[QUOTE="tripplebrow"] to tell you the truth...i have no idea why she likes me in the first place ._. second question, how do i find out if shes cheating or not?tofu-lion91
Surely there was something? How did you guys meet? And you can't really find out if she's cheating really...
i dont...remember how we met. she was just a stupid girl as far as i was concerned, so i didnt really put it to memory =/ and im the worst person i know, so no...i dont know why she likes me >_>
Well sounds like neither of you are interested. If your unhappy then break up with her. Talk things through first so you both leave with understanding and can learn from it.
im interested, i just dont like having the person closest to me be the most depressing thing ive ever seen.
Remember this rule and dont forget it. NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMEN ON YOUR WOMEN ISSUES AND I MEAN NEVER. If things arent right now then they wont be right later move on buddy there is plenty of fish in the sea. By the way how old are you?
tofu-lion91
Wow calm down. Unlike most guys on here, I don't just throw away relationships - I work with them and THEN see about breaking up. I'm just giving the poor guy a chance with his girlfriend, unlike most of the advice on here which is 'break up with her now'. He could be mistaken. She could be depressed. I'm just saying for him to talk things through with her and see about sorting things out before going and breaking up with her.
I've worked at some relationships and they really paid off. Like the other day things with Braindead_hero were getting boring so I talked to him about it and things are great now. You don't see me just dumping them at the first hurdle.
[QUOTE="tripplebrow"]well 1. shes a compulsive lier 2. she doesnt really show emotion towards me anymore 3. shes never around weve been together 8 months now and it seems like shes only depressed when shes around me it was great the first 7 months, i havent been doing anything wrong, and every time i ask her whats wrong she just shrugs me off. the only good part is that shes been getting alot more "physical" if you know what i mean but it seems like thats all she wants me for i love her, i really do, but i dont think i can take much more of her being drepressed let alone not knowing her friends also treat me like im a puppy whos been kicked to many times for some reason...ayanami_rei
You will have to talk to her about that. Tell her why you're thinking, etc. Tell her you want to know what is wrong and why she seems to be acting the way she is now. If that doesn't work, you might have to tell her that it is done. Being cheated on isn't fun--especially when you've been cheated on five times. i wish i could say that i knew what thats like, but i dont so i cant help you much...ive only been cheated on twice. i really dont know why...im not THAT bad of a person =/ i just kinda brush it off, because i know that no one should be cheated on, "if she wants him then she needs to get rid of me first" is how i feel about it
[QUOTE="tripplebrow"]thats probably the best advice ive gotten all week 0.o are you jesus?balindos
Glad to have helped :) Yes I'm Jesus, I do relationship councelling on the side :P
I haven't really had the problem that you have but both my past relationships lost the spark and I worked hard to keep them going. Instead of staying in I took the guy out, went for picnics, to the movies and did different stuff. I think that if you apply this to your situation (after having a long talk with your girl) then you can show her why she fell in love with you in the first place :)
to tell you the truth...i have no idea why she likes me in the first place ._. second question, how do i find out if shes cheating or not?
Remember this rule and dont forget it. NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMEN ON YOUR WOMEN ISSUES AND I MEAN NEVER. If things arent right now then they wont be right later move on buddy there is plenty of fish in the sea. By the way how old are you?
[QUOTE="tripplebrow"] to tell you the truth...i have no idea why she likes me in the first place ._. second question, how do i find out if shes cheating or not?tofu-lion91
Surely there was something? How did you guys meet? And you can't really find out if she's cheating really...
i dont...remember how we met. she was just a stupid girl as far as i was concerned, so i didnt really put it to memory =/ and im the worst person i know, so no...i dont know why she likes me >_>
[QUOTE="tripplebrow"]thats probably the best advice ive gotten all week 0.o are you jesus?tofu-lion91
Glad to have helped :) Yes I'm Jesus, I do relationship councelling on the side :P
I haven't really had the problem that you have but both my past relationships lost the spark and I worked hard to keep them going. Instead of staying in I took the guy out, went for picnics, to the movies and did different stuff. I think that if you apply this to your situation (after having a long talk with your girl) then you can show her why she fell in love with you in the first place :)
to tell you the truth...i have no idea why she likes me in the first place ._. second question, how do i find out if shes cheating or not?
[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="tripplebrow"]well 1. shes a compulsive lier 2. she doesnt really show emotion towards me anymore 3. shes never around weve been together 8 months now and it seems like shes only depressed when shes around me it was great the first 7 months, i havent been doing anything wrong, and every time i ask her whats wrong she just shrugs me off. the only good part is that shes been getting alot more "physical" if you know what i mean but it seems like thats all she wants me for i love her, i really do, but i dont think i can take much more of her being drepressed let alone not knowing her friends also treat me like im a puppy whos been kicked to many times for some reason... Well tell her. Tell her what you've just told us. Then say if things don't improve then they won't work out. Bring back the spark, take her out on a picnic or something. If things don't improve and you're unhappy then break up with her. thats probably the best advice ive gotten all week 0.o are you jesus?
well 1. shes a compulsive lier 2. she doesnt really show emotion towards me anymore 3. shes never around weve been together 8 months now and it seems like shes only depressed when shes around me it was great the first 7 months, i havent been doing anything wrong, and every time i ask her whats wrong she just shrugs me off. the only good part is that shes been getting alot more "physical" if you know what i mean but it seems like thats all she wants me for i love her, i really do, but i dont think i can take much more of her being drepressed let alone not knowing her friends also treat me like im a puppy whos been kicked to many times for some reason...
because i think my girlfriend is cheating, and ive tried confronting her about it, but she says shes not. sometimes i think that maybe i want to think shes cheating so i can just break it off with her what should i do? any advice?
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