I had this same problem. I found this girl who was so freaking nice and was not a nerd in any way but took all honors classes and was so damn nice. She liked me even before I knew her but I made the mistake of waiting 2-weeks and not asking her out and so she just kind of parted ways. Now she goes her way and I go mine. High school is a way to get experience with girls. Not to be serious. I was a kind guy just like you but I decided to wait to long and she just got bored I guess. Another thing, IF SOMEONE SAYS NO THEN WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH THEM? IF THEY DONT LOVE YOU THEN WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH THEM? Im not saying dont try asking a girl out but this point i made has been proved by other guys. YOUR GOAL IS TO GAIN EXPERIENCE WITH GIRLS, BIT BY BIT. AS YOU PROGRESS YOU WILL GET LONGER AND BETTER RELATIONSHIPS> ALSO< GET YOUR SELF KNOWN! HOW ARE YOU GOING TO GET A GIRL IF YOU ARE SHY?

Davyvfr

there's still one girl who i still like after she said no and we're still really good friends. and i give up after the no anyway most of the time, i know i don't have any chance of being with herbut it still feels like she was meant for me. that might just be because she wasso nice to me even after i asked her out and everyone else just shut me out of thier lives altogether

I think its pretty cool. I mean every moment something crazy is going on somewhere in the world. It just boggles my mind how enormous and full of life our planet is.

Karma_Houdini

and even more so how it's just a tiny spec in the universe

light a campfire on a piece of sheet metal and then tow it behind the quad for amusement.

i know this makes me sound retarded but it's just a random thought

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[QUOTE="VigilanteArtist"]

That's your problem. You say you "always treat girls with respect", but the truth is they don't always deserve it, and you should never treat people with respect unless they also show it for you. This isn't just a turn-off for women, it goes for guys too. By showing people "respect" when they don't have the same level of respect for you, you come off as slightly sychophantic.

Duckman5

i only treat people with respect if they deserve it. i liked one girl about a year ago and she turned out to be a totalb*tch and pissed me off to the point where i took a few swings at her with a railroad spike. being a psyco is second nature to me

Well no wonder no one wants to go out with you you sound like a psychopatch.

it was a one time occurence and nobody saw. i don't like being treated like crap and the loneliness gets into my head and breaks it down piece by piece and every once in a while actions provoke reactions

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[QUOTE="ParisHilton1Fan"]

Let me break it down Doctor Phil style for you; You're bitter because you're lonely. So you try to act like you don't need a significant other to be happy when deep down you desperately wish that an attractive male/female will notice you. This is the part where you burst out in tears because you know it's true.

ParisHilton1Fan

Note, i am not bitter. I may have been a little blunt, but this topic is so frequent people should have already learned how to deal with it. Next, you make it seem as if the only value i put in people is romantic value. Which is where you're wrong, my friend! I have and maintain a small number of remarkable friendships, with male and female alike, attractive or not.

What i seek, rather than romantic pleasure, is obtained by other means. You think other people can make you happy? Not really. What i'd hope of the OP is that he learns to make himself happy. You think having a regular sex partner is better than being happy? I'd wager not. You think valuable relationships are born out of desire for romantic outcomes? They're not. That, that, and that. Thank you.

Shh...Shh...Shh easy I'm here for you. *caresses*

WTF. everyone treats me like a retard and yet he gets sympathy just like that?

who else wants to blow someones brainsout with a 50.cal sniper? i do, it's fun

Excellent reply Sajedene. I would've said the same thing myself. In addition, maybe people think you're still head over heels the other girl so they don't bother coming up to you no more.irislogic

that's ruled out. i never got it in me to tell anyone about her

[QUOTE="nuclearwinter85"]

i'm a really nice guy and always treat girls with respect

VigilanteArtist

That's your problem. You say you "always treat girls with respect", but the truth is they don't always deserve it, and you should never treat people with respect unless they also show it for you. This isn't just a turn-off for women, it goes for guys too. By showing people "respect" when they don't have the same level of respect for you, you come off as slightly sychophantic.

i only treat people with respect if they deserve it. i liked one girl about a year ago and she turned out to be a totalb*tch and pissed me off to the point where i took a few swings at her with a railroad spike. being a psyco is second nature to me

[QUOTE="nuclearwinter85"]i'm a really nice guy and always treat girls with respect Rocky32189

well how bout i give you af***ing closed casket funeral? that any better?