To start off, I'm not some annoying kid who feels like he has to tell the internet all about everything he does. I'm making a topic about this because I feel likeif I dont talk to someone about this, I'm gonna effing explode.

So me and this girl had our third date tonight(we went to go see grown ups, which was a bad movie). Nothing had happened so far and I was under the impression that from what I was told, this would be the final date because I would get rejected when I tried to make a move(her sister told me she wasnt really looking for a boyfriend). Nonetheless, I was determined to try and preferred that it ended in me getting rejected rather than me wussing out and never knowing for sure.

We get out of the theater(both agreeing that the movie wasnt very good) and talk for a few minutes before she is called to her car. Before she leaves, she pauses for a moment and looks at me. I know that this is the time to make the move, but at the last minute I decide not to go through with it. I'm 95% sure at the moment that she will reject me and that the night will end in embarrassment and tears for me.

But then, as if a force from a higher place wills it to be so, she moves in and hugs me.....me! She catches me WAY off guard and I clumsily wrap my arm around her back and smile. She mutters "awkard..." then chuckles and lets go. I'm sitting there staring at her, completely shellshocked and drooling(slightly). I hold onto her arm as she pulls it away while I try to hastily think of something to say, but she walks towards her car and leaves me.....but she turns her head and smiles at me while she walks away.

But as they are pulling away, they pull their car towards me and ask if I want a ride home. I happily agree and talk with her about various movies that are coming out in the near future and we have a nice little talk in the car on the way home. Right before I get out of the car, I look at her, straight in the eye, take her hand in mine and gently squeeze it, and say that we need to do something else really soon. I tell her that I will give her a call so we can plan out another date.

I know that I wrote a lot, and for those of you who read it all, thank you, but I'm effing losing my mind right now. Now that I look back on it, there were so many things I could have done. I could have said something like "wait, lets try again and do it right this time" and grabbed her around the waist and and and...........:cry: Would it be wierd If I called her tomorrow and planned out another date or should I wait for a while? And I didnt blow it completely or anything like that, did I?

weaselstomper50

She has gone out with you 3 times already. She obviously at least likes hanging out with you. Even if she "rejects" you she'll probably do it in a nice way. It's not like shes going to pull away, laugh at you then tell everyone what a loser you are.

First of all you shouldn't be going into the date expecting to get rejected -- this is a horrible mentality and can only hurt you. Secondly, you are 16 years old. Stop thinking about holding hands and staring into each others eyes and have some fun. Just hang out, escalate physically and see what happens. The kind of emotions you are displaying are both creepy and detrimental to your chances with the girl. Calm the f down and stop overthinking things. If you want to hang out then just call her and ask her to. No girl is going to be like "Well, if he waited 2 days to hang out, I would, but he waited 1, so no way!"

Seriously dude I wish the best for you but your attitude towards this situation is pretty bad. I mean everyone has to get burned and learn these things sometime, but your emotions are running way too high.

EDIT: Also, stop asking girls to movies especially when you can't drive somewhere else afterwards. You sit in the dark in silence for 2 hours. It isn't a good date.

I'm guessing she is unattractive. If she isn't then you're an idiot because she's basically offering you free sex.

If she is attractive and you're a loser it's probably some sort of trap. I can't really imagine any attractive girl behaving like this so it's probably best to stay away.

De-friend her on Facebook but not before making some comment making it clear you aren't interested. If she still tries to contact you just ignore her.

Depends on the girl but it's probably a bad thing.

Whole crisis is averted by you know...going out into the real world and meeting women. Online dating is pretty horrible.

Your life is obviously affected by your girlfriend, but it shouldn't be anything negative or disadvantageous for you.

Weak guys allow themselves to be controlled by their girlfriends. This usually results in them becoming/staying a loser, having their GF cheat on them, or just being a b**** in general.

I just wanted to ask this as I aggrivated this guy today, and he wanted to fight me but all the teachers and stuff where watching and I don't normally get into fights so I didn't start up a fight with him I just backed down, but I feel like a douche because now I feel like he is going to slit my throat at school tomorrow or something lol.

Do you guys back down from fights or are you very agressive towards establishing who is the alpha male / female lol. :P

Megaman5364

However now everyone knows you're a huge p**** so you're screwed. I'd either fight the guy tomorrow or look into changing schools. Why would you want to go to school somewhere where everyone knows you're a huge p****.

Your story doesn't even make sense. If all the teachers were watching it would have been broken up almost immediately and you'd have no real chance of getting injured (not that nearly any HS fight results in injury anyway). Regardless once you start taking crap it's a slippery slope so stop letting people walk over you or you're going to have a miserable life.

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Flipping burgers doesn't require any work ethic. It requires being able to do a mindless task over and over. It is also demeaning. I wouldn't flip burgers if the salary was 1M a year (assuming all other variables remained static). It's worse than death for me.

Yeah, a bunch of thugs rolling dice on a street corner isn't the only form of gambling. And I really hope that mispelling of Jim Beam is a typo because if it isn't it's pretty pointless to debate with you. I make my money from a combination of poker and sports betting. Neither are gambling any more than the stock market is gambling -- in fact less so. There is a much higher ROR for me with no risk of ruin. It's impossible to explain in a single post but basically with my skill level assuming I play within my bankroll in poker and properly wager units I will always, always, make money. Sure there will be variance but I have enough capital to withstand the highest possible swings so I have no risk of ruin.

br0kenrabbit

Then you have no idea what Work Ethic is. Work Ethic is being there when you're suppose to, doing the work as you're suppose to, and generally taking care of business. Even ditch diggers have a work ethic.

You simply come across as a young, arrogant teen with no experience of the real world.

I'll tell you what work ethic is: taking your own $1000 and building a business you sell for $2.25 Million (6.75 million 3 ways...I had 2 business partners) and retire at age 27, as I did in 2002. It only took me 3 years (1999-2002) to turn that around. And that was 3 years of 12-15 hour days, 6 days a week. THAT is work ethic.

So how's playing craps going for ya?

Awesome shameless brag at starting and selling a successful business though. Congrats on your success but I don't think it's prudent to retire at 27 with only 2.25m, unless you already had a very high net worth prior to the sale, which doesn't make sense given your post.

I don't play craps except recreationally in casinos. If we are going off mere earnings I've earned more in a 4 month period then you sold your entire business for (your share). Granted this wasn't normal but I've had a few years where I've earned more than that -- and had no losing years. I'm not going to reveal my average yearly income since it varies and I've toned down and had some leaner years in the last two simply because there's no need for me to put in the volume I used to because my monetary situation is extremely comfortable.

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[QUOTE="bruinfan617"] There's a vast difference in realizing that an accountant makes more money than a homeless person and thinking the accountant is a better person. And I can't beleive you actually mentioned homelessness when we were talking about a 14 year old's first job at a fast food restaurant...bruinfan617

Working in fast food is for losers. When you are a teenager it is slightly more acceptable but still looked down upon. There's no reason he should get a job in fast food unless it's the only way to survive -- and it's not.

Doubt we need a judge or jury to figure out who is better.

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[QUOTE="bruinfan617"]Obviously the accountant, but that doesn't make me think less of him if he were homeless...

bruinfan617

Nonetheless you agree the accountant is better. So you are agreeing with me.

Working in fast food is for losers. When you are a teenager it is slightly more acceptable but still looked down upon. There's no reason he should get a job in fast food unless it's the only way to survive -- and it's not.

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[QUOTE="bruinfan617"] Only someone who is distressingly insecure would say something like that.bruinfan617

Nonetheless you agree the accountant is better. So you are agreeing with me.