[QUOTE="IsNotInterestes"]You won't find support on an internet message-board. I sure as hell don't care.drewtwo99

That's really, really rude. A lot of people have already supported him here, and talked about his issue with compassion. Just because you don't care doesn't mean that everyone else doesn't.

[QUOTE="goon1030"][QUOTE="Redgarl"]From his perspective, maybe he believes that he would not let someone dear to him take such a sacrifice because he cares about you. If I was at his place, I would do the same. For dialyses, I don't know.Redgarl

I heard somewhere that in the long term it could actually alter your life time, I found it more plausible than your allegation.

From his perspective, maybe he believes that he would not let someone dear to him take such a sacrifice because he cares about you. If I was at his place, I would do the same. For dialyses, I don't know.Redgarl

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[QUOTE="goon1030"][QUOTE="drewtwo99"]I'm really sorry for your brother, and for your whole family. It is ultimately his decision though, if he believes it is best for him to not have surgery or go through other medical procedures, I think you should respect his decision. drewtwo99

You're right... i really don't have any idea. If I were in your situation i would probably feel the same exact way that you do. I didn't intend to be rude, I was just giving an outside perspective. I really didn't intend to undermind you or your problems in anyway.

I've never lost anyone close to me before, I'm sure it puts you into a very stressful mood though. It's totally understandable how you're feeling, so I don't want you to think I'm upset or anything.

[QUOTE="goon1030"][QUOTE="drewtwo99"]I'm really sorry for your brother, and for your whole family. It is ultimately his decision though, if he believes it is best for him to not have surgery or go through other medical procedures, I think you should respect his decision. drewtwo99

You're right... i really don't have any idea. If I were in your situation i would probably feel the same exact way that you do. I didn't intend to be rude, I was just giving an outside perspective. I really didn't intend to undermind you or your problems in anyway.

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[QUOTE="Robograndma"][QUOTE="goon1030"][QUOTE="Robograndma"]people should understand that those going through a severe illness may make rash decision or may be prone to depression. you brother is going through a rough time right now and you need to try to help him, even though he may sound selfish nowRobograndma

we are trying. i dont want to say that he doesnt care what we say but he wont listen

I'm really sorry for your brother, and for your whole family. It is ultimately his decision though, if he believes it is best for him to not have surgery or go through other medical procedures, I think you should respect his decision. drewtwo99