[QUOTE="superheromonkey"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="superheromonkey"]Sajedene: you claimed that women who wear baggy clothes are essentially "sloopy" and "insecure" . Those are quite deep evaluations of someone based on their clothing choices. You did a good job of trying to argue about specifics and avoiding my whole point. You are pretty much claiming that women need to wear tight, form fitting clothing clothing or they don't appreciate the feminity. Sajedene
Why in the world would any girl wear boys clothes or ANY clothes for that matter that are X sizes too big than they are?
I mean, if a guy wore girl clothes or "too tight clothes" you'd all think he has problems too -- and the thing is -- they most likely do! What you wear dictates your personality and how comfortable you are with your self and projects an idea to others.
And amazing how you preach when you yourself think that just because a female chooses form fitting clothes or NEED to wear form fitting clothes (you said it, I didnt, you just assumed I did) that they are much less respectable and the only reason they would wear something like that is so that guys like you can stare at their breasts.
Well, i do think concluding that women needing to wear form fitting clothes logically follows that women who dress baggy are sloppy and insecure. You are the one drawing conclusions about women based on how you perceive their clothes. You can't see any other reason for them dressing baggy, but maybe they just like it? It is their style? is that not a possibility? Maybe *gasp* someone does not see things the same way you do.
Right back at you kid.
Well when I see a girl in baggy clothes they do look sloppy and exude insecurity. I already said I have no problem with girls who want to be boys. But its the girls who dress like that because they are not comfortable with themselves to dress in right size clothes is my issue.
Why anyone would think they like or its their style to look like 5 year old in 10 year old clothes is BEYOND me. And if you get that... good for you.
You are going to have to explain to me how exactly your preoccupation with your own image, your predilection for judging others so harshly and overall need to appease societal gender roles is not a sign of insecurity.
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