[QUOTE="More_Dakka"]

[QUOTE="jherbach1222"]

friend zone sucks though..

jherbach1222

Unlike some posters in OT... :P

I could live with the so called 'friend-zone'...

Especially since 'friend-zone' assumes the guy has a romantic interest in the girl- while the girl has no such interest...

Besides- if you end up in the so called 'friend-zone', you just accept the friendship and move on while you can. So doesn't saying 'the friend-zone sucks' contradict your first post a little? :P (I.E: Not knowing when to move on?)

touche :P Yeah If you actually want to just be friends I say theres nothing wrong with that, I have plenty of girlfriends ( i mean just friends) But if you like the girl I mean Like like her I would move in b4 its too late lol

Well of course. :D

[QUOTE="More_Dakka"]

[QUOTE="jherbach1222"]

Just find another girl, People here need to learn how to take a hint..no offense

jherbach1222

Again- I'm not trying to date her... I just want to be able to keep in contact with her as friends... :|

Besides- there are already a few other girls there that I know on Facebook and flirt with... :P So its not like I've got a lack of options...

This girl is just really nice- i just really want to be friends with her- that's all. :|

friend zone sucks though..

Unlike some posters in OT... :P

I could live with the so called 'friend-zone'...

Especially since 'friend-zone' assumes the guy has a romantic interest in the girl- while the girl has no such interest...

Besides- if you end up in the so called 'friend-zone', you just accept the friendship and move on while you can. So doesn't saying 'the friend-zone sucks' contradict your first post a little? :P (I.E: Not knowing when to move on?)

Just find another girl, People here need to learn how to take a hint..no offense

jherbach1222

Again- I'm not trying to date her... I just want to be able to keep in contact with her as friends... :|

Besides- there are already a few other girls there that I know on Facebook and flirt with... :P So its not like I've got a lack of options...

This girl is just really nice- i just really want to be friends with her- that's all. :|

save the dance studio (from the rich kids) and get the girl duh! :P

mirriorman

:lol:

But what if the 'rich kid' trying to sell the studio is a friend of the girl?!? :shock: :P

Well. :| :roll: I would suggest....to eh... :| .. lower your expectations in the matter. :? :idea:

quadraleap

Lower my expectations? :|

How much lower can my expectations go? :cry:

I just want to be friends with her- its not like I'm actually serious about dating her... (I don't know her quite THAT well yet)

[QUOTE="More_Dakka"]

Helloooo OT... :)

Its time for you guys to go about one of your favorite pastimes once again... :D

BiancaDK

World-reknowned I heard! :D

Despite her innocence, I would still be inclined to believe that she really does not want a relationship outside of the dance studio. -she was letting you down easy rawsavon

This possibility was definitely in my headafter that conversation... :?

But I was actually the one who directly offered her the option of just saying 'not comfortable' at the time (she didn't really seem willing to shut me down completely on her own- so I was the one who politely just offered her the option of backing out). So it seemed much more likely that it was legitimate Fraternization concerns rather than a lack of interest in being friends outside of the studio.

Especially given how well we get along. I could be interpreting this wrong though of course... :P

On the off chance that I am wrong (here comes the advice part) -wait till it is getting closed down...hopefully there will be at least one class warning...then tell her that you would hate to lose contact forever and ask againrawsavon

Ah- given how utterly disorganized they are as it is- it will probably be closed down with little to no warning. :|

A few of my other friends there have openly stated that every time they come- they wouldn't be surprised if they found the doors locked...

Helloooo OT... :)

Its time for you guys to go about one of your favorite pastimes once again... :D

Its time for some girl-advice!

*There was much rejoicing* 8)

Or- not really... :|

*There was utter silence* :|

Now now- hear me out... :oops: Here's the situation... :D

There's this girl I REALLY want to stay friends with at the dance studio I'm going to...

This is because the studio could go down the pipes at any time right now- its not doing well... :|

And if the studio goes down- I lose contact with the girl... :cry:

So I asked her if she was on Facebook or if we could exchange phone numbers...

And she turned me down... :(

Because of Fraternization concerns... :!:

"Aha! She's revealed her true colors already you fool!" :evil:

"She's just using that as an excuse!" :roll:

"She doesn't really want to be friends with you!" I hear you cry... Now now- you haven'tread everything yet... :P

When she explained her concern- I totally understood- because I know that she is a very nice and honestgirl (She was raised in Japan for 15 years- and her parents are Missionaries). That's the main reason I like her so much- she's so- innocent- I guess would be the word... :) She doesn't have any inkling of an attitude that some girls my age have.

So I just backed off from the subject-and things have continued as normal ever since. But my worries still remain... :(

SO- :D

How would you guys in OT handle this? :D Tell me your thoughts OT- I is curious! :D

(Be as ridiculous as you want to be... :P )

I do at least one of three things- usually I end up doingit allin one night... :)

1. First- I dream about something I really like... :D
2. When that first dream finishes- I get mah drink of water...
3. I return to bed and dream of negotiations between the three personalities within me. :| (Well- not full-on 'personalities' really... :| )

When lightning or rain is involved? :D It becomes even simpler:

1. Sleep like a bleeding log. :D

OR:

• Skip to step 3.

Are you trying to pull our legs with that first pic? :P

You can't fool me THAT easy... :evil:

That first pic is NOT a potential Killzone3 pic people... That is NOT a Hellghast in hiding...

Observe: http://www.gamespot.com/pc/action/chrome2/images/0/2/?om_act=convert&om_clk=gsimage&tag=images;img;2.

That is a pic from the game Chrome 2. A game that will probably never be released.

You never know- we may be hearing about Killzone 3 very soon- there is potential- but that first pic is not what you think it is. :|