[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I would say it's normal.SolidSnake35

I would say it's normal.SolidSnake35

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="InEMplease"]

Holy crap, you are SO over-thinking everything. Just talk to her. Chill the crap out, and talk to her. She's just another human being. If you make a move and she rejects you, you move on. If not, awesome. You hook up, have a great time together, and after a while life intervenes. You split up, so you move on. It's a win/win. ;)

InEMplease

Please, realize that this sort of thinking can only hurt you. By all means, get worked up. Show this girl how much you want her in a cool, calm and collected manner. But also show her you don't need her, because you're the ****ing man, right?!

Hell yeah you are. Show her that.

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]I know, I'm on an Internet forum! Is it such a bad place anyways? Some of you guys probably experience and I can get a some answers. Alright so first I thought I'd start off with some info about ME. I'm not a very social person, although I can be at sometimes. I don't have many friends, but I have a lot of people that I just sort of 'know' and talk with at school. I'm not popular, I'm not invited to big parties or anything like that. So there's this girl who is almost like the opposite of me. I wouldn't say she's really popular but she is very playful socially and perhaps a bit naiive and I think I may have a chance. I know that it is possible because many times in my life I have told myself something along the lines of " I would never have believed I could do this" and I can see myself with her saying the same thing. I have talked with her in class and outside of class but only about school work and stuff like "What did you get on that test?" and "Oh you put that for question x? I thought it was.." I have no problem taking moderate risks. I realize how meaningless I am, or at least how meaningless I seem to be based on infinite space and time. I see that she sways from side to side and moves around a lot when she is talking with me... It might not be only me though. She also intersects me when I get up to ask me questions that she should know the answer to, because she is getting much higher than I am. I also think that after she noticed me not making the sign of the cross during prayer time she stopped doing it as well. WTF? Did she just change her religion based on me? So on to what I need from you guys! I need to know how I can get to the stage of asking her out! I'm totally unaware of how you're supposed to do this kind of thing. Flood of questions start now: What's the next step? Do I need to become friends with her in some way? Would that get me into this so-called friend-zone? Can't I say do you want to go to the movies as if she were a guy and would that be considered a date? How would I get to know her better without asking her out? Do I just say do you want to chill sometime? Would that be considered a date? What if during the time of the chill, you want to go to the movies? Is that not a date or something? Yeah, as you can tell, I'm not used to having friends that are girls outside of school...InEMplease

Holy crap, you are SO over-thinking everything. Just talk to her. Chill the crap out, and talk to her. She's just another human being. If you make a move and she rejects you, you move on. If not, awesome. You hook up, have a great time together, and after a while life intervenes. You split up, so you move on. It's a win/win. ;)

why do so many people come to OT and ask for girl advice?kayoticdreamz