@schu:

???

I am not a software Engineer major

@stuff238:

Thanks.

I never gained any weight nor am I overweight btw.

When I was around 14-19 years old in 7-12th grade, I noticed that many females would ask me out. I actually had quite a few girlfriends in middle and H.S. I never approached any females, yet many females came to me. Some were actually quite attractive as well. I even had an attractive blonde 30-something year old counselor from our school ask me if I wanted to study with her when I was 18(I felt shy and I said no). I never had sex though, so now i'm a 23-year-old virgin.

Now in college, it seems much more difficult. I approached about 5 females during the last 4 years of college(I should be graduating this December) yet I haven't been successful with one. I explicitly asked one girl out and she wasn't interested. The other ones I tried to talk to and they would not talk back. I've noticed no girls approached me in college either.

I was wondering if someone's appearance can change drastically over a number of years( during and after puberty?) Is college just much more difficult to meet females since most women here are already in relationships and many are close to marrying? Thoughts?

...with enough years in work with my GPA/degree

I am about to graduate, and I eventually want to earn 80K in a few more years or decades. However, I think it will be tough since so many graduates have degrees in my field or better.

Do you think this is a realistic goal? What are some ways to do it?

Yeah, but many on FOX news say the same things about Syrians, Muslims or black (African) immigrants and nothing happens to them. Shows that racism is well and alive in America, but instead of it being directed to whites, black Americans or Hispanics, its mostly directed towards Syrians, Muslims or black (African) immigrants.

@Byshop:

I agree that my legs need work and I am not claiming to be strong. I am claiming to be strong relative to him.

@Byshop said:

@frogo0 said:

This guy is a skinny guy from Hong Kong. He can bench 140 and I can bench press about 235-255. He can squat about 160 lbs and I can squat about 280 lbs.

We did a leg workout together, and then took a walk around the gym. This skinny guy kept bugging me about the fact that I am a 23-year -old virgin. He kept telling me to talk to more girls etc. This guy could NEVER get any girls himself however. 4 years since he last had a girlfriend himself(same as me). I told him that its none of his business and tried to change the topic, but he kept bugging me about it. Then he began to make jokes about fuking my sister. He kept trying to put on the "tough guy" attitude.

As this guy kept yapping like a little dog non-stop about he supposedly gets girls(in China), how I am a virgin and how he wants to bang my sister , I began to get angry. I threatened to beat him up and pushed him in the indoor track when no one was looking. I then told him that I would take him outside the gym and beat him up. I never actually hit him.

Was I in the right to threaten to beat this guy up?

What does any of this have to do with the topic of your post? Or were you just really dying to tell people how much you can bench and squat?

@Chutebox said:

Get your squat weight up!

-Byshop

@Gamerno6666:

I already told him that my sister is an overweight, intellectual in medical school, who would not be interested in him so that he would forget about her and assume that she is not very attractive or compatible with him. But he keeps bringing it up to annoy me almost every workout. I try to ignore it, but he brings it up too often.

He also said that I "was a rapist" out loud so that those around me could hear and it could embarrass me.

@Chutebox:

I know. That's why I was working legs.