You could always try, oh, I dunno... turning off your comput- Wait! What am I saying?! .. Carry on. Hey, I aint' saying that I hate it myself...I'm just saying whats really the truth. The internet makes the world go round. It only helps.
[QUOTE="kipohippo021"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] Now you are saying it is a waste again...so going back the other way. Also, the only expertise I have is my degree in the field :lol:rawsavon
Well, is tc rich then? Its a waste if he dosent have the money to spare. If its gonna hurt his wallet, dont do it. Also, what degree do you have? I have several (psychology is one of them) And you are assigning value again...every dollar spent 'hurts your wallet'...it is not for you to say what is wasteful when i got my 360, i saved up. It didnt hurt my wallet. I made sure i wouldnt be down on money. If plastic surgery puts you in debt, it was optional and imo not worth it. And id think that somone with a deformity could help somone else with a deformity better than somone with a phyc degree. (assuming tc is for realz) but tc's nose looks fine, so id say counseling is the best option because it looks like tcs problem is more internal than external. Wheras for me, everyone can agree somehthing is not right.
[QUOTE="kipohippo021"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] That's assigning your own experience to someone else...exactly what I said...your experience is yours alone and no one else'srawsavon
Im passing my knowledge on to tc, i dont know tc, so it cant be definate. But i can offer all i know, thats more than you can say when you really dont have experience. Im just telling tc "try to get over it instead of wasting your money, from my experience, plastic surgery is a waste" Now you are saying it is a waste again...so going back the other way. Also, the only expertise I have is my degree in the field :lol: Well, is tc rich then? Its a waste if he dosent have the money to spare. If its gonna hurt his wallet, dont do it. Also, what degree do you have?
[QUOTE="kipohippo021"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] 1. You lack a background in psychology to make any kind of diagnosis 2. (even if you did) You do not know tc to make a diagnosis...me may or may not have body image issues 3. just b/c you have a chest issue, that does not mean you understand a face issue 4. you are trying to assign your own idea of what is valuable/wasteful to someone else...that is no one's place to do (unless you waste nothing yourself...doing so is being hypocritical)rawsavon
Im not saying its wastefull, i just wouldnt put myself in debt over it. I accepted myself, if tc has a normal mind im sure he can do the same. And if you think everyone can not see my chest cavity, you are dead wrong. Do I really need to dig up EVERY post where you just said it was wasteful...now you are contradicting yourself For the 1000th time...your experience is yours alone, and you are not qualified to diagnose TC But again, my experience (having a visible deformity) is simalar to tc's. I dont think you have a deformity you could share with us. Im not diagnosing tc, im telling him that imo and from my experience, its a waste of money. Now, if this was a real incident with tc, then i would ask how exactly he feels about his nose. I could then see if it was worse or better than what i felt, but i cant do that. Im assuming that me having a cavity in my chest is alot more damaging to my self consious than a normal looking nose (looks big to tc) would be. (basing this off the pic)
[QUOTE="kipohippo021"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] Yes, I looked it up...not the same thing as something on your face Besides, the whole point is that you are assigning your own vales to TC when you are not qualified to do sorawsavon
If i can get dates with my chest, im sure girls can overlook a big nose. Tc should not feel so self conscious. Its not assigning my values, its first hand advice. That's assigning your own experience to someone else...exactly what I said...your experience is yours alone and no one else's Im passing my knowledge on to tc, i dont know tc, so it cant be definate. But i can offer all i know, thats more than you can say when you really dont have experience. Im just telling tc "try to get over it instead of wasting your money, from my experience, plastic surgery is a waste"
[QUOTE="kipohippo021"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] That does not make you an expert :lol: ...that is like saying b/c you survived cancer you are qualified to treat it...come on nowrawsavon
I have experience with a body deformity, one worse than a big nose. So if anything, my experince has more weight than yours would, i can tell tc to "get over it" cause thats what i did, and it worked. Its the best advice i can give, while you are going off hypothetical situations. 1. You lack a background in psychology to make any kind of diagnosis 2. (even if you did) You do not know tc to make a diagnosis...me may or may not have body image issues 3. just b/c you have a chest issue, that does not mean you understand a face issue 4. you are trying to assign your own idea of what is valuable/wasteful to someone else...that is no one's place to do (unless you waste nothing yourself...doing so is being hypocritical) Im not saying its wastefull, i just wouldnt put myself in debt over it. I accepted myself, if tc has a normal mind im sure he can do the same. And if you think everyone can not see my chest cavity, you are dead wrong.
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