sure that you look fine. You can talk to anyone in the OT to connet. Sure they might be on a rage at times :P, but theyre alright people.

cjuncto

I disagree, people on this board are judgemental and bullyish at times... They follow the hateful trends of offcolor jokes and spam memes.

[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]

[QUOTE="dkdk999"] You can't concieve of someone having no friends ? It happens. cjuncto

I'd figure if you're at that age you'd have at least have 1 friend. I mean, what the hell were you doing all your life??

Having no girlfriend is one thing, but having no friends is an indication that you have f*cked up royally.

Ouch, I had no friends in highschool... I lost friends rapidly as I hit puberty.

In highschool I joined a sports team though and that helps people tolerate you if they can put you in a bubble... They tolerated me for a couple of years but then I was pretty much shunned from my team cuz I was weird and not very good.

I love how your so judgemental of the TC, maybe he just is not a very great at socializing. I have the same problem and as a matter of fact I have no friends either now.

Never knew Wasdie would resort to creating Alts.

Slashless

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

Mister_Mackey

Might I ask, how old are you?

O some good advice. Go to college. No joke. I hate school, but there is tons of people to meet. But with my luck, I always get classes with old fat women. But I don't let that tear me down because fat chicks give the best head. See, I find a positive in every situation.

Some colleges have clubs to join and what not. Try it out.

I get more ass than a toilet seat. TC is jelly

[QUOTE="Mister_Mackey"]

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

ristactionjakso

Might I ask, how old are you?

What you just said is not going to help him, for one you are really tall, which makes socializing way easier. Especially with women, they are really vain about height. For some reason they think height magically gives you super powers. Taller people tend to get more respect, it is also easier to stand out. Maybe it is the psychology of looking up to talk. In fact hollywood always has that camera position were it "looks up" at the person to show power. Oh I want to know what he means by short. But all in all, my brother is short, honestly kind of in the ugly range, and he is doing probably better than a lot of tall people. Tc will get over his feelings hopefully, he should be glad that women do not all throw themselves at him. That means they think he is a sucker.

[QUOTE="cjuncto"]

[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]

I'd figure if you're at that age you'd have at least have 1 friend. I mean, what the hell were you doing all your life??

Having no girlfriend is one thing, but having no friends is an indication that you have f*cked up royally.

Shottayouth13-

Ouch, I had no friends in highschool... I lost friends rapidly as I hit puberty.

In highschool I joined a sports team though and that helps people tolerate you if they can put you in a bubble... They tolerated me for a couple of years but then I was pretty much shunned from my team cuz I was weird and not very good.

I love how your so judgemental of the TC, maybe he just is not a very great at socializing. I have the same problem and as a matter of fact I have no friends either now.

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

[QUOTE="Mister_Mackey"]

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

mahlasor

Might I ask, how old are you?

What you just said is not going to help him, for one you are really tall, which makes socializing way easier. Especially with women, they are really vain about height. For some reason they think height magically gives you super powers. Taller people tend to get more respect, it is also easier to stand out. Maybe it is the psychology of looking up to talk. In fact hollywood always has that camera position were it "looks up" at the person to show power. Oh I want to know what he means by short. But all in all, my brother is short, honestly kind of in the ugly range, and he is doing probably better than a lot of tall people. Tc will get over his feelings hopefully, he should be glad that women do not all throw themselves at him. That means they think he is a sucker.

Get buff.

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

Mister_Mackey

Haha.

Dude, I'm in exactly the same situation you are, though I'm not short nor ugly (better to be skinny than fat, no?). And be very grateful you have a job. Women avoid me like the plague. I stay at home every night watching TV with my cat as well, though I am going to therapy and trying to get a job and go to school. Trust me you're not alone. No worries, try to keep a positive attitude. I know it's hard with depression. Exercise, get out of the house, even if it's just to drive around doing nothing.

I know it sucks, but really the only one that can change your situation is you.

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

Mister_Mackey

Everything in life has two sides my friend. You're looking at the wrong one.

You're single and have all the time in the world to make your life better without the distraction of a girlfriend, or kids. You're free to roam this earth until you find what you're looking for, whatever that may be, even if you don't know what it is yet.

Think about how many guys would kill to be in your position. 3 badass kids and a wife that hates them and tries to control them. Never having the option to try new things cause the kids need to eat.

Life's too short to feel sorry for yourself.

EDIT: In the last year the only people I've really hung out with is my parents. I lost my best friend of 28 years a year ago. Do you think I enjoy having to carry that around with me everywhere I go. I'll tear up in public just thinking about him, or seeing something that reminds me off him. I don't sit around feeling sorry for myself though, I could for the rest of my life if I wanted too. Losing him taught me so many lessons about life I could type all day.

Many people have it worse than you so cheer the **** UP!

Never knew Wasdie would resort to creating Alts.

Slashless

you can't lose if you never try.

go back to school, start working out, try everything you can man, if you want a better life 3 years from now no more wasting time!

Just get some confidence.

If TC is interested...lifting weights and exercising is proven to battle depression better than ANYTHING else. So maybe give that a try. Remember only YOU can change YOU.taylor888

This is true, just my word of advice, try not to get too into it. If you get too obsessed with lifting weights and charting results it can be consuming and depressing in and of itself, however you can't go wrong doing it casually.

I have absolutely nothing going for me.

I have no friends, no girlfriend, my job sucks, I'm an adult who still lives with is parents, I'm short, skinny, ugly, I have no self-confidence, and women just plain don't like me. Also, it's Friday night and I have no plans other than watching TV and hanging out with my cats.

It's very depressing just thinking about it.

Anyone else here know the feeling?

Mister_Mackey

It swings in roundabouts for everyone dude.

Life changes. Quickly.

In a few years time, youll be in a totally different place than you are now, and if you really feel that low now, then youll be much better off.

Such is life dude.

If all else fails there's always a way out...lancea34

[QUOTE="lancea34"]If all else fails there's always a way out...chilly-chill