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#1 bertainpp7
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There aren't any good movies out for us to see. I think I should just ask her what she's doing on the weekend then ask to chill sometime, which I don't think would be considered a date or anything, right? I just want to see her more.
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#2 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="Mousetaches"]Just ask her out, if she says yes you win, if she says no then she'll either be awkward around you or get over. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Once you stop caring what people think about you you become 1000x more attractive.

If she says no I risk not talking to her after that. It would also hurt if she thought it wasn't warranted or weird. I would hate to see her gossiping to her friends about how I asked her out and how she thought I was ridiculous for asking.
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#3 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="Colin1192"][QUOTE="bertainpp7"]Yeah, I have no problem acting confident around her as of late. I can definitely ask her out and act confident about it... at least that's what I think. lightleggy

Exactly, so she will feel obligated to say yes

but one has to remember...never to be overconfident... I got a friend who thinks that he is the world's sovereign pimp or something, he believes that there he is the hottest man on earth so when he wants to a date a girl he just comes like "hey...look at my pretty face, yeah, lucky girl, this pretty face, wants to go out with you, and this triceps also wants to come *shows arms*" and I swear, if I were a girl and a guy like that comes asking me out with something like that, i'll just kick him down in the goodies and say "no thank you douchebag"

I think Colin1192 was actually quoting me when I said it would be awkward to ask her out on a bus if she said no. The funny thing is, I actually came close on a bus to telling her, "hey, I like you a lot" and I've never felt such emotion through my body ever. I never felt so depressed in my life for the weekend after that because I thought I missed out. In retrospective, I'm glad I didn't because we hadn't really been solid friends.
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#4 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]find out if there's a movie she wants to see, say "hey I wanna see that too" and ask if you can go together. either buy her a snack or pay for her movie to let her know you want it to be a date-type deal, and if she reacts in a way that suggests she would like to go on a real, formally requested date with you, then ask at the end of the movie/time out together. it's not really that hard to tell if a girl is interested in you.

I like this idea. It would be like a casual friendship outing, and then I can judge where to go from there after that. I honestly can't tell if she's interested in me, I'm siding with 'no', but I can't bear not knowing either. Like I said, I don't have any experience in dating and I can't tell if a girl is interested in me- that may be however, because no girl has ever been interested in me.
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#5 bertainpp7
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Make your move on the bus. That way she doesnt have any way to escape

Colin1192
Haha, that would be awkward if she says no.

[QUOTE="frostybanana"]Step 1) Walk up to her.

Step 2) Say, "Hey do you want to go out?"

Now this is the tricky part. If she says Yes, she definitely wants to go out with you. If she says No, then you better forget about her because she obviously wants nothing to do with you.octoman115

This. Just ask her straight up. Just remember to be confident!

Yeah, I have no problem acting confident around her as of late. I can definitely ask her out and act confident about it... at least that's what I think.
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#6 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

There's this girl that I like a lot. In fact, I think about her probably every hour or so. I feel depressed whenever I'm not around her, yada, yada, yada.

The thing is I've never been in a relationship before. I've been pretty sheltered my whole life, only hanging out with a a few friends every once in a while ect. I'm not awkward or anything, especially lately I've been getting into a lot of conversations with people and feeling confident.

We see each other usually three times a day. Before school, during the one class we have together, and then after school for the bus. She likes me, I know that much, as a friend though. I'm having a really hard time reading girls however, and I honestly feel quite lost in the aspect of dating or a relationship in a school environment. I know she's never had a boyfriend before, but I don't know if she's been asked out before.


So I was wondering if Gamespot Off Topic has some tips about dating. I need to see if she would date me without actually asking her. Thanks for reading.

lightleggy

well that sounds as an infatuation to me...but why not to try? if you say that she has always been single then she is a jewel...just talk to her, and when you feel most confident just go for it...like "hey there is this cool movie at theaters...do you want to go watch it?" and just do that.

I'm not sure if asking it that casually implies that we are going as friends though.

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#7 bertainpp7
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There's this girl that I like a lot. In fact, I think about her probably every hour or so. I feel depressed whenever I'm not around her, yada, yada, yada.

The thing is I've never been in a relationship before. I've been pretty sheltered my whole life, only hanging out with a a few friends every once in a while ect. I'm not awkward or anything, especially lately I've been getting into a lot of conversations with people and feeling confident.

We see each other usually three times a day. Before school, during the one class we have together, and then after school for the bus. She likes me, I know that much, as a friend though. I'm having a really hard time reading girls however, and I honestly feel quite lost in the aspect of dating or a relationship in a school environment. I know she's never had a boyfriend before, but I don't know if she's been asked out before.


So I was wondering if Gamespot Off Topic has some tips about dating. I need to see if she would date me without actually asking her. Thanks for reading.

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#9 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="LustForSoul"][QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="LustForSoul"] I'm totally with this guy. Enjoy life while you can, don't waste time on depression. Really, it's the biggest time wasting thing there is. It gets you NOWHERE. If you're not satisfied hanging with a few friends, ask them to go to a club. Try to hit on the girl, if you get rejected you just swallow the sadness and move on. It won't be the only failure in your life. You're already failing now being depressed, go do something about it. The TRUTH is hard isn't it?

While this is true, it is not something so easy to just not be depressed anymore, and you should understand that. Just like people have fears of going outside or fears of dogs or something, you may not understand it, but you just have to accept it is a reality. Of course I'll try whatever I can to not feel depressed anymore.

I know what you mean, was hoping you'd feel better really. Time will heal, it always did for me. I haven't been through any deep depressions really, I always think "stuff like that just happen". I've read what some people have been through, standing still only makes it worse. "move on" is what my mind tells me and it's what I do. Everything will be alright, take that advice from this online predator.

Thanks for the advice, I usually feel like making a bunch of changes to my life when I feel like this but it never works out. I think what I need is more discipline- self government does not work for me.. But I'm living better than 90% of the world right now so I think I should just harden up and get what needs to be done, done. *finds hope and inspiration* :D
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#10 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="LustForSoul"] I'm totally with this guy. Enjoy life while you can, don't waste time on depression. Really, it's the biggest time wasting thing there is. It gets you NOWHERE. If you're not satisfied hanging with a few friends, ask them to go to a club. Try to hit on the girl, if you get rejected you just swallow the sadness and move on. It won't be the only failure in your life. You're already failing now being depressed, go do something about it. The TRUTH is hard isn't it?ace-of-spades93
While this is true, it is not something so easy to just not be depressed anymore, and you should understand that. Just like people have fears of going outside or fears of dogs or something, you may not understand it, but you just have to accept it is a reality. Of course I'll try whatever I can to not feel depressed anymore.

I'm not trying to sound cruel, but it sounds like your being a bit overdramatic. Sure you like a girl, great. you'll have to say goodbye to her, that sucks. You're acting like it's tearing your world apart though. You're still young and believe it or not, this is probably going to be the happiest you'll ever be. Enjoy it.

Hey, I can't help the way I feel. It may seem insignificant from a simple forum post but it may mean a lot to me. If this is the happiest I'll ever be, then that sucks.