That movie is so strange. I love it.
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negative one, because I believe in trying to help suffering people, but you're the positive one, because you turn a blind eye to other peoples' suffering? What?
mrbojangles25
when did I say I don't help people that are suffering and that I ignore them?
what I said is that I don't let it bother me, because ultimately it is on them to change their lives. It sounds stupid, but they need a hand up, not a hand out...and the world and people like you just love to give them handouts. Youre not helping anyone, youre only making them weaker and more dependent on misplaced Western guilt.
"Donate to the church" they say, "you'll be helping a starving kid"---by giving them...bibles? What about condoms? Oh, that goes against the catholic faith, so sure its fine to make millions more poor kids and spread AIDS around, but instead of teaching them how to farm and practice safe sex, we are perpetuating (and worsening) their same ***** situation theyve been in for decades.
What are you talking about? When did I say anything about donating or giving people handouts? Stop trying to make it seem like I am arguing for things that I have not even mentioned in this thread.
my my my you guys sure are defensive
no one knows "how the world works", all we can pretend to know is how our world works. As a result, I (and most everyone, for that matter) am not going to stress out because some African kid is starving to death because his government is led by a tyrannical sadist that ethnically cleansed his family and does not look after his people.
Do you know who's problem that is?
THE STARVING KID'S PROBLEM!
Not mine, not yours, not a midwestern American grain farmer's, not my friend's, not France's, not China's, not Jupiter's problem...it is a problem for that kid and his country.
It's funny, if this were a thread about international policy you'd problably criticize the US for sticking its fingers everywhere, but the second we show a hint of laissez-faireattitude, we are ignorant?
Whatever man...I am going to sit down, pop in a DVD of How to Train Your Dragon, crack open a 12-dollar bottle of Belgian ale, and relax. Have fun crying in the corner as you weep for humanity.
mrbojangles25
Wait, so I'm the negative one, because I believe in trying to help suffering people, but you're the positive one, because you turn a blind eye to other peoples' suffering? What?
[QUOTE="swamprat_basic"]
[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]I used to be like you, a glass is half empty kind of guy, I understand why you feel that way. But then I got out of school, got a job, and realized "Wow, life is actually pretty cool. I'm done feeling sad and/or angry". I hope you turn your state of mind around someday, yours is a depressing and self-defeating attitude that won't lend itself well to living your life.
In short, you might like to mourn the loss of a kid every 5 seconds. Me?I like to celebrate that every 2 seconds or so there are some happy parents with a nice new kid with that new kid smell, and that new kid might cure AIDS or cancer in 30 years or so.mrbojangles25
Thank you for your concerns, but they're completely unecessary. This is not a glass is half empty / glass is half full situation, in which two people are looking at the same situation and taking two different views on it. I am looking at the problem, while you are ignoring it.
I think most people are like you, happy in their own little individual snowglobe lives, ignorant of the fact that as good as we have it here in the first world, there are even more people who have it equally bad, if not worse, in the third world. But I understand why you feel the way you do. When you have everything you need, it is very easy to become ignorant of those who don't have access to those same necessities. And the even sadder part is that much of the ammenities we enjoy in the first world have only come about through the blood and sweat of the third world. Our fortune is their misfortune.
People have to be educated about the problem before they can find a solution. People have to be angry. Ignoring the problem only allows it to grow even worse.
oh no, I am not ignorant. I know how bad the world can be; I've been fortunate enough to travel to a lot of different parts of the world and see how people live their lives differently and, in many cases, to a lower standard than should be accepted.
But unlike you, I refuse to feel bad about it. We have it "good" in the first world because we work hard for it. My dad worked 60 hour weeks for 35+ years at the post office to ensure I had what I needed growing up. My mom went back to school and finished her degree at age 40 to help supplement this income and woke up at 5am every day, went to work, and didnt get back to 5 or 6 PM. I don't have it easy, either; I work 50 hours a week, I make under 20k a year (very little for California), I have loans to pay in addition to money to save for furthering my education. You need to keep in mind that everything is relative as well: some Amazonian tribe member might technical be poor from a wealth-standpoint, but I can guarentee you he or she is happier than I am. Its a good example of the things you own owning you.
At the risk of sounding like I am putting words in your mouth, you make it sound like the first world is privelaged simply out of coincidence or luck, and that the poor parts of the world are poor because of some sort of wrong-doing and that it is not their fault. If this is the case, then you are the one living in ignorance, a distorted "snow globe" world of cynicism and flawed statistics.
The world is anyone's for the taking, all it requires is hard work. It is time to stop blaming others, and time to start blaming yourself if your situation is crappy.
In short, I am not ignoring the problem because frankly, it is not my problem. I did not make anyone poor, I certainly dont owe the majority of the world anything, andif I did I am too poor to do anything about it. If someone is unhappy, well, t hey can work hard to rectifiy the situation.
You have absolutely zero idea how the world works, if you think that hard work is all it takes for someone to escape poverty in an underprivileged country.
I used to be like you, a glass is half empty kind of guy, I understand why you feel that way. But then I got out of school, got a job, and realized "Wow, life is actually pretty cool. I'm done feeling sad and/or angry". I hope you turn your state of mind around someday, yours is a depressing and self-defeating attitude that won't lend itself well to living your life.In short, you might like to mourn the loss of a kid every 5 seconds. Me?I like to celebrate that every 2 seconds or so there are some happy parents with a nice new kid with that new kid smell, and that new kid might cure AIDS or cancer in 30 years or so.mrbojangles25
Thank you for your concerns, but they're completely unecessary. This is not a glass is half empty / glass is half full situation, in which two people are looking at the same situation and taking two different views on it. I am looking at the problem, while you are ignoring it.
I think most people are like you, happy in their own little individual snowglobe lives, ignorant of the fact that as good as we have it here in the first world, there are even more people who have it equally bad, if not worse, in the third world. But I understand why you feel the way you do. When you have everything you need, it is very easy to become ignorant of those who don't have access to those same necessities. And the even sadder part is that much of the ammenities we enjoy in the first world have only come about through the blood and sweat of the third world. Our fortune is their misfortune.
People have to be educated about the problem before they can find a solution. People have to be angry. Ignoring the problem only allows it to grow even worse.
[QUOTE="swamprat_basic"]
The world of mankind is far, far worse that what the media shows us. Only within the US is the situation better than what the media generally portrays.
The media likes to hype up sensational news headlines like murders and Darfar and such, but they ignore the really bad stuff that either does not make for sensational headlines or that affects people the US doesn't care about.
mrbojangles25
really?
I think it is the opposite; for every time you hear about some sadistic jerk commiting genocide, there are millions of kind acts every day by people. Doctors saving lives...homeless getting sheltered...people forgiving eachother...babies being made...grandmothers celebrating their birthdays with their entire families.
all you need is a little imagination to realize what a great place the world is.
17,000 children die of hunger every single day across the globe (http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/europe/11/17/italy.food.summit/), despite the fact that the United States alone produces enough food to feed the entire world several times over and throws away just about 50% of the food it produces (http://www.good.is/post/the-united-states-is-a-food-wasteland/).
So please explain to me again how the world of mankind is better than the general media portrayal, because I don't understand.
If the news were to accurately portray the state of mankind, there would be a newsticker every 5 seconds saying "One more child has died of completely preventable starvation."
It depends on what the school's exact rule was.
If it is against all braids in general for male students, then that could be considered part of the school's dress code.
If it was specifically against cornrows, then yes, it is discrimination.
The world of mankind is far, far worse that what the media shows us. Only within the US is the situation better than what the media generally portrays.
The media likes to hype up sensational news headlines like murders and Darfar and such, but they ignore the really bad stuff that either does not make for sensational headlines or that affects people the US doesn't care about.
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