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#1 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]I already asked the girl I like out on a date. I knew it was a mistake, I should have trusted my darker but more realistic view on reality. FML.travisstaggs
If this is serious then at least you went for it.

It is serious. I made a few mistakes, and I knew somewhere in my mind it wouldn't work out. I needed to connect with her more before asking her.. but I wasn't sure exactly how to do it. My perspective about my social life became so warped by emotion I just stuck with the more positive thoughts. This is such a big deal to me because I kept on telling myself I couldn't blow this.... But thanks anyways.
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I already asked the girl I like out on a date. I knew it was a mistake, I should have trusted my darker but more realistic view on reality. FML.
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#3 bertainpp7
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I try to like WMP, but it's just terrible to navigate and read with large playlists. Not to mention the small mode doesn't even display all the info at one time... stupid things that should be in the player are gone. iTunes is really good but I don't think it's that lightweight.
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#4 bertainpp7
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Do you think I should say to her on Monday "Hey... Sorry about Friday, I don't know what I was thinking.."? I still want to be friends with her. I think I'm getting over her now, thank god.
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#5 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="Phaze-Two"]I think I just didn't have the right chemistry with her. We never really took off consistently conversation wise. I had my thought that it wouldn't work out, however I couldn't deal with not asking her as well. I just made an image of us together that I wanted to fill but I never took off. Even though I still feel it could work if she felt that same way about me.
[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]At least you showed courage to do it.Solid_Tango
This^ You gained my respects TC :) Just keep asking, remember only the right ones say yes :)

Thanks..

Are you 17?

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Yes I am.
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#6 bertainpp7
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Analyzing something in excess is bad.

Try asking her out again later. If she makes another excuse, move on.

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Good point. I shouldn't think about it too much, I have to stop doing that.
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#7 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="awesomeface"]I didn't ask her out exactly, but I did tell this girl that I liked her. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. It's hard to explain but I just had a hard time saying the words. Once I said it, I felt like I was at my weakest. I didn't get the reaction I was hoping for, and it sucked hard, but I'm glad I did it.

We're almost in the same boat. I'm glad I did it, but I feel weak like you said. Things will get better in time though.
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#8 bertainpp7
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[QUOTE="sammyjenkis898"]

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

Was I rejected or what?

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Yes.

Hold on there. I wouldn't be so quick to judge this. Girls can be funny. Maybe she already had plans, or maybe it is that time of month for her. You never know. But I will say that the odds are not in your favor if she didn't expand on the conversation (i.e. setting up another time, exchanging numbers or something) and she just left. I would ask one more time but be very tactful in your approach. Just shouting it out like you did can catch people off guard. If she says no or gives another excuse then you are Donesville.

This makes sense. I could have totally caught her off guard. I couldn't have made myself say it any other way though, I would have over-thought it. She was a bit late for class because she had gone and then come back to get her stuff. I was so nervous after asking her that I was shaking a bit...She didn't offer her number or another date or anything after I said "yeah?" when she said "maybe another time" so I think it's done. I still have time to see how things go.. I feel pretty awkward now though.
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#9 bertainpp7
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First of all, she probably didn't reject you. She too perhaps was very shy and embarrased, thus said anything other than yes. And you don't say. "do you want to go out (specfic date)." You ask if you want to "go out "sometime," leaving her to a farther detailed and more understandable cleary response, thus knowing if she was just rejecting you in the first place.

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See, wtf. I was going to do something like that but in my other thread people said it would be best to date a specific time.
She rejected you. Don't listen to anyone else here who says otherwise as they know nothing of women. She would have suggested "next week" or something if she was interested. Best thing to do is act like nothing happened with her. bobaban
Damn.... we see each other far too much. I wish I didn't like her.
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#10 bertainpp7
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Well congrats on having balls. And who knows maybe she really was busy? Or she could have just said that because she didn't want to be mean and say "no"? I'd try one more time, but be less specific on when/where. "Do you wanna hangout sometime? When you're free?" So she can't use that same excuse again. And if she says no again move on.Agent-Zero
I don't think I'll say anything again... It'll seem to awkward if she's says no. I hope things aren't awkward between us during school.