@frogo0 said:
Umm why did you ask her out in a group text? You set yourself up for embarrassment, and that is in no way fair for the girl either to put that kind of pressure on her in front of others to see. If you seriously thought that was a good idea, you dun goofed.
I know many of you will say its stupid of me and I agree. However, I have 1 more month of college left before graduating, it was Friday morning and for whatever reason I felt extremely restless and impulsive at the time (I never drink btw, so I was not drunk) I just went ahead and did it. I also have very few friends and really wanted to hangout with someone that weekend since I had no one to hang out with . I feel like an idiot now.
Knock it off with the self-pity train. You're never going to have luck if you keep it up with looking at yourself as low as you're illustrating it here.
Everyone does foolish things in all sorts of ways at different points in their lives, and you are no different.
The only difference here is people either learn from their mistakes, or they don't. Learn from your mistakes and don't sulk on it. Consider how you can approach things differently next time, and "I have one month of college left" and "I have very few friends" is not an excuse to give yourself pity.
Here's a newsflash: friends will come and go at all points in your life. It is not exclusive to your school experience. For me personally, most of my true friends I've discovered in life were never found in a school environment to begin with.
Your school career might be coming to a close, but don't act like that's the end of all things, because in reality it's only the beginning of new chapters and you better embrace that.
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