I'm 33 and have children myself. I've been gaming since the age of 4 (ZX Spectrum) and understand the stigma attached to having video games as your favourite pass-time. I openly encourage my kids to play games whenever possible (after homework/chores etc... ) as I know, not only how much fun they are, but also how educational they can be.
Don't get me wrong I also push my kids to play sports and exercise but I just don't understand the parents who push their kids to be more "social" and go out with friends whenever possible instead of gaming. They have usually taken note of the media who portray gamers as either socially inept lock-ins or gun toting psychopaths. Truth be told I believe kids are much more at risk hanging around with friends outside where peer-pressure plays a massive role in kids trying smoking, drugs, alcohol and petty crime. Much more than video games ever have.
My honest opinion is that if a child is a violent sociopath it's generally down to some deep rooted psychological problem, not through playing a few hours on GTA. In my youth I've played games for days on end and never felt the need to hurt another human being nor have I become an emotional cripple. It's just too easy for people to point the finger at video games or movies, as the possibility that people are just inherently evil or socially incompatible is a hard truth to accept. It takes away any illusion of control we may have over our society.
The most important thing is that kids are raised in a loving and nurturing environment. Irrespective of the games they play or movies they watch.
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