It was a through-mutual-acquaintances sort of thing (he's the older brother of one of my sister's friends). Have known him for a few months now and there was a bit of a spark from the beginning, but I think he in particular was a bit afraid of making a move, so I pursued him with gradually more risque offers til he eventually couldn't help but give in ;P

It was supposed to be for a bit of fun, not really sure what the future holds, yet to my chagrin I've been doing silly things like grinning constantly at work all day and getting butterflies when he texts me and things. I think I'm in danger of falling quite hard at some point =/ :oops:

MissLibrarian

"Gradually more risque offers"?? :P That's trouble if I ever heard it.
I hope things work out for the best for you guys. No drama!

I don't think anyone over about 25 should date teenagers just because teenagers are weird and somewhat 'immature' and have different ways of thinking.

It'd be bloody hypocritical for me to naysay a 12 year age gap though because the past few weeks I've been regularly cavorting with a gentleman 18 years older than me (I'm 25, he just turned 43). I don't see anything wrong with it.

BUT, I've not told my parents we're actually physically involved yet, so... >_>

MissLibrarian

O_O Oh my!! Good for you. :P How did you meet?

are you telling me that are you are really an 18 year old girl? rawsavon

I can be whatever you want me to be... But since you don't actually want an 18 year old, this is the only time I have to be happy that I'm not 18 anymore.

I'm not a rust bucket though!

It's a bit odd but it's not the worse age gap. 30 is still youngish. I know a couple with that (possibly exact) age gap and it has worked thus far. They did go through some rough times where they weren't sure if they were going to make it but as of now they're fine. And they both knew what they wanted when they went into it so that helped I suppose.

Ugh. Now FB decides who's the most popular and important amongst your friends and shows you their info first? I'm confused. Is it still chronological at all...?

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O_O Um. Why do you want to scare them away so much? What harm do they do?

thriteenthmonke

HAHA that makes me laugh!
Sorry though, about the poop.

So, I want to make an automated watergun turret to shoot cats that come into my yard, but thermal cameras are too expensive, and I can't think of any other way to track them. thriteenthmonke

O_O Um. Why do you want to scare them away so much? What harm do they do?

This? Until the end of time. thriteenthmonke

Come now, eventually you have to be responsible.

Well, I'm not in a bad mood, I'm just not doing anything because I don't want to be doing what I should be doing. thriteenthmonke

Procrastinating eh? How long can you keep that up before you finally HAVE to give in?

I don't think I am. thriteenthmonke

You rained on the parade.