It's really not about what others think. Some will say yes others will say no. Only she can judge, so make a decision and see how she feels.

It really depends on how you think. There really is no answer to this. I for one believe that it does make a sound.

If you hurt a person and you don't feel the pain are they really hurt?

dude just tell her lol trust me. i told the girl that i like her and i thought she just wanted to be friends but now she's confused about whether she likes me or not. *it means she likes me but doesn't want to tell me* or is just using me for back up lol. but anyways just tell her how you feel if she's a really close friend. *btw the girl i told has a bf :P* good luck buddy

(p.s. sometimes its just better not knowing at all.)

[QUOTE="-Makaveli-"]No she doesn't. Sorry, bro, but I'm going to have to translate it for you.

"I'm currently happy with my boyfriend, but it's always nice to have a backup, so I'm going to give you the most neutral reply possible, in regard to me liking you, that yet still gives you hope. That way, if I ever get pissed off at my boyfriend, I can make a quick shift over to you, and if not, well, you're basically going to be waiting around, alone, for nothing, but that's not really my problem."

Chitzu

Can I buy you? :o

lol, that makes so much sense everytime i read it. she is a really caring person though.. not something she'd say but something inside me says its what shefeels but doesn't really think that. i really really like her. its not just a typical who gives apoop crush. ever since i started liking her she has been on my head. i sound so pathetic T_T

[QUOTE="torontogamer"]yeah, so there is this girl i really like with a boyfriend. A few months ago i told her i like her and i knew she had a bf but we've stayed close friends. *she said she has a bf*. Then now i asked her if she likes me and told her to say no if she doesn't and i wouldn't get hurt or anything. She said that if she would if she didn't but she isn't sure if she likes me or not. I asked her why she just can't tell me then she said "i don't want you to say or do what you want". So i'm confused, does she like me and doesn't want to say it or she doesn't like me or just doesn't know, but how can you not know..? :S any bright ideas?NavigatorsGhost

She doesn't like you.

At least not in a "hey, lets go do the naughty in the boys bathroom during school" way or a "hey, if you spend x amount of time with me and x amount of dollars on me, I might give you an hj" way.

She likes the fact that more than one guy is openly interested in her. Doesn't matter who the **** you are or what you look like. Girls like it when they openly know guys find them attractive.

Leave her the **** alone because otherwise you are just causing problems for everyone.

hmm yeah maybe but a lot of guys like her and she straight up told them no... :S

Leave her alone! She has a boyfriend. Imagine if she was your girl and some guy told her he liked her. Its not right. Dont try to get with a girl with a boyfriend.dark_templar_99

i agree but she said its nothing serious with him and nothing i say or do will influence her in anyway and like i said her bf doesn't care he's kinda proud :S. i know i myself wouldn't be happy about it, but she's faithful and devoted to him pretty much.

[QUOTE="torontogamer"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"][QUOTE="torontogamer"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"][QUOTE="torontogamer"]

[QUOTE="Airsoul"]If her boyfriend ever finds out, that you like her, then she might tell her boyfriend, and her boyfriend would come over and knock you down.3eyedrazorback

her bf knows and doesn't care and i've met him once lol. yeah he'd knock me down lol

Wow...You must just be a complete bad ass then.

lmao i wish, i'm not. her bf thinks i'm a nice guy according to her :S.

From experience only...I would say, don't make a girl choose man. It tears her up emotionally and she doesn't know what to think. Leave her be for the time, show her that you can break away from her and not talk to her...and maybe...if she really does like you...she'll come running after you. Keep that in mind.

yeah, your right. I apologized and said she doesn't have to say anything anymore. but i don't know how to break away from her she's like my best friend...friends first.

Girls are a weird breed my friend. Bea friend, but show her you have no intentions of liking her...so to speak. Just be there for her when she needs you, but don't tell her your feelings. Let her lay her cares upon you. For 2 reasons.

1. If you fall for her and she really doesn't like you...You'll be heartbroken

2. If she falls for you then you'll be RICH!

well too late for that, i told her how i feel already. and yeah i agree with you there.

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[QUOTE="Airsoul"]If her boyfriend ever finds out, that you like her, then she might tell her boyfriend, and her boyfriend would come over and knock you down.3eyedrazorback

her bf knows and doesn't care and i've met him once lol. yeah he'd knock me down lol

Wow...You must just be a complete bad ass then.

lmao i wish, i'm not. her bf thinks i'm a nice guy according to her :S.

From experience only...I would say, don't make a girl choose man. It tears her up emotionally and she doesn't know what to think. Leave her be for the time, show her that you can break away from her and not talk to her...and maybe...if she really does like you...she'll come running after you. Keep that in mind.

yeah, your right. I apologized and said she doesn't have to say anything anymore. but i don't know how to break away from her she's like my best friend...friends first.