[QUOTE="solidruss"][QUOTE="MyztifyingAngel"]
No, I mean BLUNTLY on SEVERAL occasions. He like pictures marrying me and stuff. Its odd but I really do care about him as a friend... But sometimes this desire to get with me overshadows the benefits. Like I probably told him over 500 times that there is NO future between us in those exact words. And that I can/will not ever date him.
MyztifyingAngel
You need to cut things off for a bit then. If you told him bluntly there is no "us" in the future and he persists you need a time out. This can be fixed, he just needs a cool off period. No contact will do wonders and will truly show how much each of you value the friendship
Sadly, I tried that too and it still persists. I didn't talk to him for a good 3 months and he still has feelings for me to the point where I think its being needy. You see, his love for me is a "faint glimmer of hope" for him. He tells me he doesn't have much to be happy about and that I'm usually it. Am I keeping a friendship because of pity?Alright, i'm gonna be honest/serious on this
i could see it like this
1. You kinda smile and be somewhat playful when you say "No i will NEVER go out with you" even if it's slight, it still might be keeping his hopes up (possibility)
2. He is screwy/needy (fact)
I don't understand what's keeping you in contact with this guy in all honesty but w/e. There's not much else you can really do, other than accept it (which would be the wrong thing to do) or just stop hangin with him. He could go bat**** crazy if you just leave him forever so watchout for that definetly. You pretty much knew the answer yourself though, you really need to forget about him.
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