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#1 George__1992
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[QUOTE="George__1992"][QUOTE="-Russ93"]

maybe you should just move on, staying good friends always helps.

-Russ93

yeah, i think i'm gonna just act like if nothing happened... she drives me crazy so maybe i should just stop talking to her.... man, i hope their is a light at the end of this tunnel, better days for me, cuz life has not been good to me so far, i don't think i'm a bad person but bad things keep happening to me, i guess i am...

No, try to keep talking to her atleast. The girl I was crazy for is probably my best friend now, so I suggest you keep your friendship with her.

i can't imagine talking to her normally until the air is cleared, she needs to do that... she's not one to do that though... i need her to tell me i have a bf, then i'll say i'm not mad.. case closed...
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#2 George__1992
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You shouldn't be mad at yourself and it isn't your fault at all in my opinion. From what it sounds like, she made the illusion that she just wasn't looking for a relationship and not that she just wasn't interested in you. So in that situation if you really like the girl, then it's perfectly understandable to wait until she is ready for something. What she should have done was tell you that she wasn't interested in you. Even if she didn't want anyone to know she was dating, she still should have told you that she would never feel that way about you. gamertylers
I remember the exact words.. i text her lol.. she took long to reply so i sent " look just reject me you don't like me and let's move on ok?" then she said " it's not that that i don't want to it's that i don't want a relationship right now, i've made bad decisions in the past and gotten hurt so for that reason i do not want a bf right now" i felt fine with that and that was it, i told her that i loved her alot and that was it, we kept talking...
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#3 George__1992
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[QUOTE="George__1992"][QUOTE="gamertylers"] If she finds it weird talking with him, the why even stay friends? Instead of just telling the truth she lied to him and that is messed up. It's not that hard to say that you aren't interested and already have a boyfriend. You don't tell someone that you aren't looking for anyone at the moment because that creates false hope.-Russ93

this... we did stay friends, talk over the phone and things like that...

maybe you should just move on, staying good friends always helps.

yeah, i think i'm gonna just act like if nothing happened... she drives me crazy so maybe i should just stop talking to her.... man, i hope their is a light at the end of this tunnel, better days for me, cuz life has not been good to me so far, i don't think i'm a bad person but bad things keep happening to me, i guess i am...
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#4 George__1992
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[QUOTE="xTheExploited"]Or she did not want a relationship... with you? There was this girl who was obsessed with me and I did everything I could to avoid her and avoid talking to her because it was really weird. If this girl knows you are obsessed with her then maybe she finds it really weird to talk to you. You just gotta accept that she wants to be with someone else and move on. Also 8 months is way too long. If you can't get a girl to like you within the first month or two then just find another girl. Its impossible to change a girl's mind. They either want something or they don't. There is no maybe I will like him more in a few months. Just go find another girl, treat her great and show that other girl what she is missing. If she does eventually come to you wanting to be with you, tell her to go to hell. A girl who jerks around with you for 8 months is not worth it.gamertylers
If she finds it weird talking with him, the why even stay friends? Instead of just telling the truth she lied to him and that is messed up. It's not that hard to say that you aren't interested and already have a boyfriend. You don't tell someone that you aren't looking for anyone at the moment because that creates false hope.

this... we did stay friends, talk over the phone and things like that...
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[QUOTE="George__1992"][QUOTE="xTheExploited"]Or she did not want a relationship... with you? There was this girl who was obsessed with me and I did everything I could to avoid her and avoid talking to her because it was really weird. If this girl knows you are obsessed with her then maybe she finds it really weird to talk to you. You just gotta accept that she wants to be with someone else and move on. Also 8 months is way too long. If you can't get a girl to like you within the first month or two then just find another girl. Its impossible to change a girl's mind. They either want something or they don't. There is no maybe I will like him more in a few months. Just go find another girl, treat her great and show that other girl what she is missing. If she does eventually come to you wanting to be with you, tell her to go to hell. A girl who jerks around with you for 8 months is not worth it.xTheExploited
she should have just said she's in the middle of a secret relationship with someone...

i feel dirty, used... but again she should have said something.... I accept that if you did spill your feelings to the girl and she leads you on and then comes out that she has a boyfriend she should have either ended any chance of a relationship at the beginning or have told you at most 4 months ago that she was with someone. A ****tease like that is not worth being a girlfriend but if you are trying to get with her for 8 months then its also slightly your fault for allowing her to lead you on for that long.

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#6 George__1992
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Welcome to the Broken Hearts club, lad.

revoscloud
that seems like it, i gotta suck it up and carry this memory forever.. first time i felt this way, my bro in law says the first one is always gonna be planted in your head...
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#7 George__1992
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Or she did not want a relationship... with you? There was this girl who was obsessed with me and I did everything I could to avoid her and avoid talking to her because it was really weird. If this girl knows you are obsessed with her then maybe she finds it really weird to talk to you. You just gotta accept that she wants to be with someone else and move on. Also 8 months is way too long. If you can't get a girl to like you within the first month or two then just find another girl. Its impossible to change a girl's mind. They either want something or they don't. There is no maybe I will like him more in a few months. Just go find another girl, treat her great and show that other girl what she is missing. If she does eventually come to you wanting to be with you, tell her to go to hell. A girl who jerks around with you for 8 months is not worth it.xTheExploited
she should have just said she's in the middle of a secret relationship with someone...
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#8 George__1992
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Or she did not want a relationship... with you? There was this girl who was obsessed with me and I did everything I could to avoid her and avoid talking to her because it was really weird. If this girl knows you are obsessed with her then maybe she finds it really weird to talk to you. You just gotta accept that she wants to be with someone else and move on. Also 8 months is way too long. If you can't get a girl to like you within the first month or two then just find another girl. Its impossible to change a girl's mind. They either want something or they don't. There is no maybe I will like him more in a few months. Just go find another girl, treat her great and show that other girl what she is missing. If she does eventually come to you wanting to be with you, tell her to go to hell. A girl who jerks around with you for 8 months is not worth it.xTheExploited
sounds reasonable, yeah she didn't want a relationship with me....
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#9 George__1992
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So you told her how you felt and she continued acting as if she didn't have a boyfriend and more or less lead you on?ice_radon
Yes! this... all the times i spilled my guts, a simple i have a bf don't tell anyone yet would have been suffice, but she was leading me on, then she posts up myspace pics with the guy and she keeps saying that it has been eight months.. eight months? you know that i spilled my feelings to you during that time right? why didn't you say anything, but my friend keeps sayng thta since she rejected me (b.s.) i agreed to only be friends, who gets rejected and just accepts it?
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#10 George__1992
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[QUOTE="George__1992"][QUOTE="-Russ93"]

Same here... so that makes 3 people so far on Gamespot that have been in this situation... anyone else?

All I have to say is just be patient.

-Russ93

she didn't want a relationship (that's what she told me) then all of a sudden she's had one, for eight months?! idk but something about that is messsed up...

yeah like I said, same here. She was single for more than a year and then just like that- boyfriend. And she decided to tell me first before things went "public" now that's messed up, no, more of a missed opportunity on my behalf.

so what should i do? i came here to get sort of a second opinion... do you think she did not really tell me because she cares or she just forgot? should i confront her about this or pretend it never happened?