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#1 iBear-
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This is pretty surprising for OT. There were about three of us here on election night who were angry Obama won. Now people are openly giving GWB a break.blackngold29

yea seriously

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#2 iBear-
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just go to a dorky group of people and say hi for starters. are you in school or what?

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#3 iBear-
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If my mom sat on my pc right now , and browse through it the worst most shameless thing she can find is acouple of tutorial videos on how to please a woman :oops: I could explain to her that, that is only for learning porpuses, i dont think she ll be mad and me :P

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bu..bu...but mom, they're strictly for educational purposes only! I swear!

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#5 iBear-
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[QUOTE="Conno08"]

What is your most embarrassing moment in front of a girl?

Dman0017

what's yours?

whats yours?

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#6 iBear-
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no a lot of ppl said its good. (in my school)

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same

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#7 iBear-
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[QUOTE="iBear-"]

[QUOTE="matthayter700"] In what sense, and why?matthayter700

What you were basically saying previously was. "if they're wearing a shirt for a band we can't assume that they like the band, that would be stereotyping".

That's just plain stupid. I shouldn't have to explain that.

I'm not sure if I specifically called it stereotyping so much as jumping to conclusions. Which it is, since one wearing a band shirt might not necessarily be wearing it for that reason, there could be reasons other than ones that the person making the assumption is aware of. If that's stupid, then why aren't you presenting a real counterargument?

So you're banking on the fact that every once and awhile somebody wears a shirt that they borrowed from a friend of a band that they personally dislike? If i see somebody with the shirt of a band I like, I'm gonna walk up to them and say hey nice shirt, you like them too? And I won't be too afraid to talk to them because I'm worried that it might not be theres.

I don't really even know what you were arguing about in the first place, it just seemed funny to me that it sounded like you thought that you were taking the high road by not stereotyping/judging anyone. We all do it.

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#8 iBear-
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I mean, would you stop talking to a friend with a chronic illness because the fact that he loves you annoys you?

MyztifyingAngel

yea if you stop talking to him he'll move on

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#9 iBear-
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[QUOTE="solidruss"]

[QUOTE="MyztifyingAngel"]

No, I mean BLUNTLY on SEVERAL occasions. He like pictures marrying me and stuff. Its odd but I really do care about him as a friend... But sometimes this desire to get with me overshadows the benefits. Like I probably told him over 500 times that there is NO future between us in those exact words. And that I can/will not ever date him.

MyztifyingAngel

You need to cut things off for a bit then. If you told him bluntly there is no "us" in the future and he persists you need a time out. This can be fixed, he just needs a cool off period. No contact will do wonders and will truly show how much each of you value the friendship

Sadly, I tried that too and it still persists. I didn't talk to him for a good 3 months and he still has feelings for me to the point where I think its being needy. You see, his love for me is a "faint glimmer of hope" for him. He tells me he doesn't have much to be happy about and that I'm usually it. Am I keeping a friendship because of pity?

Alright, i'm gonna be honest/serious on this

i could see it like this

1. You kinda smile and be somewhat playful when you say "No i will NEVER go out with you" even if it's slight, it still might be keeping his hopes up (possibility)

2. He is screwy/needy (fact)

I don't understand what's keeping you in contact with this guy in all honesty but w/e. There's not much else you can really do, other than accept it (which would be the wrong thing to do) or just stop hangin with him. He could go bat**** crazy if you just leave him forever so watchout for that definetly. You pretty much knew the answer yourself though, you really need to forget about him.

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#10 iBear-
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[QUOTE="iBear-"]

[QUOTE="matthayter700"] ... you respond to a remark about jumping to conclusions by... jumping to conclusions. Congratulations. :roll:matthayter700

im sorry but its just so obvious

In what sense, and why?

What you were basically saying previously was. "if they're wearing a shirt for a band we can't assume that they like the band, that would be stereotyping".

That's just plain stupid. I shouldn't have to explain that.