I started talking to this girl over the Internet a few days ago, whom I knew in elementary school. She liked me back in the day and still thinks I am cute now, plus she liked my muscles. :D Anyway, we had a good time talking to each other and then a day or two later I was like "Hey Foxy," in a light hearted compliment sort of way. She never replied and hasn't talked to me since... I was not expecting this to happen and I gave her an apology in case I offended her. I guess I didn't know her as well as I thought I did.

VisigothSaxon

Not reading the rest of the thread.

Ok, so I'm a guy and one of my friends is a girl. We met at work, she had a boyfriend and I understood that, so I didn't try anything ever. We hung out, watched movies, ate out and stuff and she said her boyfriend was fine with that and knew what we were doing. We were friends for about 6 months and I just left that city for school for a year. Everything seemed fine until the day after when she sent a really rude text message to me. I asked her what was up and she said that we can't be friends and she felt "uneasy" around me. She told me that we can never talk to each other again. Just right out of the blue. Anyone have any thoughts?

Devoo55

Either way it is quite odd for a single guy to hang out alone with a girl watching movies and going out to eat together.

Whatsup OT.

SO! I am a sophomore in college and I have this friend that I met last year. I like her alot and we have always kinda flirted. Anyway, there was a party at this guys house the other night. She told me a few days prior that she might go, and I decided that I would if she would (or my room mate, but he didnt). So the night of the thing she had some friends from her home town come to visit and we were texting back and forth as she and her friends were deciding if they wanted to go. she said she would call me if they wanted to go. i offered to be DD, she said she wouldnt be drinking anyway though.

well, i never got a call or text saying they were going so i assume they didn't. i wake up this morning and am talking to my OTHER roomie who was there (i am not close friends with him yet so he wasnt a deciding factor). anyway, he told me that SHE.WAS.THERE. and ALSO, she got drunk.

So OT, looks like a I was blown off, eh? how do i approach her about this?

IronBeaver

As far as "calling her out", this is a horrendous idea. Say you didn't end up going because you did X instead or you got sick or something. Next time you want to go out drinking with her either invite her to pregame at somewhere or just go to the same party as her and meet up -- don't offer to DD her to the party with your attendance being related to her going.

In general though it sounds like you're screwed. It doesn't sound like she wants to be anything more than friends. If you really want to be more than friends your only shot is probably just getting drunk with her and then you guys start fooling around, though I'm finding this highly unlikely anyway.

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[QUOTE="PeaceChild90"]

Because we're not objects? You're no more of a human being than I am just because you have a penis.

SeraphimGoddess

After reading the entire thread I see some people trolling and others using the "Well, if women want to be treated as equals, I should be able to beat them" argument. The argument is not uncommon amongst teenage idiots devoid of any female contact. Anyone who isn't a social monogloid or a crazy person doesn't think like this.

Because we're not objects? You're no more of a human being than I am just because you have a penis.

PeaceChild90

After reading the entire thread I see some people trolling and others using the "Well, if women want to be treated as equals, I should be able to beat them" argument. The argument is not uncommon amongst teenage idiots devoid of any female contact. Anyone who isn't a social monogloid or a crazy person doesn't think like this.

Men and women should both get the same treatment. If you're a girl and want to fight, I'd still punch you right in the face.

Gaming-Planet

This might cause some problems for you, so I'd suggest remedying it.

Shows - Cirque de Soliel. Not big into many others.

Clubs - Tao, Rain, Ghostbar. Get bottle service.

Casinos - Meh. Seems like you aren't a gambler. Just go to the Bellagio, Palms, MGM Grand etc.

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[QUOTE="Blin220"]

ok, so american eagle, H&M, aeropostale, hollister, target etc. they all have coed fitting rooms. Its not like the fitting room was labeled womens fitting room. If they have the right to have a policy against a guy trying on an item in a womens fitting room that is sealed so no one can see who is in the next room. Then they should have a clear bold sign that says WOMENS FITTING ROOM. If they have problems with a guy peeping in a girls fitting room then why are major stores like hollister or american coed fitting rooms. That just makes no sense.

Blin220

Why the hell would they need a sign that says WOMENS' FITTING ROOM if it is a store that only sells womens' clothes?

Why are you trying to sue? The employees didn't even kick you out.

You are aware they make skinny jeans for men right? From a legal standpoint I can tell you right now that you will get nowhere.

Have some self-respect and don't wear women's jeans.

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[QUOTE="needled24-7"]now that you mention that, it might be true. oh well i'm not worried lol. only thing is she is 21 and i am 19 so i'm thinkin that will lower my chances more than anything, and i can't do anything about that, so i just gotta go all out with this one, higher risk higher reward, know what i mean? :P

needled24-7

Just make sure that things escalate physically and there is flirting on the first date so it's obvious your intentions are known. Most girls like aggression as opposed to awkwardness/cowardice to make a move. Avoid things like "telling her how you feel" or that "you really like her" kind of things -- even if they are true it is bad and just puts pressure/awkwardness on the situation. A lot of inexperienced dudes do this and fail miserably 99.9% of the time.

Most of the time it isn't even true. Inexperienced guys who don't get a lot of girls have one girl show them minor attention who is cute so they build her up in their heads as this amazing girl who they have to get when in reality they don't even know her and there are tons of other girls out there equal/better then her. The problem is they just don't talk to any of them.